I'm so upset! My mom and sister won't stop doing drugs!!?!
Question: I'm so upset! My mom and sister won't stop doing drugs!!!?
In January of this year I finally made the choice to stop doing drugs and after a month of life changing rehab I got out and began a new life!. Now, 5 months later I myself have never been happier but my younger sister and my mom just will not stop! My two best friends still do it too!. I feel like I have nothing and nobody except for my clueless dad who doesn't even know what's going on in my mother's home!. My mom missed an entire week of work while my sister was in a mental institution because she and I are bipolar but she did drugs every day so she ended up there while I was getting help and she had been good for so long and now today she told me that she started again two weeks ago!. When I asked her why she would do that to herself and stoop so low all she said was "well mom does it soo!.!." What am I supposed to do!? I've tried for over a year but neither of them listen to me! They think i'm jealous because I can't do drugs anymore when I tell them constantly that my life has neverWww@Answer-Health@Com
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im really sorry to hear that about your mom and sister, how old is your younger sister!? maybe you should suggest that she come live with you and your dad!.!.!.because although your mom has a problem too, it seems as though your sister could easily get out of it with some hard work!.
try talking to your sister without your mom around, because she seems to be an enabler of the drug usage!. maybe suggest therapy with her!.!.!.just to talk
i want to say congratulations for being drug free!. i know its hard and a struggle, but remember- you did it!. please try not to surround yourself with people who still do it (you said you had some friends) and jsut tell them listen, its too hard to be around!.
i hope you stay drug free, and try to help your sister!. your mom seems to have made up her mind, and im sorry that you have that kind of mom!. just try to surround yourself with positive people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try talking to your sister without your mom around, because she seems to be an enabler of the drug usage!. maybe suggest therapy with her!.!.!.just to talk
i want to say congratulations for being drug free!. i know its hard and a struggle, but remember- you did it!. please try not to surround yourself with people who still do it (you said you had some friends) and jsut tell them listen, its too hard to be around!.
i hope you stay drug free, and try to help your sister!. your mom seems to have made up her mind, and im sorry that you have that kind of mom!. just try to surround yourself with positive people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to think about yourself so that you don't go back to using drugs!. Your mother and sister will not stop doing drugs until they really want to stop!. There is really nothing you can do to make them stop!. Remember misery like company so don't let yourself fall into this trap!. I would also suggest that you stay as far away from them as you can until they get their act together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
good for you, but nothing you do or say is going to make them stop!. they'll have to do that themselves!. as much as you're going to hate it, you'll just have to keep away from them!. maybe that way, they'll realize somethings wrong!. keep up the good work!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, congrats on being drug free, hopefully you never relapse on that path again!. you'll have a bright future, and I hope the same for your mother and sister!. They don't want to help themselves obviously so someone needs to intervene to do this!. Act now!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
you did what you had to do and that
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