Do you think there really is a 2 sides to some peoples personalities.?!


Question: Do you think there really is a 2 sides to some peoples personalities!.!?
or that someone can regress and take out the problems they had as a child out on someone closest to them, without realising they are doing it!.!.!.!.Because my partner seems to see me as some kind of monster and calls me some awful things sometimes !. and really doesnt have anything good to say about!. (but says he loves me!)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I was once in a relationship whereby my partner would blame each of his mistakes on things which had happened in his childhood and as with your experience, would tell me that he loved me!. We would argue and his excuse was always his past, asthough I was expected to forgive him due to bad experiences when he was young and yet!.!.!.should I have blamed something upon my bad experiences he would have called me self centred, ridiculous, and unable to let go!. The fact is, we are all hurt in life and we each experience pain and torment at some point and those who blame their behaviour and their mistakes on their past are only cowards who cannot see that we ALL have ups and downs which tend to be equally divided should we look closely!. Do these people deserve our sympathy!?

Perhaps there is two sides to a person's personality!.!.!.perhaps its just an excuse!? There are no certainties, but imagine how life would be should we all blame our present/future mistakes on something someone once said to us, or a loved one dying etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes,i believe we all have different sides to our personalities,it all depends on the situation,also if someone consumes alcohol or any other drug,it tends to alter the persons personality,sometimes they become different and show a side they might of held back,but know there is bad and good in everyone!.try telling your partner how you feel when he tells you the mean things he does and that if he loves you he would not be saying those things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The problem is just as much about the fact that we often view our own behaviour through rose tinted spectacles!. And fail to see how we can provoke or offend others because we fail to put ourselves in their position!.

I suspect that the problems you are having are about the way that both of you are treating each other and not just his behaviour!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is 100%%%% true!.!.!.some people have more than one personality!.!.!.!.i do!.!.!.i have a few lol!.!.!.it depends how i feel tht day or about certain people!.!.in one breath ill tell my bf i love him the next ill say i hate him but i will mean it!.!.!.

I dont think it hinders the way ur partner feels about u!.!.!.some people are moody!.!.!.very moody!.!.!.but u need to adresse the things he calls u especially if there derogatory!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

think there is two sides to most people personalities if ur parnter being nasty tell her u dont like it and it makes u feel sad maybe she doesnt realise how much she hurting u as she hurt inside good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yea, When I Feel Good, I Am Totally Hyper, But Bad, I Am Really Anxious And Irritable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stay positive!. That's how it is when you married!. You see the true colours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Advise get rid of him! Two sides!? More than that at least!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes i think its true, your husband needs to seek help before he takes it out on you with more than just words xWww@Answer-Health@Com





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