Is is stress, depression, or exhaustion?!
Question: Is is stress, depression, or exhaustion!?
i don't know what the 'proper question' is, but i have been feeling tired, i occasionally go to sleep a bit late, but i always make up the time lost!. i've been feeling as if i have been feeling pressured!. Everyday after school, i get easily ticked off at my dad or my little sister, just if they ask me a question!. My mom is what pisses me off every single day, i try to control my anger, but she always finds a way to make me angry!. My girlfriend is the only thing that actually makes me calm and happy but she wants me to talk to her about all my problems, and i have no clue y, but i just don't want too, because i assume it won't change a thing!. I isolate myself in my room, every single day, i only go downstairs to eat or out of my room to use the restroom, school, go outside, or my mom/sister/dad calls me!. i rarely talk to my parents, and when i go out with my parents, i just look out the window hoping to ignoring them, not wanting to talk!. if this made any sensee, what am i going thru!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It doesn't help you to know that so many teens go through similar crap as you described, it is the hormones and it is also the situations that keep happening to you!. I had a horrible time as a teen, for no reason, I had a great family, nice home, sweet boyfriend that I loved and was excited about, a nice life, but still, I was rotten so often to my beloved family and I can't believe now how it was for me and some of the awful things I said and did!. My family endured me being a jerk and I did grow out of it, some of our own children breezed through this time of life with a smile and some of them had a rough time also!.
We did go to a psychiatrist, nobody liked him much but he was helpful and going gave them a common ground also that was good!. Our kids did take some medications off and on but whether or not it really helped is anybody's guess!.
I do know this!. What you do is really what you are!. It sounds like you love your little sister a lot so when you get this angry reaction to her, tell her and try to laugh about it!. Say something like, '' Hay little sister, you know I am a real Jerk of a Teen Ager right now and everything makes me flame including your question!. But you didn't do anything wrong, just pretend I'm smiling or something!.''
It's a little more heavy duty with your mom because she seems from what you say to have fallen into the trap, the same pit you did, of saying what is exactly the wrong thing to say at the wrong time!. We all do that but when MOM does it, it becomes a crisis!. Can you just go to her and hug her !? Shock the crap right out of her and mean it !? After all, you two did share the same body for 9 months and that counts for something!. Moms are just the girlfriends who grew up and had babies and want to do the right and loving thing but sometimes don't know how!.
Oh, and staying in your room isn't awful if you are working out, reading, reading something with a positive attitude might help you, negative stuff, nope!.
How about some of those help yourself books for teens !? Tried any !? Nothing to lose there and who knows, maybe some of them have something to say that will sound O K to you!.
You are lucky to have a nice girlfriend!. Think of how lucky you are to have your own room!. Most of the people in this world do not!. Most don't have anything compared to us here in our country!.
Almost forgot - you are probably right on target with the stress, depression or exhaustion thing in your question!. Life is stress for all of us in many ways, and depression is a part of life too, and all our kids were horribly sleep deprived when they were in school and that made them depressed and feel stressful and short tempered and just plain rotten!. Sometimes our kids would sleep all day on the weekends and not even get dressed to leave the house!. Sometimes they'd stay home from school and just sleep all day too!.
In my opinion, you are a whole lot better off than most guys just because you wrote this question and were able to do this, asking what you are thinking about!. I hated the uncertainty I felt as a teen, and how I was and that I had a hard time for no good reason and made life miserable for my family too often!. I hope you keep the faith that it can be better for yourself!.
I just had a flash of wisdom!. Get a book, get 10 books about teen age psychology and find out about it for yourself!. That should make you feel better about yourself and make your life better for you to live it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We did go to a psychiatrist, nobody liked him much but he was helpful and going gave them a common ground also that was good!. Our kids did take some medications off and on but whether or not it really helped is anybody's guess!.
I do know this!. What you do is really what you are!. It sounds like you love your little sister a lot so when you get this angry reaction to her, tell her and try to laugh about it!. Say something like, '' Hay little sister, you know I am a real Jerk of a Teen Ager right now and everything makes me flame including your question!. But you didn't do anything wrong, just pretend I'm smiling or something!.''
It's a little more heavy duty with your mom because she seems from what you say to have fallen into the trap, the same pit you did, of saying what is exactly the wrong thing to say at the wrong time!. We all do that but when MOM does it, it becomes a crisis!. Can you just go to her and hug her !? Shock the crap right out of her and mean it !? After all, you two did share the same body for 9 months and that counts for something!. Moms are just the girlfriends who grew up and had babies and want to do the right and loving thing but sometimes don't know how!.
Oh, and staying in your room isn't awful if you are working out, reading, reading something with a positive attitude might help you, negative stuff, nope!.
How about some of those help yourself books for teens !? Tried any !? Nothing to lose there and who knows, maybe some of them have something to say that will sound O K to you!.
You are lucky to have a nice girlfriend!. Think of how lucky you are to have your own room!. Most of the people in this world do not!. Most don't have anything compared to us here in our country!.
Almost forgot - you are probably right on target with the stress, depression or exhaustion thing in your question!. Life is stress for all of us in many ways, and depression is a part of life too, and all our kids were horribly sleep deprived when they were in school and that made them depressed and feel stressful and short tempered and just plain rotten!. Sometimes our kids would sleep all day on the weekends and not even get dressed to leave the house!. Sometimes they'd stay home from school and just sleep all day too!.
In my opinion, you are a whole lot better off than most guys just because you wrote this question and were able to do this, asking what you are thinking about!. I hated the uncertainty I felt as a teen, and how I was and that I had a hard time for no good reason and made life miserable for my family too often!. I hope you keep the faith that it can be better for yourself!.
I just had a flash of wisdom!. Get a book, get 10 books about teen age psychology and find out about it for yourself!. That should make you feel better about yourself and make your life better for you to live it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry if they sounds stereotypical, but thats how 90% of teenagers are!. You are going through hormone changes of puberty!. Hope things get better!. And talk to your gf, she just wants to help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anxiety!. Schedule with a mental health professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Probably a little of everything to tell ya the truth!. It's easy to let ourselves run down and then get cranky at others close to us!. If you trust this friend of yours- i'd talk to her about your issues- it's good to just let yourself vent to another person and get it out on the table!. If you don't- talk to a school counselor or another type of one- it's good to have someone that don't typically know you to have an unbasis opinion!. Just open your heart to others around you and take some time for you! You're get through it!.!.!.!.take careWww@Answer-Health@Com