Help me, this society is doing something really negative to my brain?!


Question: Help me, this society is doing something really negative to my brain!?
I got some psychological problems that i have to fix right now!. I want to live in a life of PURE!. please let me explain!. Currently i am 19 years old, and every time i saw girls i got those kinds of thoughts!. i want to view girls differently!. I want to change my thought!. My brain wire has to change!. But how!? Please help me on this problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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first of all there is NOTHING wrong with you!. finding females sexually attractive at ur age is sooooo perfectly normal!. infact if you did not find females (or males depending on ur orientation) sexually attractive then soem professionals would say there was something wrong then!. thats the first step!. the 2nd step is to be aware of atmospheres that might be higher trigger areas for you then others!. for example, going to a beach/pool with girls in swimsuits might not be the best idea to get back in control of ur own mind!. lastly, try to remember that every female you objectivify is more then a piece of meat more then just a sex object!. if you can remember that each female is a person with feelings and amibitions and deserves to be treated as such that will help also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunatly the way today's society is here it is very difficult to do that!. There isn't really a solution to this problem unfortunatly!. We live in a society that allows girls to run around half naked, have billboards and ads up with woman that are covered by very small objects, just enough to stay in the law!. As the years go on our society wants to see how much further they can push things!. The only way in our society to stay pure from all that would be to stay in your house 24/7, never turn on the tv, or anything!. Which is impossible to do!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunately in todays society it is ok for girls to walk around half naked and call it fashion!. For young men like yourself it is a very hard thing to handle!. That is ok!. You feeling this way about women is ok you are changing and thoughts are not bad!. When we dwell on thoughts they tend to impact us negatively!. So when you find yourself seeing a girl and having impure thoughts then think of something else and try to divert your eyes!. You are normal though it is unfortunate that more girls do not know what they are doing to young men by dressing that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Try praying to God to help you focus on the positive!. There are many wonderful things that you can think about whenever you see a a girl!. You can think of how beautiful God has created such a person!. You can think of how she beautifies the world!. You can think of how wonderful her off springs will be!. You can guess , for example, if she is a student or what profession she is pursuing!. Is she a nurse or a teacher,for example!? How has she contributed to the society or the world!? Has she been on a missionary trip!? Is she an athlete!? Does she have a pleasant personality!? How many sisters and brothers does she has!? What position does she take in the family!? Does she have children!? Is she married!? etc!. etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are being very hard on yourself

it is human nature to take an interest in the opposite or attracting sex , you are "wired" that way

if you view woman as individual and not as sex objects you are doing well

trying to live a good life is a good start
trying to act like a good person automatically makes you a good person because you care enough to tryWww@Answer-Health@Com

There is no such thing as a PURE life, and nobody's life is completely perfect!. Do not judge by their outer appearances!. I'm not sure what you're asking, and how you view girls differently!. Maybe you hated them a lot more than before!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Number one do you see a doc!? if not you need to go right away! I am not saying you are a bad person for this!. But you have to get this fixed!. you dont want to end up hurting someone! the doc can help and they will help you think about women a bit differnt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are going to have your sex drive for much of your adult life!. But as you have experience dating women and getting to know the feminine mystique, you will view women less as sex objects and more as friends and partners!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your human, stop going to church, its all BS, watch TMZ daily!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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