Self Confidence...?!
Question: Self Confidence!.!.!.!?
Well, i know my mom says i am beautiful, but none of the guys like me!. Im just there "friend" i am the nicest girl in the class!. MY friend, the meanest to EVERYONE, has all the guys liking her!. they call her hot and everything!. I am really depressed and have low self esteem right now, Is there anything u suggest i do!? ( ps!. no im not Emo and i dont cut myself, i am a very happy person, i am having a REALLY bad day!.!. )Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You know, I heard that its the really pretty girls that feel this way because all the guys are too intimidated to make a move!. You sound like a really nice and mature girl and guys gravitate towards that when they like you!. Perosnally, I get along better with guys and my friends have always called me a "cool dude with long hair" haha- And trust me I look nothing like a boy! Your friend who all the guys think is "hot" may seem to get all the attention now, but just you wait until they realize she all looks an no personality!. Unfortunately middle/high school is one of the most shallow places ever- I guarantee once you get a little older- the guys will be chasing you!. Guaranteed!. =) Don't be so down on yourself!. And Moms don't lie!. Good luck sweetieWww@Answer-Health@Com
One book "Why men love bitches, " it is true, normally, the good girl finishes last!. You are probably too young to be worried about guys likeing you, so do something productive, be the smartest girl in class, in the long run, that would be the most rewarding to yourself, and you can always throw it in their faces later!.!.!.!.beauty is only skin deep and can be taken away in a heart beat, the brain is priceless!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have the same exact problem, and i've come to find that it's your atitude if you don't have confidence it shows and guys like confidence, like guys will add me on myspace cause of my looks but in realy life no guy really talks to me cause i'm so self conscious and shy, u just really need to start seeing yourself in a good way, look in the mirror and instead of focuing on the bad things, focus on the good things, talk to guys and show confidence and they will like you, no matter how you look :) their is this girl who looks plain as dirt and all the boys like her, but you know wat she has!.!.!.!.!.!.!. confidence thats all you need :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
screw those boys! if they only care about ur mean friend then y would u want those guys only liking u 4 ur rudeness and don't care about ur personality!. hun, i know it's hard but the right guy will come!. i was in ur situation when i was younger but i got through it and now i'v got an amazing bf and guys appreciate me more!.
all the best,
and good luck!!;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
all the best,
and good luck!!;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest that you continue to be yourself!. At your age, guys are immature, and only care about certain qualities in a girl!. But one day, the tables will turn in your favor, and guys will like you instead of her!.!.!.!.BE YOURSELF! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
R U MY MIRROR IMAGE CUZ THAT DESCRIPTION HAS ME WRITTEN ALLLLL OVER IT!!?! im sorry but idk how to fix it, if u get an answer tell me, k!. i just wait for the good events to happen where i dont even realize how i look!. focus on those and those only!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
boys like what they can't have!. so pick a specific boy!. lead him to you!. act like you don't want him!. and no matter what never reveal that you like him!.keep impressing him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should start being a jerk and sarcastic to other people!. What I have found that If i am a jerk, I get the chicks!. So its some psychology stuff that I am not going to get into!.Www@Answer-Health@Com