Help,i want to comit suicide?!
Question: Help,i want to comit suicide!?
I am very miserable because i just can't seem to get over my broken heart!.Its been 2 years since my ex left me!.
I just can't live like this!.So i figure out the way to take away the pain is to kill myself!.
I just recently got my own place,which i alwys dream about it but yet i am still depress!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I just can't live like this!.So i figure out the way to take away the pain is to kill myself!.
I just recently got my own place,which i alwys dream about it but yet i am still depress!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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hey i went through the same thing!. I tried to kill myself but my mom stopped me!. It took me 3 yrs to get over my ex!. I think u need to be around someone its not safe!. It will get better i promise!. If u need anything e-mail me @hotchg@yahoo!.com!. U know it will get better!. I went through the same thing and sometimes still love the guy but its not painful!. I am numb to his pain!. I know how u feel and I am sorry yur going through thisWww@Answer-Health@Com
Life is too precious to waste like this!. I was in the same state of mind long back because of love, but now I have realized that depression is a temporary state of mind, the more you think about it, the more you fall into it!. The less you think about it , & you wont even remember about it!. I would suggest, try to make new friends they are the best stress reliever!. Remember try to give more in friendship rather than expect anything from them!. The world would be a beautiful place to live in if everyone would think in that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well i think you need to consider a different option to get over the pain!. Ive been in your position, and i found out that talking it through with someone is so much better, i no its hard but taking your own life because the one you love has left you is not worth it, there is plenty more fish in the sea!.
How about going out and meeting new people and socialising alot more, your bound to find someone new, it just takes time!.
Another way of dealing with your feelings, is getting a note book and write down everytime you feel upset, how it started, why, how it could be better!. I kept a diary and it got all my feelings out and down and i could then control my own mind, by thinking of the good things in life and thinking of things i wanted to happen in my life, or celebrities i like or want to meet!. Keep your mind occupied n the right bloke will come along in no time!. But if u don't your givin no other lad a chance!Www@Answer-Health@Com
How about going out and meeting new people and socialising alot more, your bound to find someone new, it just takes time!.
Another way of dealing with your feelings, is getting a note book and write down everytime you feel upset, how it started, why, how it could be better!. I kept a diary and it got all my feelings out and down and i could then control my own mind, by thinking of the good things in life and thinking of things i wanted to happen in my life, or celebrities i like or want to meet!. Keep your mind occupied n the right bloke will come along in no time!. But if u don't your givin no other lad a chance!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well there is never a good reason to kill yourself!.
suicide should never be a way out!.
think about your family and friends that care about you!.
I feel that god will put the person you are meant to be with in your life, and that person may not be him!.
think of all the good and positive things in your life you have to live for!.
i would suggest you go to a doctor to talk about this, also let your mother or father!. Maybe even a sister or brother know about how you feel and whats going on so they can help you get through this!. You don't have to do it alone!. And you certainly don't have to end your life!. I hope this helps and just know there is someone out there waiting to love you!. You just haven't found him yet!. Good luck with your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
suicide should never be a way out!.
think about your family and friends that care about you!.
I feel that god will put the person you are meant to be with in your life, and that person may not be him!.
think of all the good and positive things in your life you have to live for!.
i would suggest you go to a doctor to talk about this, also let your mother or father!. Maybe even a sister or brother know about how you feel and whats going on so they can help you get through this!. You don't have to do it alone!. And you certainly don't have to end your life!. I hope this helps and just know there is someone out there waiting to love you!. You just haven't found him yet!. Good luck with your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i feel your pain, but suicide is not the ansewer you should press on and find the RIGHT person and quit concentrating on this person,they are not your soul mate!.and besides killing yourself would be wrong i don't think you want that kind of pain where you will end up on the other side!. i am shure that you have friends and family that love you also so keep your head up and get out there and find that RIGHT person for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honey, life is a precious gift that should not be ended purposely for any reason, especially over a relationship!. If it has been two years and you still feel so distraught, why not seek counseling!? Focus on your new place and focus each day on doing something new and fun with it!. Start today by doing something fun with your bedroom, get some new decorations or add a new color!. It's amazing what a few throw pillows can do! Seriously though, suicide is not the answer!. It is very selfish, just think of who you will hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it's hard and it feels like the pain is never going to go away!. You actually believe that because 2 yrs has passed!. But let me tell you one thing: Time will definitely heal you!. Perhaps the wound is much deeper that's y it is taking much longer to heal!.
For all you know, the wound may heal in a couple of days!.
There are other men around!. I always believe in one thing!.!.!. and that is there is somebody for everybody!. You have not found that someone yet!. You must live on in order to find him and also to give him a chance to find you!. :)
Pls don't kill yourself!. I suggest you wake up and watch the sunrise!. You will realise there is nothing in this world worth killing yourself over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For all you know, the wound may heal in a couple of days!.
There are other men around!. I always believe in one thing!.!.!. and that is there is somebody for everybody!. You have not found that someone yet!. You must live on in order to find him and also to give him a chance to find you!. :)
Pls don't kill yourself!. I suggest you wake up and watch the sunrise!. You will realise there is nothing in this world worth killing yourself over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should research mental health professionals in your area!. a therapist, etc!. some places have free programs!. You need to talk this out with a professional and see if that will help!.
Suicide will not solve your problems, in fact, it will cause new problems for others in your life!. Your family, your friends, your work, your everything will be effected!. Do not let your ex boyfriend end your life and cause pain and heartache to you family by losing you!.
Seek out some counseling!. You will be glad you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide will not solve your problems, in fact, it will cause new problems for others in your life!. Your family, your friends, your work, your everything will be effected!. Do not let your ex boyfriend end your life and cause pain and heartache to you family by losing you!.
Seek out some counseling!. You will be glad you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop thinking like that!.
There is so much 'world' for you to discover!.
Have you lived in another state!?
Have you hiked the Grand Canyon or stood on the shores of Niagra Falls!?
Have you seen the place where the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans meet!?
Have you walked across a natural land bridge!?
Have you ever seen sea turtles come ashore to lay their eggs!?
Have you ever had dinner with friends and laughed all night long!?
Have you ever seen the stars from a country hillside in Texas!?
Have you ever been to the top of the Empire State Building!?
Have you ever swam with dolphins in Florida!?
Have you ever bought a blank canvas and painted a huge picture!?
Have you!? Have you!? Have you!?
Bet not!.!.!.you can't do any of these things dead!.!.!.you better rethink your decisions!. So much life left in you!.!.!.that you haven't even touched on yet!. You'd be hurting more people than you think and that guy that left you!.!.!.won't be one of them!. You have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle!.!.!.you just have to want it!. Life is WAY to important to blow on just one dude!. Especially when there are SO many out there!. Stop living for a significant other and start living for yourself!
P!.S!. Suicide is perhaps the most selfish thing that anyone in the world could ever do to those that DO love them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is so much 'world' for you to discover!.
Have you lived in another state!?
Have you hiked the Grand Canyon or stood on the shores of Niagra Falls!?
Have you seen the place where the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans meet!?
Have you walked across a natural land bridge!?
Have you ever seen sea turtles come ashore to lay their eggs!?
Have you ever had dinner with friends and laughed all night long!?
Have you ever seen the stars from a country hillside in Texas!?
Have you ever been to the top of the Empire State Building!?
Have you ever swam with dolphins in Florida!?
Have you ever bought a blank canvas and painted a huge picture!?
Have you!? Have you!? Have you!?
Bet not!.!.!.you can't do any of these things dead!.!.!.you better rethink your decisions!. So much life left in you!.!.!.that you haven't even touched on yet!. You'd be hurting more people than you think and that guy that left you!.!.!.won't be one of them!. You have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle!.!.!.you just have to want it!. Life is WAY to important to blow on just one dude!. Especially when there are SO many out there!. Stop living for a significant other and start living for yourself!
P!.S!. Suicide is perhaps the most selfish thing that anyone in the world could ever do to those that DO love them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont kill your self a man IS never worth your self! !.!.!.!.!. Just think positive ! !.!.!. Think wow you got your own place you are probably beautiful !.!. you could have any guy in the world !.!.!. it takes time to heal a broken heart trust me i am still trying to get over one from 10 years ago !.!. It hurts but you must move on dont be silly and kill your self you never know you might have a love right around the corneer and you wont know if you were to take the easy way out be strong you can do it!
God bless you and your broken heartWww@Answer-Health@Com
God bless you and your broken heartWww@Answer-Health@Com
There is nopoint killing yourself, just relax, distract yourself!.
My dad has recently died at 52 and i am 16 and it hurt bt i try to distract myself and enjoy my life!.
Im sure ex wouldn't want this for you!.
Think about it, you have done good for yourself, you have got yourself a place where you can chill and as you said that was your dream!. Why waste what you have worked towards over a man, its your life enjoy it you deserve it!.
Hang out with your mates, go for a drink on the town, just socialize enjoy it!.
give yourself another dream/goal to give you something to work towards and live towards!.!.!.it worth it chick!.
hope this helps and you see clearly!.
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
My dad has recently died at 52 and i am 16 and it hurt bt i try to distract myself and enjoy my life!.
Im sure ex wouldn't want this for you!.
Think about it, you have done good for yourself, you have got yourself a place where you can chill and as you said that was your dream!. Why waste what you have worked towards over a man, its your life enjoy it you deserve it!.
Hang out with your mates, go for a drink on the town, just socialize enjoy it!.
give yourself another dream/goal to give you something to work towards and live towards!.!.!.it worth it chick!.
hope this helps and you see clearly!.
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk to someone!. If you're not comfortable talking to anyone close to you, here are some numbers you can call!. They are very beneficial and can help you get through this difficult time in your life:
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
Keep your head up!. Life goes on!. There is no reason to think that there is nothing left to live for, I promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
Keep your head up!. Life goes on!. There is no reason to think that there is nothing left to live for, I promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't kill yourself!. You may not know it, but you are very important to some people!. Some people do love you!. Killing yourself will take that love away from them!.
Please talk to someone!. Talk to anyone!. Talk with a friend, a pastor, police officer, firefighter, doctor or counsler!. Please just talk with someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please talk to someone!. Talk to anyone!. Talk with a friend, a pastor, police officer, firefighter, doctor or counsler!. Please just talk with someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey girl dont commit suicide!. its not the end of the world!.!.!! ive been in that state before, and also tried to commit suicide!.!. why are you stil not over him!.!.!? he's not the only fish in the sea, there are still lots of guys out there!. come out of your shell, try and meet new friends and maybe you can find someone new out there, much better than your ex!.!.so, come on, live a better life now!. dont just go depressed just for that guy!.!.he's just worthless and trash for making you so miserable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, I've never seen so many answers to one question and I didn't realize that there were so many people out here in answer land that actually cared!. Last thing I did before I started typing this was check to see how many answers you gotten!. I was to be #51 and I'm a slow typist!. Hope you realize how many people care that are complete strangers to you, now think of losing someone that you love to death, perhaps your ex!. Now get some help for yourself, your not stupid or you wouldn't have your own place or the computer your typing on!. Good luck with life, you have a long way to go my dear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know I always thought of suicide as such a waste of life!. You never know what is going to happen tomorrow and why would you want to miss that!? I know that breaking up with someone you love is really hard and you feel like you will never love anyone else, but that is just not true!. Love will find you again!. In the meantime try to find yourself and what you like!. Do you have a Friend you can call!? Go out and but something you don't really need but want!. DO anything!. Just get out of the house and start living!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you both feel strongly about each other I think you instincts are right!.
He is afraid of losing you and being hurt!.
Sit down with him and tell him gently that you understand how he feels, and that you accept that he doesn't want/need a close relationship right now!.
Tell him that you would be happy to be friends with him, with no pressure or anything like that and he can come and talk to you anytime he needs a shoulder to lean on!.
If he agrees to this - then accept it as it ,is a loving friendship that is supportive and at this time non sexual!.
Right now he need a friend, not a lover!.
By being that friend - you get to be near him and can help him through this trauma!.
If he says no - then sorry love - you'll have to accept that he is not ready to stay committed at this time!. And he may want to commit most of his time to his mum!.
Although it will be very hard on you, if you can keep friendly contact with him, and be there when he needs a friend, things may just work out for you in the long run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He is afraid of losing you and being hurt!.
Sit down with him and tell him gently that you understand how he feels, and that you accept that he doesn't want/need a close relationship right now!.
Tell him that you would be happy to be friends with him, with no pressure or anything like that and he can come and talk to you anytime he needs a shoulder to lean on!.
If he agrees to this - then accept it as it ,is a loving friendship that is supportive and at this time non sexual!.
Right now he need a friend, not a lover!.
By being that friend - you get to be near him and can help him through this trauma!.
If he says no - then sorry love - you'll have to accept that he is not ready to stay committed at this time!. And he may want to commit most of his time to his mum!.
Although it will be very hard on you, if you can keep friendly contact with him, and be there when he needs a friend, things may just work out for you in the long run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you feel that way hun! Its a shame one person can do that to another, sometimes they dont even mean it!. I mean, he probably thought he was doing the right thing for himself by moving on and all he did was hurt you! But i have to tell you, its all apart of life, people get hurt and sometimes they feel like giving up but its not worth it! It just takes time to heal thats all!. Just think, did you really NEED him in your life!? no! you dont need anyone but yourself to be happy!. Unfortunately people keep telling themselves they need their bf/gf to be happy but really you cant even be happy with them unless your happy with yourself first!. So to get back on track you should work on yourself and how you feel, learn from past mistakes and downfalls and move on, also remember theres no rush, so its ok that you feel this way now, but i promise you wont feel like this forever! if it helps you can do what i do, and just have a great attitude and be like, im gonna show him lol then do whatever makes you feel great, successful, etc!. He really is missing out!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Picture the person who loves you most in this world!. Now picture that person the moment they find out you killed yourself!. Do you really want to do that to them!? Do you want your legacy to be that of a selfish person!? You haven't made your mark on this world yet!. Go out there and make a difference in someone else's life and quit dwelling on yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Look outside of yourself!.
"It's not about you" opening line of Rick Warren's "Purpose Driven Life", which is an excellent guide to get you back on track with God and why He made you!. That single line snapped me out of my deep depression 4 yrs ago, and my healing began by getting close to God again!.
Sometimes, life just gets unbearable, and if we are under a lot of stress, our hormones can get knocked out of wack, and the depression begins to take over!. You need to understand that you are in control of how your attitude goes!. Focus on those who love you, need you, depend on you for little things in life!. Take yourself out of the 'world against me' mindset and direct your questions, prayers and needs toward God!.
The Judeo-Christian God is a God of Truth, Life, and Love!. He loves the creatures He made, and He wants us to honor ourselves and others while we are here by being decent giving human beings!. When times get hard, and the trials seem endless, God does not just leave us to fend for ourselves!. These are the times that He wants us to draw closer to Him, ask for His guidance, and humbly set our pride aside!. Trials are meant to make us stronger and bring us closer to God, not the opposite!.
Please pick up a Bible, get with a good God-focused Church, and ask God to help you in overcoming your depression!. This rough patch you are going through is only temporary!. Do not lose hope, fight for your life, and welcome God's guidance and help!.
Please don't despair - God loves you, truly He does!
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"It's not about you" opening line of Rick Warren's "Purpose Driven Life", which is an excellent guide to get you back on track with God and why He made you!. That single line snapped me out of my deep depression 4 yrs ago, and my healing began by getting close to God again!.
Sometimes, life just gets unbearable, and if we are under a lot of stress, our hormones can get knocked out of wack, and the depression begins to take over!. You need to understand that you are in control of how your attitude goes!. Focus on those who love you, need you, depend on you for little things in life!. Take yourself out of the 'world against me' mindset and direct your questions, prayers and needs toward God!.
The Judeo-Christian God is a God of Truth, Life, and Love!. He loves the creatures He made, and He wants us to honor ourselves and others while we are here by being decent giving human beings!. When times get hard, and the trials seem endless, God does not just leave us to fend for ourselves!. These are the times that He wants us to draw closer to Him, ask for His guidance, and humbly set our pride aside!. Trials are meant to make us stronger and bring us closer to God, not the opposite!.
Please pick up a Bible, get with a good God-focused Church, and ask God to help you in overcoming your depression!. This rough patch you are going through is only temporary!. Do not lose hope, fight for your life, and welcome God's guidance and help!.
Please don't despair - God loves you, truly He does!
<'(((><Www@Answer-Health@Com
Find something to occupy your time!. Adopt a new hobby!. If you are keeping yourself busy and immersing yourself in something that you like to do, you will forget about everything!. Please don't do anything to yourself!. It's not worth it - plus you will be hurting all of the people who care about you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I speak from experience!. Most people who attempt suicide survive!. Then you are still alone, but now you are injured and have massive hospital bills!. It's best to seek counseling to find the root of your problem and solve it!. Don't add more pain to an already painful situation!. LOL!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey hey hey just cool down don't kill your self because you will get your life only one time so dont kill your self find one new ex and i'm also depressed because i've transfered to very far away from my land and i'm leaving my all freinds i'm also depressed but i didn't kill my self!. dont kill your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
suicide is a cop out!. keep pressing on and you'll meet another and you'll have a wonderful life!. don't let this person get the best of you!. you have huge potential to be happy with your life, you just have to get past this speed bump!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oooh no that's not good!.
Go away, go on a trip!. There is so much of the world to see!. Don't give up!.
If you are strapped for cash!.!.!.!.!.read, exercise!. This is an opportunity to do what you want to do with your life!.
Get away and live your life!. Carpe Diem!
If you're not religious!.!.!.why not try reading about religion!.!.!.!.!.
Chin up :)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go away, go on a trip!. There is so much of the world to see!. Don't give up!.
If you are strapped for cash!.!.!.!.!.read, exercise!. This is an opportunity to do what you want to do with your life!.
Get away and live your life!. Carpe Diem!
If you're not religious!.!.!.why not try reading about religion!.!.!.!.!.
Chin up :)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a cute little face, but then we all look like babies here!. If you don't talk to somebody, you will not be able to see it clearly!. If you have already talked to somebody about this, they have not helped you and should find somebody else to talk to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you have anyone in your life who loves you!? Parents, siblings, family, friends!?
If so, don't you dare be as selfish as to hurt them in that way!.
Only YOU can change your life!.!.!.!.!. if you're not happy, do what would MAKE you happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If so, don't you dare be as selfish as to hurt them in that way!.
Only YOU can change your life!.!.!.!.!. if you're not happy, do what would MAKE you happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
see a doctor!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. you got you own place now ENJOY it, have a girl friend sleep over and have fun!.!. start dating again, LIFE is beautiful but sometimes hard!. you really need to talk to someone BUT not us here at Qand A i hope your life gets better!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't ,trust me, it will get better in time , time heals all pain ,just get up keep moving one day at a time ,start looking for for one else that will be there for you ,killing your you'll never no all the wonderful things that life has in store for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont base your self worth on a past relationship!.!.!.try to move on and be proud of your new place! now it's time to build it and eventually find someone new to help build it with you!.!.!.there is so much more waiting in life for you! don't give up nowWww@Answer-Health@Com
What you need is a good one night stand!. Go to the nearest bar and flirt with a random guy!. He doesn't have to be cute, just willing!.!. then take him back to your place and enjoy!. Then tomorrow, get back on Y/A and ask this question!.!. "Why the H3LL was I so depressed over this one guy, when every other guy has a penis too!?!"Www@Answer-Health@Com