Am i a pathelogical lier...??!


Question: Am i a pathelogical lier!.!.!.!?!?
ok so last year i was talked to sexually over aim by my friends dad and ever since i have had these dreams were he is raping me!. i have like flash backs of him doing it with me!. even though it never happened!. i told people i was raped even though i wasnt!. i feel like i have been lying to myself and almost making myself beleive my own lies!. what should i do!. Everyone knows i lied and are over it!.!.!. im just worried about myselfWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I would say your problems are deeper than you can see!. I used to find myself telling stories to people to get them to listen!. It never really got our of control but it makes you feel dishonest (because you are)!.

Generally people lie/tell stories to get attention!. Do you feel like you want people's attention but can't get it!?

You're in an interesting predicament now though!. You need to realize that you were not raped but you were sexually harassed!. The police could help you find justice but if everyone assumes you're not telling the truth, it's not going to go anywhere!. Suppressing your feelings is most likely causing the dreams!.

Generally I would say confront your issues, talk to the person causing your anguish and tell them that they don't have control over you!. This is a serious case so I won't recommend that!. Perhaps you could do something like imagine your pillow is your friend's father and tell him how what he said made you feel!.

No matter what your issue is, the only person that can solve it is you!. Only you can make yourself be a victim and only you can get yourself out of being a victim!. It's never too late to start over!. Stop saying things that aren't true and people's trust in you may return over time!.

I suggest that you seek help from a professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds as if a possible crush for this peron could have gone to far!. Making up stories that are false can really hurt alot of people!.
If you are struggling with some type of abuse that may or may not happend with this person, you need to reach out to a parent, guidence counselor,ect!.!. If someone has violated you in any way that makes you uncomfortable you need to report it to the authorities, no matter what! Please take care of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No you are not!.!.!. It's just somehting that you dreamed!.!.!. you wanted someone to feel what you were feeling and that's just the only way you knew to express yourself!.!.!. You told your friends the truth and they are over it!.!.!. You just needed to get it off your chest and have someone feel what you felt is all!.!.!. Don't worry about it now if you can't help yourself and you find yourself doing this often you might need to seek professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

To say you are a pathological liar means that you do it intentionally and without guilt!. You are obviously guilty, so the answer must be no!. As far as intention, well, there isn't much you can do to repair the situation!. Work on earning back people's trust!.


Unless the entire story you wrote about is a lie!. Then I'd have to say, yeah, you are quite the pathological liar!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweetie, you probably need some psychological help, not saying your a nutter or anything, but this guy did something terrible and you obviously havent gotten over it yet, Has this guy gotten into any trouble for what he did!? Maybe you need justice so you dont have to lie to make it seem more serious, I am really sorry for nightmares, but you really need to at least talk to your school counsellor or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com

No, I wouldn't call you a pathological lier!. Yes, you did lie but I think you felt violated in someways!. I don't know how old you are, If you are over the age of 18, maybe not illegal, but it still seems wrong to me!. And the dreams are telling you something!. You have to decide what!.

Take care and don't give up!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to talk with a counselor to get to the root of your problem!. If you're still in school there is usually a referral system through the office!. Just go ask if there is a psychology counselor available; not the same as your academic counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no ur not a pathological lier!.!.
this is where sombody lies and cant help it!.
they lie over and over again!.!.
what wuld rly help u is to tell ur parents first and tell ur friends that u were simply scared and thought u were because somtimes dreams seem real !.!. if there true friends theyll understandWww@Answer-Health@Com

wait a minute - are you saying you told people that he raped you when he didnt really do it or are you saying it was only in your dreams!. being raped sucks ok!. its horrible it is not something to lie about - either way i think you should get some helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

its definitely possible!. catch and correct yourself next time!. it would be scary to have that talk and dream, so explain that to the ppl you told!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow!.
can you say i'm screaming for negative attention!?!?!?
freak!.
w/e
don't lie about **** like that, you could have destroyed someone's life with that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you lied about being raped!? something made you do it i guess!.!.!. are you still lieing!? if you are i think you need to see someoneWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you seek attention and sympathy from others!. Your only option is to always tell the truth and you will feel so much better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

For one thing, you are!. You need to get some help!. Try to find a psychiatrist!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah I understand what your going through!. I think counseling would be good for you!. It could get worse if let it continue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That's something really scary to lie about, you know!. Do you realize what kind of trouble you could get this man into!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

you should talk it out with her friends dad and accept that you wernt rapedWww@Answer-Health@Com

yes you are!. you prolly need to see a theripists!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're sick in the head!. Seek therapy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow yes you are!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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