Friend Tried to Set Me Up With a Criminal.............?!
Question: Friend Tried to Set Me Up With a Criminal!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
a friend of a friend tried to set me up (unbeknownst to me at the time) with a guy that is divorced with 3 children, has a felony, domestic violence record, and child abuse, and other things I will NOT mention here!. She said I deserve the best, and I would make a great step mother and wife to these children!.
I was in utter shock and disbelief that she would set me up with a loser, and a terrible man!. What was she thinking!?!?!?!?Why would She do such a thing!? Your thoughts!?
SHE KNOWS about his history!.
Is she normal or would you do this to a friend!?
Explain what is wrong with this situation, please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was in utter shock and disbelief that she would set me up with a loser, and a terrible man!. What was she thinking!?!?!?!?Why would She do such a thing!? Your thoughts!?
SHE KNOWS about his history!.
Is she normal or would you do this to a friend!?
Explain what is wrong with this situation, please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I have no effing idea what your friend is thinking
sounds utterly crazy to me
never ever accept a man with violence issues
NEVER
especially criminal records
it'll put you in misery I assure you thatWww@Answer-Health@Com
sounds utterly crazy to me
never ever accept a man with violence issues
NEVER
especially criminal records
it'll put you in misery I assure you thatWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe she thinks (as he's told her) that the criminal record is somebody else's fault--cops were out to get me, ex-wife lied, bad attorney screwed me, poor little me i'm so unlucky!.
sometimes people foolishly overlook things in their friends' lives that rational people would find alarming!.
maybe she believes him when he promises "but i've changed!."
a criminal record does not necessarily make some one a bad person or bad husband or bad father, but the nature of his crimes (dv, child abuse, etc!.) means he's not likely to be a good father/husband!.
i'd lose the both of them (and wonder why she's not with him if he's such a great catch)Www@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes people foolishly overlook things in their friends' lives that rational people would find alarming!.
maybe she believes him when he promises "but i've changed!."
a criminal record does not necessarily make some one a bad person or bad husband or bad father, but the nature of his crimes (dv, child abuse, etc!.) means he's not likely to be a good father/husband!.
i'd lose the both of them (and wonder why she's not with him if he's such a great catch)Www@Answer-Health@Com
She is obviously not a person looking out for your best interest!. Just stay away from her choice of dudes for you!.!.!.why do you need to be a good mom for his kids that's just ridiculous!.!.!.tell her to be a good mom to em!.!.!.!.at least you have enough respect for yourself to know what you will not tolerate!.!.!.!.let someone else be the heroine to his life!
Whats wrong with the situation is she obviously has a hidden agenda!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Whats wrong with the situation is she obviously has a hidden agenda!Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow!.!.!.!.hmmm!. sounds like manipulation!.
does she have anything against you that you know of!? maybe jealousy!?
or maybe she was overlooking all that and was thinking that that was in his past!.
but for that bad of a record, i wouldnt trust him!.
and i wouldnt trust ur friends best judgment either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
does she have anything against you that you know of!? maybe jealousy!?
or maybe she was overlooking all that and was thinking that that was in his past!.
but for that bad of a record, i wouldnt trust him!.
and i wouldnt trust ur friends best judgment either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
didnt you post this already!? well anyway!.!. it's not normal and idk what kind of friend in their right state of mind would set anyone up with a known felon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
even if you liked him!. he's a criminal so dump him your friend must have problems if she can overlook all of that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com