Im sooo worried bout my friend.. i think shes depressed!?!
Question: Im sooo worried bout my friend!.!. i think shes depressed!!?
my friend has had such a tough life
* mum divorced her dad-- married an arab dude
* dad got new family
* she got rebelious so she could more with her dad, in a different country
*did drink & drugs
* messed about in school!.!. nearly leading to suspension!.!.!.
* got messed about by so called friend and fell out with her loads
Im a year older than her
shes only 13!.!. i managed to stop the drugs and the messing about in school!.!. sort things with her mum!.!. it was like mission impossible!.!. im worried shes depressed and im worried she will do something silly!.!.!.
i no she should c proffesional help BUT i want to help her out too!.!. im speaking to a science teacher tomorow so she can keep an eye out for her too!.!. please help with what i can do!!?!
we dont have a school councellor!.!.!. science teachers the best we can do :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
* mum divorced her dad-- married an arab dude
* dad got new family
* she got rebelious so she could more with her dad, in a different country
*did drink & drugs
* messed about in school!.!. nearly leading to suspension!.!.!.
* got messed about by so called friend and fell out with her loads
Im a year older than her
shes only 13!.!. i managed to stop the drugs and the messing about in school!.!. sort things with her mum!.!. it was like mission impossible!.!. im worried shes depressed and im worried she will do something silly!.!.!.
i no she should c proffesional help BUT i want to help her out too!.!. im speaking to a science teacher tomorow so she can keep an eye out for her too!.!. please help with what i can do!!?!
we dont have a school councellor!.!.!. science teachers the best we can do :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
wow - I think your friend is lucky to have you!. You're not superman, and there is only so much you can do -remember the cliche "she has to ant to be helped"!. I guess just do what friends do - talk!. Try and get to the root of the problem, why is she doing these things - for attention from her mother, out of anger at her mum, as a was to gain a feeling of control in her life, which by the sounds of things have been a bit stirred up!?!? What is it that is troubling her!? And if the deep and meaningful talk doesn't work- just hang out or talk about something to completely get her mind off herself - go to a movie, talk on the phone, plan a trip, whatever it is she is into!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi, you have done so well by your friend and she seems to respect your opinion, maybe you could try talking her into seeing her Gp!. From there her doctor can refer her to see a councilor, who is specifically trained in this area and can give her all the help she needs!. Wish every one had as such supportive friends as you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Continue to be a good friend!. Follow through with your plan!. But please remmber you can only do what you can do!. Don't ever put yourself down for not trying hard enough!. God be with you!. and if God is in your life!.!.!. Pray often!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are good to help you're friend but you are meddling!. she does sound like she lashing out a bit but if she wanted to she could see a real therapist on her own!. i think telling the teacher will give her unwanted attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com