Anyody ever feel real excited to go someplace only to finally get there and feel!


Question: Anyody ever feel real excited to go someplace only to finally get there and feel depressed!?
It happens to me alot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Well you are not alone!. Our imaginations can create a perfect place and experience but the real world seldom lives up to these ideals!.

You can still have fun just try to have more realistic expectations and have a great time!.

Do not do what many people do and make their vaction time their one time in the year to have fun, treat yourself to more fun through out the year!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'm the exact opposite!. i don't get excited until i actually get there!. when you're wherever you're at, just act as if you're having the time of your life!. eventually it'll catch on and you'll be having fun and not even notice it!.
if you're really depressed, you should try to take it easy!. talk to someone about what's been on your mind and try to figure out what's been making you feel upset or depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes!. I think a lot of it has to do with my freaky weird mind though!. I have a lot of trouble living "in the moment" sometimes!. I have gotten so used to the idea of looking forward to things that I forget to enjoy them while they are here!. For example, a bunch of friends and I went to Las Vegas earlier this year and had a blast, but the whole time I kept thinking about how soon it was going to end and I'd be back at work with nothing else to look forward too!.

I know, I'm a freak!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

LOL!. yes!. this question made me laugh, cause i've always wondered if anyone else was like that!. I took a trip to canada once, i'd never been out of the us and i was soo excited!.!.!.ending up getting there and being sorta down the entire time!.!.!.i guess i felt sorta alone and being somewhere so far put me in this weird mood where i just couldnt stop thinking about things!.!.!.it wasnt an awful trip or anything, it was neat but i wish i could enjoy myself more when i travel or go somewhere!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah!.!.!. my job sent me to Hong Kong once, and I was so thrilled, never been out of the US before!. But when I got there, things were soooo different (which I did expect, but wow), that I felt so lost and alone (I was there on my own), it made me depressed!. After a day or so of that though, I snapped out of it and totally enjoyed myself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All boils down to you and the old saying - no matter where you go, there you are!. It's up to you and how realistic you are in your expectations!. Maybe it's just better to lower your expectations and enjoy being surprised!Www@Answer-Health@Com

yep, parties wen they turn out bad, or the exited feeing goes because your finally there, there is nothing to look forward to now, try keep your head up :) Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

All the time!.!. It's just part of depression!. I've been really excited to go several places and once I get there it's like "Oh!.!. this isn't that awesome!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

yea it's a little thing called expectations

sometimes what we want to happen is impossible and we set our selves up for dissapointment

it's only human though [unfourtanetly]Www@Answer-Health@Com

YES !.!.!.THE DRIVE THRU AT THE EXPRESS MCDONALD'S they need new staff!.!.!.don't call it express if it isn'tWww@Answer-Health@Com

Enjoy the trip there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

people always want things they cant have, and if they actually get it, they dont want it anymore!. Its lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com

sounds like today when i went t a funeral of this man i knew, i got there and started crying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not me!.!.!. I am happy a lot, though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm bald!. Nuff said!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yea, only because I (just i) wanted to go thereWww@Answer-Health@Com





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