I need some advice...please?!
Question: I need some advice!.!.!.please!?
Lately I've been feeling very very suicidal!. I know that I've answered questions here telling people not to do it but right now it's seems like my only option!. I feel like a loser of a wife because I can't have sex with my husband (because of the flashback from my rape when I was in high schoo)!.!.!.I can't keep the apartment clean, I (in general) can't keep my husband happy and he is always talking about getting a girlfriend who will take over the sex part and I'll just have to deal with everything else!. But really I dont' know if he already has a girlfriend!. He hardly spends time with me and has already mentioned that he'd rather not spend time wiht me because then he has to spend money!. I just need to know some way to make things better!.!.!.a reason for living!.!.!.anything!.
Thanks!.!.!.I know this is a hard (or maybe a confusing question) but any answer will be appreciated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Thanks!.!.!.I know this is a hard (or maybe a confusing question) but any answer will be appreciated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Does he know about that!? If he doesn't you should tell him about it!. He needs to understand!.!. And I am really sorry about what happend to you!. But suicide is never the answer!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah shes right talk to him about it but dont argue cuss then it will just tern into a row and it will be worse so u have to be carm with himWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to explain to your husband how you feel, and if he is a good person he'll understand!. But if not, dump him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I've never been through most of this, nor do I believe this will ever be a problem I can face at large (I'm a man), so I know my sympathies can only go so far!. For what it's worth, I know this can't be easy for you to ask for help for all of this!.
I have dealt with suicide and many other "mental problems"!. I can tell you for sure that all of these problems are spiritual and that these things will only go away with a spiritual solution!. Your love life, your marriage, the order of your home, your attitude towards yourself, etc!. Seeking therapy or anything like that will only make you feel better about the problems in your life rather than fixing them!. I know this first hand as well!.
My best advice to you is seek the Lord Jesus Christ!. I know people will say this kind of answer belongs in the Religious section, but this really is the best advice I can give you!. Jesus Christ has actually fixed all of these kinds of problems in my life, not to mention others!. He has the ability to heal all holy relationships, and your marriage is supposed to be holy in God's eyes!.
Jesus Christ doesn't make you feel better about yourself; but
He does give you a new life!.!.!. one that is far better than what you could have ever hoped for!. I'm not talking about the life after death either; I'm talking about what He does now!. In Loving Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior you will be able to love your husband even better!. He will never desire another woman!.
God Bless!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have dealt with suicide and many other "mental problems"!. I can tell you for sure that all of these problems are spiritual and that these things will only go away with a spiritual solution!. Your love life, your marriage, the order of your home, your attitude towards yourself, etc!. Seeking therapy or anything like that will only make you feel better about the problems in your life rather than fixing them!. I know this first hand as well!.
My best advice to you is seek the Lord Jesus Christ!. I know people will say this kind of answer belongs in the Religious section, but this really is the best advice I can give you!. Jesus Christ has actually fixed all of these kinds of problems in my life, not to mention others!. He has the ability to heal all holy relationships, and your marriage is supposed to be holy in God's eyes!.
Jesus Christ doesn't make you feel better about yourself; but
He does give you a new life!.!.!. one that is far better than what you could have ever hoped for!. I'm not talking about the life after death either; I'm talking about what He does now!. In Loving Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior you will be able to love your husband even better!. He will never desire another woman!.
God Bless!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is not a problem you should try to handle alone, or even with advice from well-meaning strangers on the Internet!.
Seek professional help!. A psychiatrist, psychologist, or social worker!. If you get near the edge, for God's sake, call a suicide hotline!. People become despondent, and our society has mechanisms for helping those people!. If you take that step and reach out, you'll realize you're not alone!.
Don't wait, don't hesitate, don't think the answer will magically present itself!. Do this for yourself and everyone who loves you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seek professional help!. A psychiatrist, psychologist, or social worker!. If you get near the edge, for God's sake, call a suicide hotline!. People become despondent, and our society has mechanisms for helping those people!. If you take that step and reach out, you'll realize you're not alone!.
Don't wait, don't hesitate, don't think the answer will magically present itself!. Do this for yourself and everyone who loves you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a purpose and a position in life!. You are living in this time and in this season for a reason!. Do not end it before it's time! You're husband is obviously not an understanding man and you should consider why you are with him!.!.!.!.you need supportive people around you and an effective counsellor!. the best counsellor and comforter is Jesus Christ!. Don't dismiss this cause it sounds religious but when you are at your wits end you should try what you can!. I'm not saying to go join a church or whatever- what i am saying is just call out to him for help and he will come thru!. i promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
AWWW!.!.!. Well dear, DON'T commit suicide! I know sometimes it feels like that is the only way out, but it isn't!. I feel like that sometimes also!. I would never go through with it, it's just a feeling!. You're not a loser of a wife because you can't have sex with him!. Sorry, to hear about your past and probably you can't clean because you are depressed!. You should be able to talk to him about your past and work on that!. I would say try counseling for that, but I don't know how you would feel about that!. What I would suggest!? Take a vacation by yourself! I have the perfect thing for you!. Go to Cancun, Mexico and stay at a nice spa/resort!. Pamper yourself and it is so beautiful down there with the water and it will give you a reason for living!. Seeing the beautiful water and weather it will show you that there are so many wonderful things about earth and it will make you happy to be alive to see it!. When I get depressed I look at my pics from there and it makes me realize that life isn't that bad and I'm glad that I get to see beautiful things like that!. Lying on the beach drinking a drink with no cares in the world will make you feel sooo much better!. It will give you time to think about things!. Maybe, even consider leaving him!. I know it sounds crazy, but you have to be happy and love yourself before you can love someone back!. Maybe you need to "kinda" start over!. Maybe not having anyone to worry about, but yourself, and going for some counseling would help you out!. He doesn't sound like a good husband if he doesn't want to help you through this problem, so maybe leaving would be the best!. Definetly take a vacation by yourself though!. Being in paradise and treating yourself will help you!. Take a vacation dear and clear your thoughts for awhile and you will feel better about yourself and see that life is worth living!. I enclosed a website for you to look and please consider!. I really hope you can find your happiness!. Best of luck to you!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com