Wish i was dead...what do i do?!


Question: Wish i was dead!.!.!.what do i do!?
I have another account but just don't want to ask this Q on it!.!.!.

I'm 18 years old, fm and have been self harming(cutting) since i was 11 years old!.
A couple of days ago i went to the GP because things were getting a lot worse-i was self harming worse and feeling bad almost ALL the time!. The doctor gave me a questionaire and a website to look at(which i've been doing) and told me to come back in two weeks!.

I just seem to be having an absolutly awful day!. I never feel like going out with my friends because i have very little energy but at the same time i HATE beng alone!. I was with them(friends) a little today but left because i felt so rubbish and didnt want them to think i was being boring just sitting there in silence staring into space!.
Also they all came in saying they had 'the best night of their lives' last night and even asked where i was!. They just didn't invite me!.!.!.i know this sounds stupid but really got to me and i really feel like they just dont care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I would love to help you but I have no understanding at all of anyone cutting themselves!. It must hurt terribly and I am sure you need professional help!. Something dreadful must have happened to make you start doing it and I think you need counselling to get your feelings out!. It sounds as if your friends are viewing life from a totally different perspective and you shouldn't blame them for enjoying themselves!. You must know that that is what you should be doing at 18!. Please go and see your G!.P!. and get some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if u don't know something that would make you happy then u can be like that forever!.!.!.!.let the past go, i also thought no one care for me but after graduation there was a lot of people who cared that i don't realize and it can be the same for u too!.!.!.!.u can go out alone cause thats what i do when i don't want to hang out with my firendsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hi Sarah, have you not any family members around you to help with your illness, or are they unaware of your problems, im sure if your friends knew how you were feeling they would be a lot more supportive, try talking to someone about your problems, it will helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

I know exactly how you feel!. i am around your age, it sucks to feel that way!. the best thing you can do is talk to people!.!.!.i find that helps a alot!. im sure your friends do care they just arent sure what to do :)!.
so i would reccomend you talk to someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think u need to talk to someone and try and get out and get aj ob to meet new pepole and try to achive something to make u feel better!. instead in begin on your own so u dont harm yourself go and see some mates or something to keep your mind of thingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-8255
You need to talk to someone!. Please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

FIND A KICKBOXING CLUB AND JOIN IT IT WILL CHANGE YOUR WHOLE OUTLOOK ON LIFEWww@Answer-Health@Com

ok dont be to dranstic now but just do the things you enjoy and be more possitive about ur self i think you might be actually quite niceWww@Answer-Health@Com

Babe, you need to talk to someone professional xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Get help ASAP! You need to talk to a professional!. They can help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you feel like **** because you are ****Www@Answer-Health@Com

Three words - smoke weedWww@Answer-Health@Com

ah you poor girl!.!.!.
i am yyour age and i know life can be stressful but you shouldn't let it get to you!.!.!. your friends need to support you and make you realize just how great a person you really are because i think you are!!!
when you wake up in the morning look in the mirror and smile at your self!.!.!. no matter what happens in life you have to realize you are an amazing person and never let anybody think you aren't!!!!!
i hope that things turn around for you and you soon see that your amy seem like one person in the world and nobody will notice you're gone but trust me when i say that to many peole you are more than just a person and they need you here aalot more than you think
i doubt i've helped but wanted to try!!
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

You can't stop it!.!.!.it's called being 18 years old and life sucks!!!

Please stop feeling sorry for yourself!. YOU are pushing your friends away by walking away from the group and not joining in!.!.!.!.Your friends are probably sick of chasing after to you, I know I would be!! You will loose them if you don't grow up and stop wanting attention from people!. Snap out of this 'box' of yours and start paying attention to what's going on around you!. There are people who are worse off than you!

Sorry to be harsh but we've all been 18 and been through exactly the same things and it's until you're older you don't see what you were doing was wrong or annoying to others!
I really do hope you feel better but it's only you that can help yourself!.!.!.!.start with being positve about something!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

look at all the gud things youve done look at all your friends!!!!! do something that you really enjoy ie shopping surfing swimming!!! talk to some1 u trust also conselling is gud for people who are expeirencing difficulties like u!!!!! work out exactly what it is thats gettin u down then fix that part of your life!!!!! ALSO if u dont hav a job get 1 they are gr8 for makin u forget!!!! also if u harm yourself take away the insturments that u use ie knives etc nd never think that suicide is the answer there ar lotz of people who would grieve your passing!!!!! keep smiling :) :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

do they know that you feel this way!? Maybe they just don't understand!. Hun, you can't get them to change!. They just want to have fun and live life to the full, and you shouldn't stop them from doing that, even if it makes you feel sad, but it will get better!. Just get with them, and try to have fun yourself!. No use missing out on everything and feeling depressed every day of your life, just get out there! If they're all having a good time, don't spoil it, join them! Good luck!
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I don't mean to sound patronising but quite often teenagers feel the way you do!. The self harming thing is different though and has to stop!. I do feel sorry for you, but your question has an undertone of self pity and "i'm such a poor victim" mentality!. You must look past this and recognise the good things that there are about you and about your life!. Others have a far worse time believe me!. Also, who wants to be dead!.!.!.!?! A whole lot of nothingness there!. Even if you're religious!.!.!.!.are you ABSOLUTELY sure there's anything next!? So why not make the most of what you do know is real!.

Today I lost my job, the tax, MOT and insurance runs out on my car this month, I have a mortgage to pay and a life to maintain!. I now have to look for a new job at the beginning of a recession!. Last year my husband had an affair with my best friend!. I have 2 young girls to care for too!. Life is certainly hard sometimes, but I wouldn't dream of killing myself!. Who knows what opportunities lie round the next corner!.

Chin up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I've seen one or two questions on here in a similar vein and I'll start with the same sentence to you as I have to them, because it is true!.

This is an immensely brave thing to do!. To put up a question that exposes all your vulnerability and risks absolute ridicule from some people who just don't get 'life' like you do!.

I don't have any pat answers, but the fact that you havew friends and can distinguish between your moods and the 'feelings' you have means you are very intelligent (that is not flattery)
I would like you to consider that it may be that you don't find your friends stimulating (that is not a crtiicism of you or them) you have interests somewhere and just haven't got a connection yet!.

Start with the obvious, talk to your mum/dad this is very important, they will be interested in how you feel and that it just isn't coming together!.

If you are in college see your tutors and ask about more challenging or indepth studies, things that engage your mind!.
You clearly have the capacity tto see a bigger picture and need that stimulus!.

If you have some spare time go and meet some people in the voluntary sector (such as salvation army, hospice movement, local church anything) Why!? becuase you are a sensitive person and will be able to relate to others!.

You clearly have masses to offer and no one has recognised your talent, yet you may be too shy to talk about your ideas!.

Get going the world needs the pent up energy and desire for change for the better that you have!.

Don't think there is something wrong with you!. It is the rest of us who need to catch up to your level!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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