Sometimes i feel like my life is worthless?!
Question: Sometimes i feel like my life is worthless!?
sometimes i feel like life is hard!.yesterday my boss told me that if i was late again i was going to be fired i felt so bad and embarrased i went to my car and started crying and feeling like im not good at anything i wanted to die!.ive always had this bad habit ever since i was little my mom was late to work sometimes so i thought its ok if your late sometimes but now it has gotten serious!.i been working there for 2 months and like my job ive had this this problem in my previous job and because of this incident i felt embarrased and left the job!.i promised my self i wouldnt be late to work anymore and told my boss i was a responsible person now i feel stupid!.i always think that im going to do everything fast and end up being late anywhere i go!.i didnt want to tell my partner because he would get mad at me and would think im iresponsible i dont want him to think that about me he's 8 years older than me and wouldnt want him to think that im immature and cant keep my jobWww@Answer-Health@Com
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hiya, rightio, let me tell ya sumthin, im currently on maternity leave rite, and im going back 2 work next mon (unfortunately), and last year believe me i was like u, coz i NEVER used 2 hav a whole week where i got to work on time, it was dat or i was off absent!. and dat is one of ma weaknesses, i had 2 fill in a late form but i was kinda lucky coz i was pregnant and said dat i was late coz of ma morning sickness but da truth was dat i just got up late!.
but mate, i think it can be abit of prob 4 u later on, coz firstly u could b fired, secondly wen u apply 4 a new job they'll ask u y u left ur previous job or 4 a reference and dat'll look abit bad,
so me and u r kinda in da same boat, dis is wot im gona do next mon mayb we cud do it togetha, im gona get up nice n early abt 6:45am, so gona hav to set da alarm, and also try sleepin early da nite b4, afta wash ma face, get dressed, slap sum make up on, straighten ma hair, so da time would b around 7:30, den go downstairs hav breakfast, mayb watch abit of telly, and for me i'd like to dress ma baby boy n giv him his breakie, so da time will probably b 8:15am and no later than dat time im gona leave home coz there can b sum heavy traffic so i shud get 2 work about 8:50am DA LATEST!.
dis is just a rough guide but u really need to work out a routine and STICK TO IT, plan out how long it takes u 2 arrive to work, i think wid u its becoming a kind of a habit of being late and ur being really hard on urself, ur pushing urself down by not believing dat u can arrive 2 work on time, just remember dat negative thinking brings out negative actions, so u really start need to give ur self sum credit!. gudluck and dont b late anymore, ur gota take revenge from ur boss and da only way u can do dat is 2 shut his face by arriving 2 work on time from now on ok!?!?!? takecare hun and oh dont 4get to smile xWww@Answer-Health@Com
but mate, i think it can be abit of prob 4 u later on, coz firstly u could b fired, secondly wen u apply 4 a new job they'll ask u y u left ur previous job or 4 a reference and dat'll look abit bad,
so me and u r kinda in da same boat, dis is wot im gona do next mon mayb we cud do it togetha, im gona get up nice n early abt 6:45am, so gona hav to set da alarm, and also try sleepin early da nite b4, afta wash ma face, get dressed, slap sum make up on, straighten ma hair, so da time would b around 7:30, den go downstairs hav breakfast, mayb watch abit of telly, and for me i'd like to dress ma baby boy n giv him his breakie, so da time will probably b 8:15am and no later than dat time im gona leave home coz there can b sum heavy traffic so i shud get 2 work about 8:50am DA LATEST!.
dis is just a rough guide but u really need to work out a routine and STICK TO IT, plan out how long it takes u 2 arrive to work, i think wid u its becoming a kind of a habit of being late and ur being really hard on urself, ur pushing urself down by not believing dat u can arrive 2 work on time, just remember dat negative thinking brings out negative actions, so u really start need to give ur self sum credit!. gudluck and dont b late anymore, ur gota take revenge from ur boss and da only way u can do dat is 2 shut his face by arriving 2 work on time from now on ok!?!?!? takecare hun and oh dont 4get to smile xWww@Answer-Health@Com
get up earlier and aim to be ten mins early for work impressing your boss!. for everyday your early treat youself - put 5euro in a treat box everyday u are early and at the end of every week/month treat yourself to a new bag/dress something fab its a great incentive!. even something small like buying a choc bar as a reward on your way home!. ul look forward to bein on time!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just coz u are late a lot does not mean that ur life is worthless!. Have u tried setting every clock u own to half an hour earlier n just go by that time!. Or just work out in ur head what u need 2 do b4 u start work n how long each task is goin 2 take n how much time u will need 4 each thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This isn't a question!. Like the rest of us you are going to have to develop a bit of self discipline and consideration for others or you will continue to find life 'worthless'!. You are not a bad person!. You just lack self discipline and motivation!.
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It's easy to get into bad habits!. Try to disapline youself!. I've never been late for work in my life!. But to be honest, you are no better thought of!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Set every clock and watch you own 10-15 mins fast, that way you will be on time or even early for everything!. It works for me!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes life is hard!. If you feel sad most of the time you need to see a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have to work at 9 wake up at 7 am leave the house at 815- 30 depending on your commute!. It's not that hard to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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for the late problem!.
set yoru clocks a few mins early!.
it works for me
good luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
set yoru clocks a few mins early!.
it works for me
good luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont take it to the heart find out whats make u come in late every day go to sleep early thats main thing that u could do nowWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey ma, keep ur head up and smile!. Don't let the pressure of this world get to u!. I know I been there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
omg im feelin like that today! and whats stopping u from goin in on time!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's not a good thing to be late to work often!. They pay you to come in on time!. If that job isn't working out, try to find one that will work out better for you!. I have a bad habit of procrastinating, if I don't like something, I will "play" with it and stall until I have to go!. I find that if I like something I rush to get there!. I try not to have to go to any place I don't like!. If I do have to go, I leave early, so I don't miss it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ive always been late for every single job ive ever had, I find it extremely difficult to get out of bed in the morning!. I was an hour and a half late on Tues, 20min on thurs and 20min late this morning and thats a good week!. Im not lying by the way!.
Ive never in any job got a disciplinary let alone fired for it before and I always do it, not on purpose, I actually set 3 alarms!. The trick ive always found is to find common ground with my boss, supervisors etc and butter them up all the time and then work really hard when I get into work and do the occasional overtime!. Sometimes I sneak in through the back and act like ive been since I was supposed to!.
It is annoying to act like you consider your boss a mate but but it does help keep you in a job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ive never in any job got a disciplinary let alone fired for it before and I always do it, not on purpose, I actually set 3 alarms!. The trick ive always found is to find common ground with my boss, supervisors etc and butter them up all the time and then work really hard when I get into work and do the occasional overtime!. Sometimes I sneak in through the back and act like ive been since I was supposed to!.
It is annoying to act like you consider your boss a mate but but it does help keep you in a job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com