I can nevr be bothered?!


Question: I can nevr be bothered!?
i can never be bothered to do anything, i would just rather sit around!.
im 14, and this really worries me that ill be like it forever!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I was like that at 14!. Now I am an attorney and have a family and am totally on top of things!.

my mother made a comment about how much of a s h i t hole my room was growing up and how lazy i was!. I don't think it is a 14 year old's fault!. It isn't your life, your house, your room, etc!. Once it is yours, you wont believe how much you care!

As soon as you can get a job, I don't care how small it is, TAKE IT! You will love it!. There is a reward in getting along in the real world!. I hated chores, i hated cleaning, homework, everything!. But realllllllly, both of my parents worked and nobody put me first!. So really, I bet it is a result of your family!.

But do yourself a favor, don't fail anything or get fat!. Prepare yourself for your life!. Fat is never good, and neither are f's!. You don't have to get into harvard, but at least do better than community college!. I may sound like a snob, but giving yourself options is self love!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do you like to swim!? Play soccer!? Basketball!? Movies!?
What are you really, really passionate about!?
Call a friend and decide to do something you both agree to together!.

I have been the same for about six weeks,now!. Last night I met three friends at a music concert and enjoyed myself thoroughly!. Just for the two hours of the show!. But that was two hours that I WAS NOT JUST SITTING AROUND!.

Do you have a pet dog or friend next door or close to your house that you could walk around the block with!? Even five minutes to start with !. Just getting out for that short time is an accomplishment you should be proud of!. Then you can build on each small accomplishment!. Soon you will be wanting to NOT SIT AROUND as much as you are now!. Start slowly and make small changes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not if you act now! You're hitting the beginning stages of laziness!.!.!.get off your butt and motivate yourself! Part of it is your teenage hormones, but you can control it!. Offer yourself small rewards for doing things Ex: Got your chores done!? Lounge around on the couch for an hour while your favorite show is on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe not
you won't be a teenager forever either
people do changeWww@Answer-Health@Com





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