Can someone please help me figure it all out?!
Question: Can someone please help me figure it all out!?
I am very sad, and I am constantly tensed, worried about my future!. I cry uncontrollably once every 5 weeks, as if waves and waves of pain surge up and up in tears and gasps!. It lasts for about half an hour!. I have tried so hard to succeed: I am trying to become a doctor, I am studying pre-medicine, have a 4!.0 GPA, I was involved in research and plenty of health care volunteering activities, as well as extracurriculars!. I recently applied to a program that could have given me selection into medical school, but they did not pick me, even after the interview, only 12 people were to be selected!. I am so sick and tired of proving myself to others, I have no life and no fun, I take everything negatively!. As if everything is trying to defeat me, break me!. I only want to give my life some meaning by having a career, a family in the future, but other than that, there is nothing to live for!. Love, peace, and happiness are all cancelled for me, and I am too tired to even try for them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sounds like you need a break!
Relax!. You have an entire life ahead of you!.!.!. don't worry about getting it all at once!. Last year I kept a very strict schedule for myself!. I went to school, devoted all of my time to homework and extra credit, wore the grungiest clothes, and had no friends!. Obviously, I was worn out, just like you are!.
Try reaching out to others in school or all the activities you're involved in!. After all, who can exist without friends!? Build a "support group"; just a group of people you can turn to when life drags you down!.
Second, don't sweat the small stuff!. Extracurriculars and volunteering are great, but not if you don't find joy in it!. If possible, cut a few things out of your schedule for some down-time for just you!.
Third, just because you didn't make the program, it doesn't mean you're out of options!. After all, look at all of your accomplishments already!
Finally, God is in control of everything!. I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but just remember that simple fact!. He's there if you need someone to lay your worries and struggles upon!.!.!. that's what he's here for!.
Relax, and try to see the good things in life!. I know it's hard at the moment, but with a conscious effort, it'll begin to become a second nature!. You have your life ahead of you!.!.!. don't let the stress get to you!. Find people who will accept you for who you are, and not for your accomplishments!. :] Don't give up hope!
I wish you the best!. You're in my prayers!.
God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Relax!. You have an entire life ahead of you!.!.!. don't worry about getting it all at once!. Last year I kept a very strict schedule for myself!. I went to school, devoted all of my time to homework and extra credit, wore the grungiest clothes, and had no friends!. Obviously, I was worn out, just like you are!.
Try reaching out to others in school or all the activities you're involved in!. After all, who can exist without friends!? Build a "support group"; just a group of people you can turn to when life drags you down!.
Second, don't sweat the small stuff!. Extracurriculars and volunteering are great, but not if you don't find joy in it!. If possible, cut a few things out of your schedule for some down-time for just you!.
Third, just because you didn't make the program, it doesn't mean you're out of options!. After all, look at all of your accomplishments already!
Finally, God is in control of everything!. I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but just remember that simple fact!. He's there if you need someone to lay your worries and struggles upon!.!.!. that's what he's here for!.
Relax, and try to see the good things in life!. I know it's hard at the moment, but with a conscious effort, it'll begin to become a second nature!. You have your life ahead of you!.!.!. don't let the stress get to you!. Find people who will accept you for who you are, and not for your accomplishments!. :] Don't give up hope!
I wish you the best!. You're in my prayers!.
God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com
For crying uncontrollably you sure do keep one heck of a schedule!.
Get over yourself, it seems to me like you want to be the only one with these problems, people everywhere feel like you and they don't cry or complain!. what you explained is life, its as simple as that its hard and your mom isn't going to hold your hand!.
You're missing the whole point life isn't about the end its about the middle where you sing and dance who cares about the last note so stop being an idiotWww@Answer-Health@Com
Get over yourself, it seems to me like you want to be the only one with these problems, people everywhere feel like you and they don't cry or complain!. what you explained is life, its as simple as that its hard and your mom isn't going to hold your hand!.
You're missing the whole point life isn't about the end its about the middle where you sing and dance who cares about the last note so stop being an idiotWww@Answer-Health@Com
that first person was really mean!.!.!.!. I think that you should try to see the good in life and stop focusing on negative things!. I am like that too to some extent!. you just have to learn to see good and not the bad things in life!.
If a 14 year old with the same problem can conquer it, then dude, you can too =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If a 14 year old with the same problem can conquer it, then dude, you can too =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to get some counseling!.!.!.!.Medical school may not be for you!.!.!. Try another field!.!.!.!.!.Take a break and go on a vacation!.!.!.
Never give up on yourself so easily just take it slow!.!.You seem to be overwhelmed at this time!.!.!.!.!.Try becoming a male nurse believe me they are in high demand!.!.!. then move on to a nurse practioner, this seems to be a great field for males!.
You really do not get to see a doctor any more these days!.!.!.You see nurse practioners!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Never give up on yourself so easily just take it slow!.!.You seem to be overwhelmed at this time!.!.!.!.!.Try becoming a male nurse believe me they are in high demand!.!.!. then move on to a nurse practioner, this seems to be a great field for males!.
You really do not get to see a doctor any more these days!.!.!.You see nurse practioners!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your going to miss this and it might make you the best doctor in the world, keep at it and use this to your advantage to help people!. Your not the only one, you have a hard time for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best therapy in the word for stress!.
1) Grab a coke
2) Lie down on the couch
3) Flip on the TV!.
4) Relax!.
Spend like an hour on this every day and you'll be as good as new!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1) Grab a coke
2) Lie down on the couch
3) Flip on the TV!.
4) Relax!.
Spend like an hour on this every day and you'll be as good as new!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to consult with a professional who is able to help you!. !.!.!.a psychiatrist or psychologistWww@Answer-Health@Com
Ok for one here is what I did because almost a year ago I was there!. Take a semester off you because it seems like you aren't making any time for you!. Depression strikes when you least expect it whether you like it or not!. I have not yet returned to school because in that semester that I was originally taking off I started to reevaluate everything that I was doing, now I'm not sure what I really want to do with my life, but i know that whatever I do with my future endeavors I want to be happy with my choices!. Who knows perhaps being a doctor really isn't for you despite your thinking that it was!. Listen to your heart not your brain on what you want to do if you should take the time off!. And see a doctor in regards to your depression they may be able to give you something for your anxiety!. If you want to avoid the meds then find someone like a minister or a close friend who is willing to listen!. Heck I'd even be willing to help if you want to email me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. Prove yourself to yourself -- take on your own challenges!.
2!. Have some friggen fun!. What would be fun!? Travel and adventure!? Double scoop ice cream!? Skydiving!? It's your life!. Live it!.
3!. No matter what you do, taking things negatively will just make everything negative!. Find the positive!.
You sound like someone who feels their never good enough, and doesn't deserve to have things he wants!. So, grow up and stop trying to do what you think your parents, or whatever authority figures you kowtow to want, and be your own authority!. Take a year or two to just do what you want and not care what others think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. Have some friggen fun!. What would be fun!? Travel and adventure!? Double scoop ice cream!? Skydiving!? It's your life!. Live it!.
3!. No matter what you do, taking things negatively will just make everything negative!. Find the positive!.
You sound like someone who feels their never good enough, and doesn't deserve to have things he wants!. So, grow up and stop trying to do what you think your parents, or whatever authority figures you kowtow to want, and be your own authority!. Take a year or two to just do what you want and not care what others think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
huh!.!.!.typically i am kind of degrading of this behaviour because it exhibits some of my worst traits!. I am also a premed student dealing with similar issues, involving acceptence and what not!. Continue to better yourself, because if you build a careeryou can always lose that, you can always lose a family, and believe me you are infinitely losing and infinite amount of alterative futures!. If you continue to better yourself you will have that to rely on!.
I'm supposed to be the one answering, but i must ask: Did you have a back up plan!? If so, is it something that you would really be content doing!? You probably should have been working on that at the same time!. I'm not even majoring in a sience!. I find it unfortunate for student to work so hard toward one goal, and if it doesn't work out, they're screwed!. I've been considering taking some business courses as well, because believe me my friend there are other ways to becaome wealthy and have stable careers other than medicine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm supposed to be the one answering, but i must ask: Did you have a back up plan!? If so, is it something that you would really be content doing!? You probably should have been working on that at the same time!. I'm not even majoring in a sience!. I find it unfortunate for student to work so hard toward one goal, and if it doesn't work out, they're screwed!. I've been considering taking some business courses as well, because believe me my friend there are other ways to becaome wealthy and have stable careers other than medicine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com