What do you do when your daughter wants nothing to do with you and you don't!


Question: What do you do when your daughter wants nothing to do with you and you don't know why!?
Usually when she was still in college and engaged before her recent wedding I was very involved in my church, helping the elderly, and very young, and other things I can do with the pain and fatigue I experience from chronic illnesses!. This thing with my daughter has got me so sad that I can't function very well and so I don't know how to get my life back on track!. The stress actually makes me physically ill to the point where I am of no use to myself or anyone else!. Any suggestions!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Be contented that she is happy!. You are still her mother and she will always be your daughter!. Nothing can change that, even if she says she doesn't want anything to do with you for whatever reason!.
Mulling over this will definitely make you sick!. I hope you are doing what is best for your health, eat and sleep well, take your prescriptions!. Be with people who make you happy!. Do what you enjoy!.
If only every child knows how an abandoned mother thinks and feels!.
This is clearly depicted here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Send her a letter asking her why, until you find the answer to this!.!.there is not a lot you can do!.!.!.but you could also ask yourself a few questions with regard to you daughter!.!.!.Did you hurt her feelings, did you seem insensitive to a problem she might have, were you there when she need you, ask yourself these questions and you may find the answer to this problem yourself!. Sometimes it's hard to get everything right as a parent but make sure you get to the bottom of this because you don't want to lose your daughter no matter what has happened!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have you tried to confront her and find out what's wrong!? Maybe if you write a letter to her and tell her how you feel it will help even if you don't get a response!. I hope things work out for you!. You can e-mail me if you need someone to talk to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to her about it!. i'm 17, and at times i want nothing to do with my mom!. perhaps you're giving her too much advice when she's a grown woman and wants to make her own decisions!. i think thats the most common cause for resentment towards parents!. be sure you're respecting her as an adult because she is not the little girl she used to be!. keep advice to a minimum because she is grown up now!. when you talk to her, it's important to keep an open mind!. thats my main struggle with my mom is that if i try to talk to heer about something thats bothering me about her she will automatically be defensive, not listen to what i just said, and ultimately make no effort to change!. i hope this helped!. i really have no idea why you're daughter wants nothing to do with you, but i find this to be a very common thing between mothers and daughters when mothers try to get too involved in their daughters lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try initiating a conversation w/!. her @ a good time, when shes in a good mood, their is calm in the house, etc!.!.!. try showing her how U care, maybe give her some type of small simple offering that you know she would like that would be a gesture of respect & peace!.!. Try some creative things like that, all people have feelings & if you appeal to theirs you can make it a grate 2 Way-Mutual Street!.!! Gud Luck : )
Does she know how U feel!? ( RE: what you say in ur question!?) if so I can't see how she wouldn 't be there 4U!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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