What if you sexually abused another child, as a child?!


Question: What if you sexually abused another child, as a child!?
Does that make you a terrible person!? I was sexually abused multiple times as a kid, and acted out on another girl!. I've had horrible guilt feelings my whole life!. How do I deal with this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Well first of all you need to get through the fact that this was when you were a child!. It's old news!. Your mind isn't that developed as a child and you don't know what you're doing!.

What you need to know is that it's all in the past!. You're not the only one who's sexually abused!. The thing that makes you different is how you deal with it!. (Also a good idea is to see a psychologist to help you out on how to do this!. It's a good idea)

Forget!. Also if you can call up the girl that you harassed and see if you can set amends, that'd take off a load of guilt!.

Hope I helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com

most people who are sexually abused feel the need to then abuse others or set themselves up in another abusive relationship of some sort!. It is better that you have learned to avoid relationships where you are abused, but you should be careful about your urge to do so to someone else!.
Again, I say this is actually perfectly normal, though highly unacceptable!. You're not a bad person, you just have some issues with dominance in a sexual relationship like that!. Nothing time or therapy cant fix, but it sounds like you have it under control already!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go to church and talk to your God if you believe in God!. Tell him you are really sorry for what you did and that you want him to forgive you!. He will find the way to show you've been forgiven and you will feel better!. Only he can forgive you, i don't think us humans can forgive something like that!. Best of luck!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

all kids play doctors and nurses and check each other out!. It is when an adult does it to a child that cannot reason properly that it is bad!. Get on with your life and let the guilt go it doe no one any good to focus on the past!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You were sexually abused!. Nobody knows how they would react to tramua like that unless it happened to them so nobody can judge you!.

Just try to forget it and ask God for forgiveness!.

God bless!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't feel bad!. You didn't know!. We're all young & experiment because of curiosity!. Plus, many kids are raised to "trust" family members, so you didn't know it was wrong!. Are you willing to seek talk therapy!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, it's definately not a good thing but let it go and move on!. If you keep thinking about it, it may haunt you the rest of your life!. If so, you may want to speak with a counselor or therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well!.!.!.!.it depends on a whole lot!.!.!.a whole lot!!!

if you care to elaborate in an email, i may be able to give you some really helpful advice!.!.!.but going by what you wrote here, i cant say!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

go to someone you can talk to and trust!.!.!.
and for urself being sexuall abused go to the policeWww@Answer-Health@Com

I would talk to a professional who specializes in this matter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry you went through that but you must get professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go to a psychologist, not an online message board!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i am Sorry for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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