Help me feel better about myself.?!


Question: Help me feel better about myself!.!?
I am ugly!. People say it all the time (behind my back, to my face, even people I don't even know!) I try hard on my looks but, it seems like nothing works!. I not dirty or anything!. I dress O!.K!. My self-esteem is often low!. I try to just not care or worry about what people say, but people just say even more unkind words that just make me feel bad again!. I am afraid to shop or go out with friends at times because I know people will just stare!.
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Answers:
Sweetheart,

At age fourteen believe me you are still blossoming!. The beauty on the inside will be what gets you ahead!. Beauty on the outside will soon fade!. Keep your inner beauty strong and the rest will soon follow!. Speak to your mother or a close friend as well!. Moms always have the best advice
Find something that you are good at and focus on that and your school work!. Not the knuckleheads at school calling you names :)
True Beauty

Beauty is a thing seldom seen
No one sees it because no one looks
Or at least not in the right place
Beauty is held by all
Within the soul it lies
Waiting to come out to the surface
Only it can't
Beauty is suppressed by the evils of the world
Only love can bring beauty out
Once seen
Beauty never hides again
Not even hatred can deny beauty
Of it's true design
Beauty although possessed by all
Will only ever be truly seen by few
And fewer yet will ever see
One of the most beautiful sights
The beauty held by youWww@Answer-Health@Com

I know peopl can be very mean!. But look at it from a different perspective!.!.!.what if the people that call you ugly are jealous of you and down on themselves!. The only reason they make fun of you is because they have low self esteem as well and want to make you feel like crap!.

I know it is very hard to ignore them but you need to ignore them and not let them get you down!. You need to be proud of who you are, this includes what you look like!. It is important to believe in yourself when no one else does!. Do this by focusing on all the things that you do well and that are good at!.

Remember this is not about you being ugly, it is about their insecurities about themselves!.

So ignore them and love yourself, it is the best thing you can do for yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was the same why at 14 and I'm fat to or pretty big 235lbs 5'9 but stay strong people are like that just know all the people laughing have had so much handed to them and you will allways be stronger and a better person for how you look and the older you git the less people care about how you look that teen age is the hardest by far hang in there !.!.!.!.!.!.!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are young, you will be changing year by year!.
You may not believe me, but this is true!. Many people had same experience as yours!. You will learn many things and change yourself step by step!. Even over age 24 or more, women can change naturally!. Good heart is the most important thing for women to get beauty!. Do not forget it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you should just be proud of yourself!. i mean i am not the prettiest girl youll ever meet!. we dont have a choice of what we look like when we are born!. i am okay of who i am, sometimes i just dont care!. but anyway just be happyWww@Answer-Health@Com

no ones ugly babe!. you just have to be strong, if someone says your ugly, they just probably have low self-confidence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont worry ur not ugly hun!. people are just a**hole sorry for my language!. they just don't understand how you fell!. just say to them im not a duma*s or idiot, dimwitted like you =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't mind them!.!.!.be strong!.!.!.!.!.and go to a youga class!.!.!.!.it will make you feel better!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree sweety , no one is ugly there are only ugly minded people , and these are the ones that are trying to bring you down because ,like has been mentioned ,they want you to feel as lousy as they do!.
Many kids your age would be jealous aswell that you are a kind person and you dont swear , you sound like a lovely person with great principles, and others envy you because they arent the way you are!.
Seriously only jealous people say horrid things!.
I have read many times how famous models or actresses were teased and called names etc when they were teenagers, but when on to become famous for the one thing they had always been teased about!.!.their looks!.
You can be the most gorgeous looking person asthetically , but if your a hatred nasty person then you will always be unattractive , beauty is most certainly about whats inside darling , and there is not a thing wrong about you , dont change who you are for anyone, always be true to yourself and believe me darling you will always rise above the envy and nastiness of others!.

big hugs
wanda xxxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com





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