If I hate my school and believe it is the source of my depression, how do I conv!
Question: If I hate my school and believe it is the source of my depression, how do I convince my parents!?
I don't fit in!. I hate it!. I wanna go to a school where there are people like me!.!.!. is it possible for me to go to a different (maybe nearby school) while my sister still goes to our current one!?
I can't live with myself if I have to keep going to this high school!. No one really likes me except for my friends, but they don't understand what I feel inside!.!.!. neither do my parents or sister!.
I just want it to end!. I want to go to a different school!.!.!. but even then when i think about it i'm afraid i won't fit in there!.!.!. I am feeling lost and dead inside I just want to die if I can't change it!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can't live with myself if I have to keep going to this high school!. No one really likes me except for my friends, but they don't understand what I feel inside!.!.!. neither do my parents or sister!.
I just want it to end!. I want to go to a different school!.!.!. but even then when i think about it i'm afraid i won't fit in there!.!.!. I am feeling lost and dead inside I just want to die if I can't change it!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You sound just like me when I was in H!.S!. I hated most everyone except my close friends!. You could try to convince your parents to let you try another school but schools usually make you attend the one that your house is in the district for!. I don't know what grade you're in but I can tell you it gets alot better after h!.s!. Though I kept to myself in college, there aren't the 'clicks' like in h!.s!. so no one bothers you or makes you feel left out!. Also, colleges have so much more to offer when it comes to groups you can join or how you can meet people like you!. I dont know if you're planning to keep going to school after h!.s!. but just know that if you can make it through h!.s!. then you can make it through anything (and usually everything after h!.s!., even if you still have to struggle with things in life is still better lol)!. Just remember not to change who you are for anyone else!. I know that's a hard thing to do when you're constantly in a state where you feel alone and left out, but it was the best lesson I ever learned!. Once I realized that I was a good person being exactly who I was and excepted myself and surrounded myself w/ only people who loved me for me, I became so much happier with my life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im sorry to hear this and wish there was more i could do to help you!.
do you belive in God!? he can help if you listenWww@Answer-Health@Com
do you belive in God!? he can help if you listenWww@Answer-Health@Com
I went through this as a teenager!. It's certainly not easy, especially when you feel like an "outsider" and unloved!. Yes, you could go to a new school, but I doubt that is going to change things!. You have to work from the inside out!. There is an amazing book by Louise Hay called "You Can Heal Your Life"!. It can give you great ideas on the problems you are having!.
As for religion, I am agnostic!. I don't rely on any "god" to help me feel good!. You have the power inside you to fix this, you just have to find it!. Rely on yourself, you can get past this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for religion, I am agnostic!. I don't rely on any "god" to help me feel good!. You have the power inside you to fix this, you just have to find it!. Rely on yourself, you can get past this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how devastating not fitting in can be!. It can mess with how you feel about yourself and your life, and it's terrible when the people you love won't take it seriously!. I'm guessing you're in highschool by the sounds of it!. If you feel that transferring will help, by all means go for it!. Don't let anyone tell you that you're running away from your problems!. What you're truly running away from is the terrible people around you!. There is no crime in that!. You need to surround yourself with people who accept you and have some of the same interests!. Look for extracurricular activities!. If you are a shy person, this will force you to come out of your shell and meet new people!. If things become desparate, talk to the school counsellor if you have one!. If you don't then find a mental health agency that can set you up with a counsellor!. Everyone needs someone to talk to!. Trust me!. I know!. I'm a youth counsellor!. Don't give up!. You'll find someone who will care about you the way you deserve!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
god loves all of us!. this emptiness your feeling isnt what god wants for you!. surrender your self to him and he will grant you by taking away that lonely feeling!. he did for me!. i used to feel paranoid and hear tons of crazy voices that drove me crazy and told me to do stuff that i knew was wrong (demons holding me back) i dont really want to get into details about that!. i fit in at school, but i still hate it!. i play basketball and football and im pretty social, but i was never always truly 100% happy!. i wasnt sure what to expect from my future!. if i told my friends they would laugh and ignore me!. i am not a good student, so my family put me down about my grades (not blatantly but they did) i was being compared to my sister who got great grades and is in med school!. i was starting to feel insecure about not having a girlfriend, cuz most of my friends had one and they were never shy around girls like i was, and they never failed to let me hear it!. i knew i wasnt ugly i was just a little shy when it came to girls!. my family puts down my brother all the time cuz he dropped out of college, but he was always happy, because he had god!. my sister had all the success but she is confused and sometimes seems really lonely cuz she doesnt have god!. my brother told me that god told him to stay in the house a little longer so he could witness to me so i could be saved,and guess what!? i got saved!. and im happier then ever!. its up to you wether you want to recieve god or not, but he will fill that empty void in your life like he did me and my brother!. before my brother got saved he was always angry and he was always getting into fights!. and we always fought, he was also a pretty popular guy in high school!. every other day we would get into fist fights, but now he is nice and is just a completely changed man!. god can heal your pains, all you have to do is just let him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com