I was molested by my stepfather when I was very young.?!
Question: I was molested by my stepfather when I was very young!.!?
At the time, my mom thought I might be making it up, that it was a dream of some sort!. Now it turns out that I am having nightmares about him and I'm positive it was all a reality!. When I was a teen, my mom told me we could go visit a therapist and try to prosecute!. I didn't want to go through all that!. My mom later on attacked him with threats at his place!. I thought it might be a good idea to write him a letter to let him know that I'm aware of what he did and everything I feel!. This can be used as therapy!. And as for what to actually do, I think I will leave that up to God!. Do you think this would be good therapy!? I've always wanted to confront him about it as an adult & scare him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Write the meanest honest letter you want, seal it in an envelope and burn it!. People like him aren't going to feel "scared" or guilty, otherwise they wouldn't have done it!. You just need to find peace with it and know you are better than that and you can rise above it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all I am sorry for your tramatic experience, a letter would be good therapy to vent and express all your feelings!. But on confronting him you should probably see a therapist and ask them and see what they say!. Good luck, and I hope you come to terms with this situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i don't have an answer for you 'but my heart goes out to you 'i discovered the same happened to my sister a long time ago and im starting to rage a little now 'you will cry a lot during the therapy but tears can bring much comfort to a confused soul 'remember you are a much better person than your aggressor 'he knows what he done ,he's gotta face himself at some stage,write the letter avoiding anger as you do'Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can confront him but he will probably deny it and call you crazy!. He will d his best to make you feel like if it "really" happened it was all your fault!. No I really believe you I just know how child molesters act!. I hope you will learn to get through this!. I will pray for you!. GOOD LUCKWww@Answer-Health@Com
that would be an excellent form of therapy expressing your feelings to him is one of the best things you can do and its perfectt o do it in aletter so you wont get scared being face to face and change your mindWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just be careful not to break the law!. You could go to jail for harassing him, which would be so unfair since you wouldn't be able to do anything about your molestation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it would definatly help you, but you need some additional help!.!.!. you don't have to give it to him either!. just writing will be a realease!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you have post traumatic stress!. I'm no doctor but I think you need to seek therapy to work through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
write your feelings down then but dont send its not like hell get scared or feel guilty!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your not going to scare him unless you want to act outside the law by now it's impossible to have him arrested on these charges since no evidence of the crime still exists!.
He should die, I think all the sick adults who sexually abuse poor helpless young children are scum of the earth and forfeit their right to live!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He should die, I think all the sick adults who sexually abuse poor helpless young children are scum of the earth and forfeit their right to live!.Www@Answer-Health@Com