I am scared to tell my parents that i feel suicidal?!


Question: I am scared to tell my parents that i feel suicidal!?
i have been feeling suicidal over 1 year!. i have never tryed to commit suicide but in the near future i will!. i want to talk to my parents about that but i am scared that they wont understand me and think that i am crazy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You need to talk to someone!.!.!.if you aren't comfortable talking with your parents find someone else you trust!. It's a big step to talk about it because it has such a stigma behind it!.!.!.but if your parents care they won't think your crazy!. They will try to get you the help you need!.

And please - if you can't get your parents to help your and can't find anyone else to talk to - call the police or have someone take you to a local emergency room!. They will (the police) will take you to the hospital for an evaluation and then!.!.!.if they think it approprete(sp!?) you'll probably be put in a mental hospital!.!.!.but don't let that scare you!.!.!.they aren't like they show on tv or in the movies!. You will get the support you need and maybe even get some medication that will help!.!.!.but most of all you will be taught ways to cope with these feelings!.

Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Please try not to be scared you want to talk to your parents and if you explain the situation just as you have done here they wont turn you away!. they might be very puzzled at first but trust me they would want to know they would want to help, that's there job you see!? Please speak to your doctor and you are not crazy at all OK!? You know that your feeling bad and you know that you want to talk to the people that matter to you about it , so how's that crazy , that's only natural!. I know it's going to be really hard but just take a deep breath and tell them!. Good luck and please, just don't hurt yourself OK!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are not crazy!. It is hard to understand people with suicidal feelings if you have never had them yourself!. I was very suicidal for a while there, and finally found a doctor that works with me to determine WHY I felt that way and not just to treat the symptoms!. You can talk to your parents, and I doubt they will be angry or anything like that!. They may be scared, but remember, you are their child, so that is normal!. They may want you to see someone, and I'd say go for it!. You can only feel better if you think about it!. But really, talk to someone before you try it!. Anyone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please I beg you to talk to someone about how you are feeling!. Why are you feeling suicidal!? What are the pressures you are facing!? I have been suffering from depression on and off for the last 15 years and I thought I was going mad and the only way out was suicide!. That was until a very very dear friend of mine killed himself and I saw first hand what effect this had on the people around him, it was devastating!. I went to say my fairwell to him in the funeral parlour and although I loved hime dearly at that moment all I could feel was resentment for him doing what he did and not telling anyone how he was feeling at the time!. His friends and family would have helped if they knew his dilema!. After that I decided to see my doctor and although I felt stupid telling him how I was feeling it was reasuring to know that he understood and that I wasn't the only person out there who had these thoughts!. He asked me if I was suicidal and I confessed that I had been until my friend died!. He suggested councelling and although I was apprehensive about talking to a stranger at first it was the best thing I could have done!. I have had many episodes of depression and can usually manage with medication but I have had another 12 course session of councelling last year to help me cope with another chapter of my life!. I beg you to tell someone, if you are still at school then go to your head of year they can get you help and will not break your confidence unless they feel that you are in danger!. If you can't tell a teacher then see your GP and if you don't think you will be able to tell them the full story then write everything down before you go in and let them read it!. As a parent myself I would not think that a child of mine were crazy if they said they felt suicidal I would go out of my way to get them the help they needed!. Don't be alone in this - tell someone soon, you've made the first step by posting your concerns here, now take the next step and talk to someone please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your parents will probably be upset at first but they are your avenue to help that you are desperately reaching out for!. I have suicidal thoughts and am currently seeing a psychiatrist and have just been prescribed medication to help!. Remember that if you commit suicide, you leave behind a trail of devastation to all of your family and friends!. It only takes a few days to feel better-trust me, I now know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have you talked to anybody, like a school counselor or a psychologist, about it!? If so, you can ask him/her to be there with you when you talk to your parents!. If you haven't talked to any professions before, then you and your parents should make an appointment and go together so that you all will be able to learn what is going on with you!.

You are not crazy and I'm sure your parents will understand!.
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

If this is a serious question & not an idiot looking for attention then listen up, I'm a mom & have been through hell & back , if my child were having the hint of suicide I'd want to know, do not think they won't understand , they will!. Unless you have the most horrible parents & they beat you ect!.!.!.!. they will understand, Suicide is a very selfish act, think of all the people in your life you will destroy & you will destroy them because they will live the rest of their life with the "what if & what could I have done & why didn't she/he come to me!? , I can tell you first hand that just because you feel it now does not mean you will feel it later in life, things & circumstances change by the minute!. I'd say talk to your parents, if they don't help call a suicide hotline & tell them you are having these feelings, they can point you in the right direction, If your in school & you feel comfortable with the nurse tell her, there is so much help out there to get you though this funk & trust me honey , it's just a funk , I've been there & life is great !Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, you need to tell them so you can get help!. They love you and will want to get you the help you need to you don't kill yourself!.
Please seek out help!. Most people commit suicide because they are overwhelmed with life and not because they really want to die they just can't go on with life as it is!.
There is help out there- medication, therapy, etc!.
Please don't wait!. I'm afraid if you do you will get to the point where you don't want help anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should probably tell them and they would probably want to go to a psychiatrist with you to help you with your suicidal feelings!. They will understand because they are your parents and they don't want to feel horrible knowing that they could have saved you if you do commit suicide in the near future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im not being rude but you are crazy everyone has to live on untill they die of natural cuases i know everyone has there problems but you cant get in such a bad place from it think of everyone who has ever helped you and think it would be a waste of time
also if your planning on doing it tell your parents they will try to understandWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your parents will understand you, but if it makes you feel better mabey you can talk to a family member or a friend who can explain to your parents and make them come talk to you!. Just remember your parents love you and will understand and try to help you in everyway possible!.
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Tell them as soon as possible!. You will be amazed how much better you feel when you have shared your concerns with someone else!. A problem always seems much bigger when you bottle it up and have no input from anybody else!. They are your parents and should be able to hear anything that you have to tell them, without flipping out!. Good luck!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi maxxy!

Let me tell you something!.!.!.!.!.
You are so precious to your family, and friends!.
You only have one life, one opportunity in this earth!.
You have the decision in your hands to make others happy!
You have the ability to put a simile on other people's faces!.

There's only one maxxy in this world!

why end all of this by terminating your life!?!

I don't know you personally, but I wish we can talk about it!
If you want to!.!.!.then e-mail me at afortiz06@yahoo!.com!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

U might best want to tell your parnets even though some parnets will call you crazy or they might ingore you and some will try to help you!. If you even commit suicide you will leave a sad trail and an unfinshed life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to sort it out!. Tell your friends, your relatives!. Hell, tell a DR! Your not crazy hun, a lot of people feel suicidal at times! Its normal believe it or not!. Even phone child line (sorry if you dont like in the UK) but if you do, ring childline and tell them your situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look!.!.
Im Sure That Whatever I Say Aint Gunna Change Your Mind + I also Know That the Q Aint to Solve Your Problems x
Just Wait Till The Right Moment And In Your Head Count From 5 And By The Time You Get To 0 Tell Yourself You Have To Of Said It By Then ( Thats What i Do It Usally Helps ) Just Tell Them The Reasons Why You Are Feeling This Way etc!. Im Sure Theyll Understand!.!. Look There Your Parents + Think Whats The Worse That Can Happen!.!.

Look Try Councilling Or Phone Childline - 08001111 I Mean This Im Sure Everyone In Your Life Would Miss You x
Take Care Buddy xWww@Answer-Health@Com

You must talk to someone, though!. Do you have a school counsellor (assuming you're still at school)!? If not, ring the Samaritans or Childline (UK) - whichever is appropriate!.

You are not crazy - far from it - and you recognise that you need help!. Please get it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some parents are!.!.!. evil and think their suicidal kid is just an attention-seeker and therefore provide no real help!. Hopefully your parents are good parents who will try to understand your situation and you can all begin the first steps on the path of recovery from whatever your problems may be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try some uplifting activities such as exercise/sports or a new hobby!.

Also I would strongly agree that you should speak to friends family as it is the easy option to commit suicide and extremely hard on everyone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I used to feel like that!.Go to the site www!.tapping!.com,but you must take it very seriously & do it a few times every day until you rid yourself of these emotions!.& do tell you parents!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You don't have to feel this way!. There is help out there but you have to ask for it!. You can get better and live an enjoyable life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just tell them before u do anything crazy!. trust me, i dont know you or what happened to you, but you ALWAYS have something to live for!. and that is heaven!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

National Suicide Hotline 1-800-Suicide (1-800-784-2433)Www@Answer-Health@Com

things cant really get worse by telling them!.
if your feeling suicidal youve got nothing really to lose by talking to them, it could lead to you feeling better
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You're scared to tell your parents, yet you're not afraid to commit suicide!?!?!? Believe me, they will understandWww@Answer-Health@Com

phone the samaritans-it is often easier to talk to a stranger first!.
Take care xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your parents will always understand and help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell your parents you should!. going to a hospital would help you!. i had to and it helped me alot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im sorry that you feel like this!.!.!.you should go to see your doctor and speak to another family member if poss!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk To Them, Or Just A Close Friend Will Help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell your patents, nothing can be worse than saying nothingWww@Answer-Health@Com





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