Should I tell my mum?!
Question: Should I tell my mum!?
I nearly told her the other day but I bottled it again and if I tell her tonight (that im depressed) and see if she could make me an appointment,im at the point now where im thinking about how to commit suicide I don't know what to do ,I tell people here because I feel safe from laughter and humiliation !. Please help and no discimination if you please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
your mum is the last person who will laugh and humiliate you!! Talk to her, you never know she could be more helpful than you think!. Dont bottle it up, please talk to someone xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell her you have been feeling depressed and it is getting worse!. Also tell her you have thoughts of suicide!. Talking about it is the first step in getting help!. No one but you mother and the doctor have to know about your depression, so no one is going to humiliate or laugh at you!. If you feel you simply cannot tell your mother, make an appointment with your family doctor and have him/her call your mother !. Get some help!.!.!.!.!.and good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes, please tell your mum!. don't let your parents find out for themselves!. (mine found out when i searched suicide methods on the net, and now they don't trust me as much on the computer!.) don't let them find you dead!.
getting help really does help!. i'm actually glad my parents found out how i was, as since then i have been able to talk to people about how i feel, and get the support i need!.
you will have no regrets, it will seriously make you feel so much better - it's a relief to open up about things after bottling it up for so long!.
you need to get help now, as things won't get any better by themselves!. and kudos to you for having the guts to talk to your mum about it, it is a very hard thing to do, i wish i had been able to do that!.
good luck, i'm sure your mum will be really understanding, especially as you are approaching her and not the other way round!.
stay strong, stay safe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
getting help really does help!. i'm actually glad my parents found out how i was, as since then i have been able to talk to people about how i feel, and get the support i need!.
you will have no regrets, it will seriously make you feel so much better - it's a relief to open up about things after bottling it up for so long!.
you need to get help now, as things won't get any better by themselves!. and kudos to you for having the guts to talk to your mum about it, it is a very hard thing to do, i wish i had been able to do that!.
good luck, i'm sure your mum will be really understanding, especially as you are approaching her and not the other way round!.
stay strong, stay safe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes please tell your mum!.
I don't know where in the world you are located but here in the USA you can call National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK They can put you in touch in your location to help you!.
If not in USA please search suicide prevention hotline on the Internet!.
May God richly bless you and show you that He is always there through prayer and His book the holy bible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know where in the world you are located but here in the USA you can call National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK They can put you in touch in your location to help you!.
If not in USA please search suicide prevention hotline on the Internet!.
May God richly bless you and show you that He is always there through prayer and His book the holy bible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would advise you to talk to your mum, she will be able to offer you the support you so desperatly need to get through your depression!. Don't keep bottling it up inside cause you will make yourself feel worse!. Ask your mum to make an appointment for you to see your G!.P and see what they advise!. Even refer yourself to a counsellor, just so you have someone to talk too!. Feel free to email me on rachelqueen2004@yahoo!.co!.uk if you need to talk!. I wish you all the luck in the world with this!. Take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dont ever think of suicide!. How can you end your own life when there are innocent people having their lives ended!. You may think you have the worst problems but you dont!. You're going in the right direction by telling someone and by thinking of seeing a therapist!. For the time being think of how much happier you're going to be after you've seen someone and they've helped you out!. You'll feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please talk to your mom or another trusted adult!. In the meantime you can always talk to professionals at 1-800-suicide!.
If you find it hard to talk to her maybe try writing a letter!. Your mom will make sure you get the help you need!.
You can also try these tips to help you!.
1!. Make sure you get enough sleep at night
2!. Try to get some exercise everyday!.
3!. Make sure you are eating healthy!.
4!. Try writing in a journal to vent and be able to reflect back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you find it hard to talk to her maybe try writing a letter!. Your mom will make sure you get the help you need!.
You can also try these tips to help you!.
1!. Make sure you get enough sleep at night
2!. Try to get some exercise everyday!.
3!. Make sure you are eating healthy!.
4!. Try writing in a journal to vent and be able to reflect back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I do not know the problem you are facing as for some reason, it has not come up on my screen but a mothers love is unconditional, tell her how you are feeling, she will feel your pain and help you through it, once you tell her, it will make you feel better and less stressed and more able to deal with it, Too many people are taking the option of suicide these days, people are there for you to get you through this, just look at your answers to see how many people care, you have your whole life ahead of you, it can be what you make it!. Take care my friend, email me if you wish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeap everyone is right, please tell your mum you need support at this time, I'm Lucky I have an 18yr old daughter and we talk to each other about mostly everything, If for one minute she did not come to me with a problem I would be hurt knowing she was going through problems and heartache and I was not there to help, another person put down writting a letter that sounds good to!. Please do not suffer alone mums are good people and she will have her arms there to cuddle you and what a big difference a cuddle could make it might even put you on the road to recovery, best of luck my heart is with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
trust me!. Your mom LOVES you and wants to HELP you!. She WILL NOT reject you!. It's scary to face our demons and our pain but if you do this, if you choose to work through this I promise you that whatever is hurting you will be gone!. Think of how devastated your mom will be if you end your life!. Do you want to hurt your mom that much!? Struggles, no matter how intense or painful, can be worked through!. Talk to your mom RIGHT NOW!. I promise you she will help you!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk to someone about this!. If you can't find the courage to talk to you mom try a friends parent or a teacher or principle or even school counsler!.!.!.talk to someone!. Suicide is serious!.!.!.don't let things get so far that you are stuck with suicide and no way out!.
I'm here for you if you want to talk, just email me (my email is on my profile) and I'll try to be supportive!.
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm here for you if you want to talk, just email me (my email is on my profile) and I'll try to be supportive!.
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
This serious!. I have it too!. But my 'mum' is too strict! so I have to deal with it through my friends! But it seems you can have your 'mum' help!.
just tell her!
say ' mum i have something to say!.' then she will listen and you tell her 'i think i am depressed'Www@Answer-Health@Com
just tell her!
say ' mum i have something to say!.' then she will listen and you tell her 'i think i am depressed'Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your mum needs to know before she can help you so tell her now and get the help you need!.No one will laugh at you and depression is something thousands of people get including me!.Chin up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah definately tell her, you need help from someone closer to you than just posting messages on here!. your mum would want to know and help you, dont let it get as far as suicide
good luck
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good luck
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tell your mum because mums are realy good at things like that and can help you if you sit down and talk about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
tell her immediately!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's always best to tell someone, otherwise they might not know, even if you feel it is obvious!.
All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her!.
trust me i thought the same thing because i had OCD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
trust me i thought the same thing because i had OCD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your Mum straight away!Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell your mom asapWww@Answer-Health@Com
TELL YOUR MUM!! I'm a mum and I would want my son to tell me so I could help him!. She only wants the best for you!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, to be quite honest I don't think you should necessarily tell your Mum straightaway because she may be part of the problem, and may not be knowing how to cope herself!. I do however think that you should not be contemplating suicide, and if you are old enough to be posting on here you are really old enough to be consulting your GP independently, or any local youth counselling services, or any initiatives thorough your school, as your first point of call, they will they involve your mother as much or as little as you wish!. I'm not laughing at you, but although it may be best for you to work in partnership with your mother ultimately, the initiative may have to come from you, and if you get fobbed off the first time, try again!. It is really not up to your Mum to make the first appointment for you, so I would personally take my courage in both hands and try to get the counselling that you need for yourself, if your mother then tries to veto this you may have some legal safeguards, otherwise, as I said before, she may be a bit more supportive if you take the first step!.
Best of luck to you anyway!.
Edit!.
I agree with the other answers in that the best thing is in theory for you to talk to your Mum, and it may have to happen ultimately, but if this is really not possible at first, there are these other options for you such as the youth counselling services which may be the stepping stone you need at the moment!. I had a lot of problems with my family while I was growing up before these sorts of services were as developed!. Although all parents want to do the best for their children, some parents get out of their depth, so any help the children can get for themselves can only in the long run be welcomed by the parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best of luck to you anyway!.
Edit!.
I agree with the other answers in that the best thing is in theory for you to talk to your Mum, and it may have to happen ultimately, but if this is really not possible at first, there are these other options for you such as the youth counselling services which may be the stepping stone you need at the moment!. I had a lot of problems with my family while I was growing up before these sorts of services were as developed!. Although all parents want to do the best for their children, some parents get out of their depth, so any help the children can get for themselves can only in the long run be welcomed by the parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com