Black and white mind?!
Question: Black and white mind!?
I am extremely polar, in terms of the way I think and act!. I tend to brood a bit if not quite often, and have actually gotten to the point where I start thinking something negative and simply switch the idea around to become positive, even if I know it is not true!. I find it superficial that I somewhat 'trained' myself to do this, but I also feel I have lost a sense of opinion by the idea that everything is fine, when in all actuality I am rather critical and can be quite bitter!. This has also lead to a distrust for people in that optimism and enthusiasm in my case gives off a 'childish' appearance others take advantage of, and after the fact, reflecting on it has made me somewhat cynical when it comes to human interaction!. In fact, I enjoy talking to strangers more then people I know most of the time!.
Please, no response to seeing medical help, I am taking care of myself and would simply like an idea as to how someone else would react to this ironically ideal dilemmaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Please, no response to seeing medical help, I am taking care of myself and would simply like an idea as to how someone else would react to this ironically ideal dilemmaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
'ironically ideal dilemma'!.!.!.!.!.!.I like that!.!.!.!.!.!.!.definately a nice way to sum it up!
I don't know if anyone has perfected the science of how to react and deal with situations/people!. I am sure there are good ways, ideal ways, bad reactions!.!.etc!.,!.!.!.I mean, even when you know that you should react a certain way, it doesn't mean that you are instinctively going to respond that way!.!.!.!.
That's the problem I have anyway (lol)!.!.!.!.!.
There are so many different types of people out there and a gazillion and one ways to alter a situation (body language, mood, desire, weather, and others),!.!.!.!.!.Who has or is living the 'perfect' life!? Who goes through a complete day and says to themselves at the end of it!.!.'I did everthing I should have and therefore everthing has ended just perfectly'!.!.!.!.!.without some kind of honest doubt about the day or even tomorrow!.!.!.!.!?
I like to consider myself a 'people person'!. I love to be around people pretty often (preferably in groups)!.!.!.!.but that doesn't mean I always get along with other people as I would like!. I'll admit that there are plenty of things that any one person could do or say that would annoy me!.!.!.!.!.!.I'm kind of cynical as well,!.!.!.!.but we do our best to let it go, ignore it, or do something about it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.That's another problem of mine!.!.!.!.I just can't seem to keep my mouth shut even when I know it would be in my best interest to just zip it! =)
It used to bother me because a lot of my friends would say that I could cut someone to the core with just mere words (no vulgarity, harsh language, or rude gestures necessary!)!.!.!.!.but when I decided to 'shut up a bit' they didn't really like that!.!.!.!.it just wasn't my personality or who I was!.!.!.!.!.
All I'm trying to say (I guess), is that, just be yourself! There is nothing wrong with trying to better ones self, but there really is no point in beating yourself up if you truly are a decent person and good natured at heart! People nearest to you, know this about you and care about you regardless of what faults you may have!.!.!.!.!.if not then they really aren't your friends anyway!.!.!.!.and then it's time to meet more people! =) Can't really go wrong with having lots of friends!
Just don't go through this life wasting time worrying about what could have been,!.!.!.!.!.work on what can be! Be positive, think positive, put yourself around positive situations and people!.!.!.!.!.!.and like a magnet, positive things will come back to you! Karma! ;)
yeah, I'm a talker!!!!LOL!.!.!.!.!.yak yak yak, and I'm not even sure I answered your question! LOL! sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know if anyone has perfected the science of how to react and deal with situations/people!. I am sure there are good ways, ideal ways, bad reactions!.!.etc!.,!.!.!.I mean, even when you know that you should react a certain way, it doesn't mean that you are instinctively going to respond that way!.!.!.!.
That's the problem I have anyway (lol)!.!.!.!.!.
There are so many different types of people out there and a gazillion and one ways to alter a situation (body language, mood, desire, weather, and others),!.!.!.!.!.Who has or is living the 'perfect' life!? Who goes through a complete day and says to themselves at the end of it!.!.'I did everthing I should have and therefore everthing has ended just perfectly'!.!.!.!.!.without some kind of honest doubt about the day or even tomorrow!.!.!.!.!?
I like to consider myself a 'people person'!. I love to be around people pretty often (preferably in groups)!.!.!.!.but that doesn't mean I always get along with other people as I would like!. I'll admit that there are plenty of things that any one person could do or say that would annoy me!.!.!.!.!.!.I'm kind of cynical as well,!.!.!.!.but we do our best to let it go, ignore it, or do something about it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.That's another problem of mine!.!.!.!.I just can't seem to keep my mouth shut even when I know it would be in my best interest to just zip it! =)
It used to bother me because a lot of my friends would say that I could cut someone to the core with just mere words (no vulgarity, harsh language, or rude gestures necessary!)!.!.!.!.but when I decided to 'shut up a bit' they didn't really like that!.!.!.!.it just wasn't my personality or who I was!.!.!.!.!.
All I'm trying to say (I guess), is that, just be yourself! There is nothing wrong with trying to better ones self, but there really is no point in beating yourself up if you truly are a decent person and good natured at heart! People nearest to you, know this about you and care about you regardless of what faults you may have!.!.!.!.!.if not then they really aren't your friends anyway!.!.!.!.and then it's time to meet more people! =) Can't really go wrong with having lots of friends!
Just don't go through this life wasting time worrying about what could have been,!.!.!.!.!.work on what can be! Be positive, think positive, put yourself around positive situations and people!.!.!.!.!.!.and like a magnet, positive things will come back to you! Karma! ;)
yeah, I'm a talker!!!!LOL!.!.!.!.!.yak yak yak, and I'm not even sure I answered your question! LOL! sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com
i say behappy with u!. f- everyone else!.this is your life try to be happy while your here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com