Whats wrong w/my life? or me? counseling & meds tried?!

This is a hard one!. The thing is!.!. you have been through so much in you got into this horrible downward spiral where one thing seems to have led to another bad thing and so on!.!. Well, the thing is that you have got to stop doing things and looking to other people to mask your feeling and take your mind off things!. Does that make sense!? No matter what has happened, it is never too late for you to start over with a new beginning!. it will take some time to get your life back together, but you can do it!. Im sure you have something going for you, and you should start trying to focus on the positive things, even though you may not think there are many!. When you start being all depressed, just realize that all that happened to you was horrible, but YOU were strong enough to make it out!. You have learned a lot and life can get better for you!. It sounds really stupid, but just thinking positively can make all the difference in the world sometimes!. When all you focus on is the negative things, all you think about is more and more bad things, and thats all you are about!.
Another thing that might help you is to get some books!. There are tons of things out there that might help you!. To get out of depression and get your life back on track!. Just make sure you don't get back into old routines and relationships!. Work on yourself and make yourself happy before you bring someone else in a trust them ti help keep you happy!. The book called the secret is one that comes to mind There are alot of things you can look at on the internet to find books and stuff!.
Just don't give up!. You're gonna be fine, you just have to make your mind up that you are going to get your life back and that you worth doing it, cause you are!. Good luck to you! Sorry this is long!. :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Don't worry - start your life anew!.

You can only start right now - the past is gone, the future won't come until the present has happened!. Change now, for the better!. Move to signal a change, start a healthier lifestyle, take it slow with someone - try to find a stable relationship and hold off sex!.

I wish you best of luck, and remember, you can create a new life right now :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

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WOW!.!.!.!.!. thats heavy!.!.!.!. wow!.
if you're 24 then you have your whole life ahead of you!.!.!. please dont do anything stupid like suicide!.!.!. i tried that and its not the way!.!.!. theres not a pill for everything, i know that because of experience and im 13!.!.!. i feel really bad for you!.!.!. just try to go to church every sunday (unless you're athiest) and pray!.!.!. otherwise go to and unemployment office and see if theres anything they can do for you there!.!.!.!. again all i can say is WOW and that im REALLY sorry that all this is happening to you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I'm sorry you've been through so much!.

However, 24 is young!. There is plenty of time for you to build the life you want!. Also, your writing suggests that you are not stupid: another point on your side!.

Look to the future: the past is gone, it can't hurt anyone, and dwelling on it is useless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Start a new outlook on life!. You should wake up excited for the day thats coming instead of dreading it!. Try going to church etc!. have a more positive attitude towards things!. Forgive those who have wronged you!. Churches even have programs and thing, or maybe you could even talk to the pastor himself!.
Wishing you all the best!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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OMG!! I am so sorry!
I don't think there's anything wrong with you other than EXTREMELY bad luck (no offense)!. I guess all you really can do is keeping searching for the right guy and a better job, and everything will work out eventually!. Sorry if I'm no help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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damn!.this cant be true!. u listed everything possible!.one thing for sure,it has to get better hah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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oh don't worry life has its ups and downs!. Don't worry life gets better!. i care about you!. Just keep yur head up highWww@Answer-Health@Com

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i know this may sound corny, but i think you should go to church!. ive seen many women come into the church with situations similar to yours and they have completely turned around!. now dont go to one of those judgemental type crazy churches, but one that will truely encourage you and uplift your spirit, counsel you, and help you turn your life around!. good luck sweety-that my best advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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First off, I am terribly sorry to hear about these devastating setbacks that you have experienced in recent years, and I hope that things only go up from here!.

I'm no professional but I do have a degree in Psychology, so I'll give you the only suggestion I can think of!. Get help!. See somebody who can help you!. I recommend professional help in your situation, because he/she (hopefully) knows how to help your situation better than the average joe!. He/she can provide specialized support & attention that you need right now!.

-If you don't know where to go, try calling a help hotline (they can refer you to professionals)!.
Help Hotline Crisis Center: 1-800-427-3606!.
-Seek out a mental health center in your community (if you can't afford expensive services, there should be assistance programs available--just ask)!.

Sometimes a friend or caring stranger might do the trick in getting a person back on their feet, but it sounds like you've been suffering for too long and need to take immediate action!. Only after you have your life somewhat under control, then you can start to re-connect with friends and family from before!.

Seeking professional help is not something to be ashamed/afraid of!. You might be surprised at how many people use therapists/psychiatrists!.
Whatever you decide to do, please take action now & never lose hope--



BTW:
Look at how much support you've already generated after 20 minutes of posting on the internet!. Look at all these people who cared enough to send a little ray of hope your way!. Take this as a sign, and change your life for the better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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hmmmmmmmm

friends with benefits meaning, he was usuing you for sex and not caring about you otherwise!?

for the rape thing, probly you need some therapy for a start!.

try to build your life back, little by little, make good descisions, only get with peole who actually care about you, and actually help you!. Give the good guys a chance to get to know you!. Not just sugar daddies or somethin!.

forget past mistakes, just let it go if youcan!. That would be best I think!. Think forward, small steps!. Make it better!.

maybe a job, maybe a better job, maybe get the laundry done, put food in the fridge, clean sheets on the bed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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i dont think you are the cause of the initial problems as you claim to be!. it seems you are a victim of circumstance!. it would help if took a sort of vacation from life, as in trying to force relationships to solve your issues!. it seems more like you are trying to convince yourself you were not affected by this string of events instead of trying to fool others!. i dont know you personally, but most friendships made later in life are founded on superficial interests and common situations!. instead of that, look for good people who are willing to stick by you and help you out, and dont be too afraid or greedy to extend the same to them!. if you can do this much, you'll know enough to form a healthy romantic relationship!. it also seems like you are really hurt by the lack of love and help you are receiving from your family!. i too have a troublesome family and ive found it best to establish good relationships with those willing to do the same for you!. its also good to realize that the closest of friends can be family because blood does little to secure the love you need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Wow hun you sure have been through alot!. You said med

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