Suicide the only way or not?!


Question: Suicide the only way or not!?
Been depressed for more then 5 years have used many different kinds of medication but none seem to work and if it does it only works for a couple months if that I also have been getting help by a counselor and therapist!. None have this has worked!. I cant hold a job I dropped out of college barely made it though high school!. I have tried many times so commit suicide but I know its wrong and I don't want to hurt people so I have been trying to push everyone away but its not working either!. What should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Start new!. You have nothing else to lose!. You already have been in the dumps!. You have hit rock bottom!. This time when you start, do it to impress yourself, not others!. You matter to yourself!. When you achieve your goal, find another goal!. At least you have something to look forward to!. Sulking is destructive!. Looking toward something is constructive!. Make a list on what you want to do and start with the first one, finish it, and get on with the next!.
It took me 11 years to finish college, it was difficult, I was depressed, but I wanted to finish, and I did!. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, so I'm going back to school just to do something and look forward to!. I hope I find something by then!.
I never took medications, and I learned how to deal with it!. I'm getting better!. Read, "Good to Great" by Jim Collins!. It helped me out!.
So what's great about being hitting rock bottom, is that I know what it's like and now I can move on from it!. I got nothing to lose, and something to gain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is by far the most selfish thing a person can do!. People care about you and it's not your call to take yourself away!. Even when it seems hopeless you can be sure at least a few people still care that your alive!.

And besides just use some simple logic!.

If you are somebody who always does things the hard way, then it wouldn't be right to take the easy way out!.

and If your someone who is always taking the easy way out, then thats probably why your miserable and you should learn how to work a little harder for things, even when it sucks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do not listen to the people who say that you should go through with it!. Death, as depressing as it sounds, is inevitable, so you might as well try!. It can get better!. I couldn't get through high school because of my depression!. I pretty much dropped out in tenth grade!. I am not comparing our lives, but you need to consider that in the future things can get better!. And if you keep trying they most likely will!. The people who you can't push away most likely care a lot about you, so talk to them!. Because if you can't push them away, they will probably be there for you when you need them!. If not, find someone else to talk to!. It could be worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide should not be an option!. One thing it is harder than you may think to do & if you live through it you will have more problems than before & maybe dissablities!. Happiness for some people takes work like 24/7!. If you are not having a chemical imbalance in the brain antidepressants may not work!. I have long term exposer to carbon minoxiode & antidepressants will not work, because it's not a chemical imbalance in the brain!. Don't let suicide sneek up on you, continue to seek help!. Hang in there!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You may not agree with this,but please try to find a god loving church,and attend regularly!.
If you are not already saved,please obey the gospel,and get baptized!.
Once you cross over to the other side,(suicide) there is no coming back
If you commit suicide,you will be in "the lake of fire",for eternity!.
One cannot "repent" after suicide!.
Please consider more therapy,meds,whatever!.
There is a better way,and there is a way out!.
I feel your pain!.
I've been there,and tried to do that!.
Remember your loved ones,if nothing else!.
Can you imagine the pain they will suffer,if you inflict death on yourself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is not the way, believe me! This is a brave and emotive question, and you are to be admired for posting it!.

Have you ever considered that God made you, and if you are good enough for Him you are more than good enough for the rest of us!? It's true!

Now, you need to talk this thing through!. Feel free to IM me if you think it will help!.

Regards - and remember, life is far too precious a thing to throw away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah!.!.i know how you feel!. Like you have no purpose in life!.!.!.and it's hard to think of anything that's in the way of you killing yourself!. I can relate to this because used to be the same!. I know it sounds weird but music got me through it!. I also found a hobby!.!.!.art lol!.!.!.yh!.!.!.I know what you're thinking!.!.!.weird!.

Just remember that no matter how hard you try to push your family and friends away!.!.!.they're always gunna be there for you!. Always!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't do that!. If you have tried to push people away, you know how much they care about you!? So why would you want to end your life!? There are so many things in life that people want to do before they die, but then they don't get to!. Take advantage of what you have!Www@Answer-Health@Com

LOOK DONT!.
my mum commited suicide at christmas, and it is the HARDEST THING i have ever had to go through!. even reading ur question made me cry because u have NO idea what the effect of suicde will have on your family!. Every day is like a nightmare!. constantly praying to god they will come back!.
your life is so precious!. its a gift, you cant take the easy way out, and do this!. your worth so much, even if you dont feel it!.
i really hope you get better and see a way out other than suicide!.!.!.!.
im praying for you!.
please!. no!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah don't do that, that is a horrible thing to do!. First you need to get involved in activities!. Maybe even just trying to go to church 2 or 3 times!. God works through you and if you pray to God about it he will help you and guide you throught life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First and formost, Please don't do this!.

Second, you might want to get involved in some activity or work that would free you by letting you focus on the job at hand instead of dwelling on your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't give up! Five years is just a blink in terms of a whole lifetime!. Find a new psychiatrist -- an MD, not a PhD, who can help with both talk therapy and medications!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take control of your life!. Fight whatever is wrong with you!. Just remember, you are in control!. Good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't commit suicide!. Please don't!. That's not a good thing to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Son ,if you want therapy or counseling to work you've got to work at it!.You'll only take away from a session what you've put in!.I have been where you find yourself right now,so I DO know what you are going through,and I am here today to let you know that suicide IS NOT the answer!.I want you to try something!.Every morning look in the mirror,and find just 1 thing that you like about yourself,and remember it for the whole day!.Do this each and every day,build your self esteem up,start liking your self,start treating your self to the life you can have with a little hard work and persistence!.Why not try doing some volunteer work foe those less fortunate than you!?It might give you a better perspective on things!.Feel free to email me if you want some one to talk with!.Be good to your self son,there are quite a few people that would like you to get through this ,I'm one of them!.Best of luck,God bless but most of all,peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is NOT the only way out!. I know exactly how you feel!. I've been struggling with recurrent depression since I was 12 years old!. I know it becomes very difficult to hold out hope when medication and other treatments continue to fail!. However, I promise you this depression will not last forever!. You simply have to hold on and stay as strong as you possibly can!.

Most importantly, you need help and support from others during this difficult time!. Isolation and withdrawal are what people with depression simply feel the need to do!. However, it's vital that you continue to reach out to people, even though you really don't feel like doing it!. You also need to find a therapist or other professional who you can really trust, and who can help you!. If you feel like your current therapy isn't working, then try to find someone else!. No one therapist or counselor is effective for everyone, you need to find the one who's right for you!.

If you truly start feeling suicidal, please visit this website: http://www!.metanoia!.org/suicide/

Email the Samaritans at: jo@samaritans!.org (http://www!.samaritans!.org/talk_to_someon!.!.!.

And the best thing you can do is tell someone in your life how you're feeling!. I know everything just looks so grim and hopeless right now, but please hold on!. One day, you'll be very thankful you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. Once done, there's no coming back, no second chance!. I look at it this way:
1) You know the Serenity Prayer!? God, Grant me the Serenity to accept things I cannot change, (That's everything and everyone else!.) Courage to change things I can, (that's me and my choices), and Wisdom to know the difference (That's understanding what's your responsibility)!. Can I change this!? Yes!? Do it!. No!? Then leave it alone!. Let it go!.
2) Pray for people who piss you off!. It takes away the anger!. The rain falls on the good and the bad!.
3) If you screw up, admit it!. You're human, it happens!.
4) Take a look at how other people see you!. If you see something you don't like, do your best to change it!.
5) Never be afraid to say "I'm sorry, I was wrong!." Or "I screwed that up, how can I/we fix it!?"
Do you believe in God!? Pray!. If not, do what gets you spiritually centered!.
Do this daily!. Get out of yourself!. Help someone else!. Have you ever gone to AA!? You might go!. Try to understand the steps!. It's another mode of living that you can learn from!.
I agree that you should see a psychologist or psychiatrist!. Even if there's nothing wrong, you're best off to find that out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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