Is it wrong not to socialise at all?!


Question: Is it wrong not to socialise at all!?
i want to but i dont want to!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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i certainly know what u mean when u say u want to and u dont want to socialize because i am the same, i have no interest in wanting to be around people because i think i feel safer at home on my own , my problem im sure is depression were i dont want to mix with anyone or be bothered with anyones company but at the same time im very lonely and frustrated with life , being on my own i know myself is making my depression worse because i feel like i have no life but at the same time i have no motivation whatsoever to socialize, i get anxiety if im around people so i take the easy way out and stay at home, i suppose it is wrong not to socialize at all because it can seriously affect your mental health but its not easy getting yourself out of the rutt either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not wrong, no!. Do whatever you feel!.
I remember when I was in high school I hated to socialize because there was so very few people that I had things in common with, and to put it bluntly I found most of my fellow students annoying!.
And I still do it now at the workplace, some people will want to socialize, but I can't relate so I'd rather not!.

Socialize with who you're comfortable socialing with!.
If there isn't anyone you're comfortable with than it's up to you whether you want to attempt to socialize or not!.

But no, it's not wrong, not at all, and you're not the only one, I swear it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is nothing in this world that is absolutely right or wrong, black or white etc cetera!. Except the way you've been conditioned to stay on the "side" of right!. To answer your question, if your a natural introvert, that's okay!. man, there are enough brash, sex and the city types going around!. It's good to know that there are others that spend most of the time in their own company, the only thing that would worry me, for you, is you'll get lonesome! Everyone needs a few good quality buddies to share their woes or have fun with!. Maybe that's something you, and probably me are missing out on!. I spent practically my whole adolescence in solitude, but it affected my self esteem, and social skills and i ended up in a psych ward three years later, such was the damage to my sense of self- but that was only part of it!. Basically, if you are happy to be a lone wolf and preserve something of yourself, then that's fine, my own experience is that i get flushed having to explain to friends from way back that i'd rather watch an indie movie or read some short stories than hit the discos on a saturday night!. Be careful you don't completely lose touch with reality, like i did with my constant naval gazing and general distrust of mankind!. Hope i've been of help!.!.ps get yourself a wee puppy! You need some bonds!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I myself do not socialize at all, I do over the internet, but that is as far as it goes!. I see no harm in it, I am doing perfectly fine! I am sure there are plenty people out there under the radar who are just like me or even worse who don't get out at all! Home is where the heart is so why go out if it's something you just do not want to do !Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dunno if it's wrong, but it's not exactly healthy!.

Why do you not want to socialize!? There are lots of ways to socialize!. Find something you're interested in, and seek others who share that interest- whether it's cars, fashion, painting, dogs, theater (stage acting), sewing, a certain TV show, movies!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

read your earlier question too !.!.!. !.!.!. i know what you feel !.!.!. i feel the same way too !.!. with me it was a gradual change !.!.!. im pretty sure i am sociophobic !.!.!.!.started around 16 yrs !.!.!. im gona be 21 in july !.!. as of now i have no friends !.!. none at all !.!. i dont like talkin to anyone !.!. i avoid social contact basically !.!. i wont even answer phonecalls or anything !.!. is this wat ur experiencing too!?

if you like !.!. get in touch via email thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com

I have the same problem, but when I do socialize, I must say something to offend them, cause they never want to talk to me again!. They get mad!. So I just keep to myself!. Cause I tend to piss people off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

depends if the person wants too!.!.!. i have the same problem :)

but i know i have to socialise!.!.!.!. but have no friends all the friends i do have do me wrong!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey I've tried socializing and all it did was backfire and cause me unneeded pain!. Maybe you just want a break from people, I understand the feeling being a loner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it isnt really healthy !.
its good to talk to people!. (:
why dont you want to!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can't live in this world without socialising!.!.!. you will get depressed!Www@Answer-Health@Com

When you manage, I don't want to but I want to- you are on the road to having some fun at last!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is honestly no way u can live in this world with out talking to someone it will drive u crazyWww@Answer-Health@Com

it can beWww@Answer-Health@Com





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