My will to live is decreasing more and more...?!
Question: My will to live is decreasing more and more!.!.!.!?
So it started out as normal teenage mood swings (I'm 16)!. Now I want to die more and more often, to the point now where I cant see any way out!. I'm just sick of everything, of life!. The only thing stopping me from killing myself is the chance that my attempt will fail and i'll be in worse sh-t then i was before!.
Please, what do I do!? Nobody takes me seriously!.!.they think I'm doing this for attention!. Believe me, I'm not!. I want to love life!.!.but I can't!. The best part of the day for me is when i sleep because its the closest thing to death!.
Also, dont preach to me that God loves me, ect!. I'm an atheist!. I dont believe in that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please, what do I do!? Nobody takes me seriously!.!.they think I'm doing this for attention!. Believe me, I'm not!. I want to love life!.!.but I can't!. The best part of the day for me is when i sleep because its the closest thing to death!.
Also, dont preach to me that God loves me, ect!. I'm an atheist!. I dont believe in that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but if you're finding the strength to ask for help here, I think that's a good sign because it means you're not just giving up!. I think you should try to figure out why you're feeling this way, if you can!.
Do you have a pretty good life, but still feel depressed!? Or do you have family problems or something else that is negative and is making you depressed!?
If you are in a bad situation (physical or mental abuse, etc!.), you should talk to a counselor or therapist rather than going with a medical approach!. But if you feel like there's no good reason for you to be depressed, but you still are then it sounds like you have an imbalance (of serotonin, for ex!.) and a psychiatrist or even a general practitioner could start you on a prescription mediation that will help your levels even out!. It can sometimes take up to 3 months to get the full effect of medicine, but if your body needs something that it's not able to do for itself then it's worth it!. No one your age should have to feel so sad when there may be help available!.
Hang in there!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I hope that you find some answers that will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you have a pretty good life, but still feel depressed!? Or do you have family problems or something else that is negative and is making you depressed!?
If you are in a bad situation (physical or mental abuse, etc!.), you should talk to a counselor or therapist rather than going with a medical approach!. But if you feel like there's no good reason for you to be depressed, but you still are then it sounds like you have an imbalance (of serotonin, for ex!.) and a psychiatrist or even a general practitioner could start you on a prescription mediation that will help your levels even out!. It can sometimes take up to 3 months to get the full effect of medicine, but if your body needs something that it's not able to do for itself then it's worth it!. No one your age should have to feel so sad when there may be help available!.
Hang in there!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I hope that you find some answers that will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In the scheme of things you are a baby! You have much to live for even though at the moment you cant see it!. I dont know **** about god, but there are people who love you and would be devistated if something happened to you! I mean no direspect in calling you a baby, it's just that I am in my forties so you are a baby to me, so please baby, don't do anything to hurt yourself!. Now I am invested in your life, please don't do anything to hurt yourself PLEASE! Just keep talking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey please don't kill yourself!. i know that you are here for a reason and that their must be people in your life who love you and care about you!. i bet that you have tons of friends and family who would die if you killed yourself and would feel guilty and i bet their is something that you love to do too!. try to do it more often!. writing is a good outlet!. just please have hopeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Comon, don't be like that!. Ive never met you and i can tell you you have it better off then alot of people, your on a computer!. Look for all the positive in your life, in the future, and in the past!. Dont be negative, that **** doesnt help!. Your probably living a better life than you realize and your probably a very chill cat and a tight person to be around!. Dont do anything stupid:)!. PeaceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't do it!.There is a better future ahead of you!. Think positive!. Maybe going to talk to someone like a counsellor might help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can understand how everyone feels that you are just looking for attetntion!. All these people are ignorant and they have never been in a place that you are and that is why they do not misuderstand what yu are goin through!. You didnt write in your own question what makes you suicidal!. Being suicidal is a very important symptom in determing a mental illness!. You may be suffering from depression or something else too!. You will not be able to know that by yourself!. You shpuld go and visit a psychiatrist and tell him how you feel!. This should be your first step!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk it out you haven't done much!. Think of what you want your future to be like do you want a husband and kids a great life!. If you die now you didn't do anything!. People don't realize that this is very common and shouldn't be played with!. Do stuff you enjoy and think about your future if you don't commet suicide!. Your last resort may be cuting but if possible dont do it it is very addicting and can still kill you!. just don't attempt suicide!. It is sooooooooooo not the answer!. Right now its a tough time you will get through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, you are still young, but I can understand what you are going through!. I heard someone in this Yahoo answers community whic I liked is that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!.
Sometimes I feel good, but mostly bad!. I thought about suicide also but I felt like I would be cheating myself because I have to learn how to handle life!. I love sleeping and long naps because that is when my mind is at rest!.
But now I want to feel happy!. I've been trying to do that for my whole life, I'm 36!. What get's me through is that I have certain goals in life that I want to achieve!. I finished college, but it took me 11 years!. That's what keeps me going, a goal!. I would feel bad if I didn't try and I commend myself for working towards it!. So from experience, find out what you want!. Write it down!. Instead of aimlessly taking classes here and there!. When you finish a goal, go for another goal!.
But what I cherish each day and and value is my nap!. My hour nap is my getaway from the world and a reward for a job well done!. I turn off my cell phone and don't worry about anything, I just nap!. Also, one day a week I just do what I want; no family, work, or friends to tell me what to do!. I call it balance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes I feel good, but mostly bad!. I thought about suicide also but I felt like I would be cheating myself because I have to learn how to handle life!. I love sleeping and long naps because that is when my mind is at rest!.
But now I want to feel happy!. I've been trying to do that for my whole life, I'm 36!. What get's me through is that I have certain goals in life that I want to achieve!. I finished college, but it took me 11 years!. That's what keeps me going, a goal!. I would feel bad if I didn't try and I commend myself for working towards it!. So from experience, find out what you want!. Write it down!. Instead of aimlessly taking classes here and there!. When you finish a goal, go for another goal!.
But what I cherish each day and and value is my nap!. My hour nap is my getaway from the world and a reward for a job well done!. I turn off my cell phone and don't worry about anything, I just nap!. Also, one day a week I just do what I want; no family, work, or friends to tell me what to do!. I call it balance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hi,
I'm 17 & a boy but I had the same type of problems over the last month due to some personal problems but now although my problems are still there or maybe a little bit worser, I'm having my happiest time now!. :-) The problems are there just as they are!. I didn't go into anything wrong!. Not even Liquor but I'm having a nice time in here!. I learned to live the life to it's maximum & wouldn't mind teaching it to you!. But, writing a tutorial in here won't do the magic!.
You need individual attention & although the people around you may not be willing to give ti to you, I'm willing to give it to you & so many people out there also are willing to help you out!.
Privacy Guaranteed & Theism has nothing to do in this topic!.
I'd be glad to talk with you over this matter!.
Please don't make any decision till I talk with you!. If everything fails I'll teach you a fail-proof method for suicide but I know you can get through this & there's no need to post it here!. First, let us have a talk, maybe at least over IM/Chat!.
Please do anything now!. Let us talk about these!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 17 & a boy but I had the same type of problems over the last month due to some personal problems but now although my problems are still there or maybe a little bit worser, I'm having my happiest time now!. :-) The problems are there just as they are!. I didn't go into anything wrong!. Not even Liquor but I'm having a nice time in here!. I learned to live the life to it's maximum & wouldn't mind teaching it to you!. But, writing a tutorial in here won't do the magic!.
You need individual attention & although the people around you may not be willing to give ti to you, I'm willing to give it to you & so many people out there also are willing to help you out!.
Privacy Guaranteed & Theism has nothing to do in this topic!.
I'd be glad to talk with you over this matter!.
Please don't make any decision till I talk with you!. If everything fails I'll teach you a fail-proof method for suicide but I know you can get through this & there's no need to post it here!. First, let us have a talk, maybe at least over IM/Chat!.
Please do anything now!. Let us talk about these!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel the same way!.!.!. it's tiring!. This depression and anxiety is eating away at me to the point where I can't even leave my house or answer the phone without having a panic attack!.!. I've been on the verge of suicide too!. I attempted to kill myself by OD but obviously it didn't work!. I"m still here, the worthless piece of sh*t I am!. I have no life; I stay inside the house, under my rock where I belong!. I tried, I really tried to make friends, but I'm not good at this whole "friend" thing!. I think it's best for everyone if I just stay alone!.!.!. The cuts, the bruises!.!.!. I can't hide them anymore!. I want to die!.
I"m around your age, and no one takes me seriously either!. My brother and sister mock me, saying I'm just feeling sorry for myself for attention, that I'm faking it!. My mother hits me, calls me a crazy ******, and says she wants me to die!. I don't blame her!. I feel the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I"m around your age, and no one takes me seriously either!. My brother and sister mock me, saying I'm just feeling sorry for myself for attention, that I'm faking it!. My mother hits me, calls me a crazy ******, and says she wants me to die!. I don't blame her!. I feel the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call the National Suicide 24/7 Hotline 1-800-448-3000!. Whatever you do, don't hurt yourself in any way!.
You're feeling this way right now, but tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, the future has something good in store for you!. To get there, it's your job to get through this no matter how sad you feel!. Don't give up!. We all go through hard times!.
Go to a counselor, even the school counselor!. Tell her/him how you're feeling!.
When the feeling to hurt yourself gets too strong, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room!.
Call the number above right now!. There's somebody there to talk to you!. And they won't think you're doing this for attention!.
And okay, I hear you when you say you don't believe in God!. I respect your right to believe that, but honey, you can't stop me from praying for you!.
Don't give up, you hear!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're feeling this way right now, but tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, the future has something good in store for you!. To get there, it's your job to get through this no matter how sad you feel!. Don't give up!. We all go through hard times!.
Go to a counselor, even the school counselor!. Tell her/him how you're feeling!.
When the feeling to hurt yourself gets too strong, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room!.
Call the number above right now!. There's somebody there to talk to you!. And they won't think you're doing this for attention!.
And okay, I hear you when you say you don't believe in God!. I respect your right to believe that, but honey, you can't stop me from praying for you!.
Don't give up, you hear!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
First up wait a minute ^_^ second up I really wanna talk about the whole life thing!. I'm kinda going thru the same thing and I really wanna talk about it XP I would have messaged you but you can't be messaged!. anyways since I haven't tried answering your question yet here it goes!.!.!.you said the best part of the day is when you sleep caz it's close to death, but why is death a happy!? are things bad right now!? Gotta think that there are the good things too!. Even if the number of bad things out weigh the good it's not quantity but quality!. Also you have to think about later on in the future!. I've been thinking about this alot and have lots of things going thru my head but really there's so much to say!.!.!.send an e-mail and we can talk!.!.!.please it'd mean a lot!. Main thing though, don't do anything while you're in the moment because you'll never just step back and look at it for what it really is!.
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God, I'm in the same position you are in!. Everyday, I tell myself that it's going to get better, and it never does!. All I'm doing is telling myself that I'm hopefully strong enough to survive until I'm 18, and then I can maybe get away from everything!. It may not necessarily come true, but my coming of age is like a lifeline!.
I'm not an atheist, but I can't stand it when people tell me that God loves me!. I might sound ungrateful, by if God loves me so much, why does he let my parents abuse me!? Why does no one else give two shits about how I'm really doing!? I'm sick and tired of most people and the mindless sheep they are!. My only saving grace is my best friend - even though she lives overseas, she drops everything else to call me when I ask her to!. Find someone who you can trust, whether a total stranger who is willing to listen, or someone who you know would never tell other about your problems!. That's the most I can tell you to do, because I'm facing this problem myself, and wondering how to get by!. May you find your peace, however you do so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not an atheist, but I can't stand it when people tell me that God loves me!. I might sound ungrateful, by if God loves me so much, why does he let my parents abuse me!? Why does no one else give two shits about how I'm really doing!? I'm sick and tired of most people and the mindless sheep they are!. My only saving grace is my best friend - even though she lives overseas, she drops everything else to call me when I ask her to!. Find someone who you can trust, whether a total stranger who is willing to listen, or someone who you know would never tell other about your problems!. That's the most I can tell you to do, because I'm facing this problem myself, and wondering how to get by!. May you find your peace, however you do so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but God does loves you!.
the devil is tormenting you night and day!.!.God allows this so you will have faith in HIM to learn to trust in Him!. I did suicide twice and was saved!.!.pissed me off the 1st time and the second time!. I now know why God saved me so I could be a Mom!. This is the best job in the whole world!. I was blessed with 2 great boys!.
What can it hurt but to talk to God a couple times and ask for his help!.!.cause as I am typing I hope he feels your heart with love and you gives you goose bumps as you read this!.!.
Your young and have alot of growing up to do!. Your age sucks!.!.!.at least till about 19!. We all hate life ,feel very unloved but generally its us who leave in the middle of a converstaion when we are talking with our parents cause we hate hearing the truth come from an adult!. So we say they don't understand and they don't listen!.
Get off the pity party bus and start living, if you quit being so negitive people will probably love to hang with you and then you will have turned your life around!. YOU can do anything!.
Only you can fix you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the devil is tormenting you night and day!.!.God allows this so you will have faith in HIM to learn to trust in Him!. I did suicide twice and was saved!.!.pissed me off the 1st time and the second time!. I now know why God saved me so I could be a Mom!. This is the best job in the whole world!. I was blessed with 2 great boys!.
What can it hurt but to talk to God a couple times and ask for his help!.!.cause as I am typing I hope he feels your heart with love and you gives you goose bumps as you read this!.!.
Your young and have alot of growing up to do!. Your age sucks!.!.!.at least till about 19!. We all hate life ,feel very unloved but generally its us who leave in the middle of a converstaion when we are talking with our parents cause we hate hearing the truth come from an adult!. So we say they don't understand and they don't listen!.
Get off the pity party bus and start living, if you quit being so negitive people will probably love to hang with you and then you will have turned your life around!. YOU can do anything!.
Only you can fix you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had the same problem when I was your age!. Talk to your parents about it, I know it may seem that they won't listen or understand but give them a chance!. Tell them how you are feeling, what's going on in your life and how your are dealing with it!. I talked with my mom cause her and I are close, she listened and consoled me!. Then we went to the doctor, and I was diagnosed with Bi-Polar disorder!. In my opinion, you have the symptoms that go hand in hand with bi polar depression!. Talk you you doctor about it and see if he can recommend a low dose anti-depressant or mood stabilizer!. This is a very serious condition if left untreated and could lead you to harm yourself, or worse!. If Your doc thinks you are too young for meds he might suggest going to group therapy, which I did as well, along with sessions with my mom!. It improved my relationship with her and allowed me to open up in an environment where I was not judged!. Seek out alternatives and give it a chance, even if it seems silly!.(Cause trust me at first, it will!.)
If you ever need to talk, feel free to email me at calea_hamilton@hotmail!.com!.
I hope things get better for you, life truly is worth living!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you ever need to talk, feel free to email me at calea_hamilton@hotmail!.com!.
I hope things get better for you, life truly is worth living!.Www@Answer-Health@Com