I think i have a problem?!


Question: I think i have a problem!?
i think i have an inferiority comples where i feel like i am a pile of poo compared to other people, and it makes me withdrawn!. i am still friendly i just feel alone inside!. i grew up extremely poor, and lived in homeless shelters with my mom and two bros and sis, cause our dad left us!. i am doing good now on my own, and no one would ever suspect someone like me wouldve gone through all that, i dont look like that type of person!. but it still haunts me, and whenever i try to do something i feel like that same little beggar and like a poor person no one wants to give the time of day to!. how can i get over this, its ruining any plans for things i wanna do in life!

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Answers:
it doesnt matter if you grew up poor or even if u lived in a homeless shelter there is nothing wrong with that its not ur fault ur brothers fault ur sisters fault or ur moms fault it can happen to anyone, it must of been hard for all your family to struggle and have no security in life, the only person who should feel like poo is ur dad for abandaning u all, he doesnt deserve to live on the planet!. u say you are a nice person and if thats true it makes you a far better person than someone like him or anyone of a similar nature, look at it this way i would rather have a family anyday with someone who had a poor past but who made me happy than be in a family of riches and the person making me misrable, u should be proud of ur mum for bringing u up to be a nice person even thow u all went through great hardship, concentrate on being nice thats all you need and people will love u for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Read "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren (bestseller)

Do not be ashamed of your past!. It was for your good and the good of your family!. True beauty comes from a gentle and humble heart!. With time come to appreciate what you have been given!. You were sent here for a good reason!. What you do with your life is your choice!. Choose wisely!Www@Answer-Health@Com

oh sweetie!!
come on its life u gotta just put all ur past life behind n think abt the future i know it doesn't sound as easy as i say but still!.!.
i feel u r a strong gal coz of wat all u have gone through!.!.all tat pain has made u a stronger person inside!.!.
so never let urself down!.!.
and its not easy to come up in life but u hav done it n u r a role model for many ppl!.!.i salute u for all tat!.!.
hmmm am so touched by wat u hav posted!.!.
kinda have tears in my eyes!.!.
never mind!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

A lot of people think this way!. Make a decision to change the way you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to try and be more positive!. Tell yourself that you are really a great person, just as good if not better than everyone else! But don't just say it, believe it!

I have an inferiority complex in some things, but if I let it get to me it just makes me feel worse!. The times I stand up and go against my complex, which is usually the hard option, I always feel so much better afterwards, and get a great feeling of self accomplishment and self-worth!.

Try it out for yourself and see how it goes!

Plus, your stomach is way sexy! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

Been there done that!. See if this might help you out a little!.
I think if you look at almost everyone, somewhere
deep inside, everyone has the same feelings in one way or the other, it's how they show it on the outside that is different!.
Some people show it by being shy, others by pushing out anger, some people turn it into energy & make it work for them by turning it into determination!.
You need to find at least one thing that makes you feel good about yourself & work on that!. If you can luv yourself & feel good about yourself & not let others bring you down!.!.!. It's really empowering!!!!!

Keep in mind even though you can't see everyones pain/ because they hide it well, there is always someone that has it worse then you do, and there are also others that will have it better!.
On this side of the country there are thousands of people loosing there jobs every day & becoming homeless that have family's,
Years past I have been in a major car accident & had to be rebuilt many times, lost a few parts & gained a bit of steel in knees and wrists!. I was down for a while but now I am in shape ~ outgoing ~ feeling good about the things I have accomplished in these few years ~
What doesn't kill you ~~~~~Can and will make you stronger !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P!.S!. Don't let others pick on you/ bring you down,to bring themselves up ~ they are not worth it !!!!!!!!!!
True friends are always there, they will bring you up when you are down, they will stay away when you want some time a lone, but they are always there to share !!!!
Come chat & play on my 360 page if you want & get some time!.

Good luck & have a GREAT DAY !!!!! ;~}Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why would you feel that way in the 1st place,, it wasn't your fault and face it hon, everyone some time in there life needs help in one form or another!.

Learn from it and move on and UPWARD

PEACEWww@Answer-Health@Com

The problem is that you are comparing yourself to others!. Believe me, many people have been where you were at, you just don't know it!. If everyone revealed their stories, you wouldn't see us any different!. I remember a time when my parents couldn't pay the rent and our car was reposessed!. We didn't have many "things" in life!. My first marriage soured and I was left struggling to raise 2 kids on my own and finding whatever job I could and hated every minute of living off of foodstamps when others looked down on me!. Even later in life when my husband had a heart attack and I struggled trying to feed 3 teenagers while I didn't eat for 3 weeks in the process!. I felt I couldn't go on foodstamps again because the haunting was still there too!. Even now I hoard food incase there should ever be a famine in our personal lives!. We all go through trials throughout our life!. There are many times where I felt I didn't have any self worth, have been torn down by others and thought, here we go again!.!.!.one step forward and two steps back!. You just have to learn from it and go on to make you stronger!. If you are in a negative situation, make that change or hang around others who are uplifing nand positive!. Remember the past is there for a reason, but don't dwell on it!. Life is too short!. If you are feeling this way now, it's perhaps due to the economy that you can't move the way you would like!. We are all in this struggle on earth together!. Remember if you don't like the way things are and can't change it, change the way you look at it!.

Misery loves company and you find us all on YA! LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hmmm!.!.!.!.!.I have to commend you on your journey from the deep to the height of where you are!. That alone is a testament that you can do anything you put your mind to!. To actually help you with your problem, I have to ask you what kind of friends do you keep!? Are they friends who are where you are!?
Solution: You need to get friends who have achieved what you want to achieve or being where you want to be or freinds on thier way there!.!.!.!.that is, achievers!. You need to look for someone with a character of a mentor!.!.!.!.!.someone you can look up to and someone who can offer you advice and inspire you and someone you can trust to guide you!.
Secondly, you need to get some self improvement books!.
I recommend that you start with
1!. SKILL WITH PEOPLE by Les Giblin
2!. HOW TO HAVE CONFIDENCE AND POWER IN
DEALING WITH PEOPLE by Les Giblin!.
3!. SEEDS OF GREATNESS by Denis Waitley!.
4!. BASIC PEOPLE SKILL by Dexter Yager
These are just a few!.!.!.there are thousands of other great books out there too!. Every successful person in life is an avid reader!.!.!.not just reading anything, but reading self improvement books!. The multi-millionaires of the world belong to the echelon of this group!. I will also recommend you reading!.!.!.!.
5!. READ AND GROW RICH by Burke Hedges!.
I recommend that you look for other books that are along the same lines!. This will help with your self confidence!. These books will greatly inspire and change you!. Even the most confident of us still need some confidence sometimes!.!.!.!.self improvement books are the key!. You can google all of these books or even get them at Barnes and nobles!. I wish you good mental health and improved confidence as you seek to better yourself!. Spread those wings like a fearless eagle and fly!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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