I'm pretty young...and I'm starting to cut...I want to stop but I don!


Question: I'm pretty young!.!.!.and I'm starting to cut!.!.!.I want to stop but I don't know how!.!.!.Help!?
I started first by just pinching myself, ripping off the skin and letting a bit of blood come out, but now i'm using scissors and making bigger cuts!.!.!.I know I need to stop, but I'm really not sure how!. I'm not going to my school guidance counselor because I hate him, or my parents, or really any adult!. I couldn't do that, because adults think I'm little miss sunshine!. The only person who knows is my friend, and some kids on my bus saw it but they didn't know what it was!. HELP PLEASEWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Have you tried telling your friend what it was and what you are going through!? Maybe if you do they will understand you better and try to help you!. If this cutting is from stress or depression you should really try to get help for it!. Telling your parents would be a good idea if you are under 18 because they could get you a therapist so you could talk your issues out to somene!. I am sure telling and adult about your cutting will not make them think any more or less about you!. It could actually make you feel closer to them since you aren't hiding anything!. If you want to talk to someone not close to you though, you can email me if you want!. I have had cutting problems too!.
Also are sites that tells ways on how to stop cutting!.
http://www!.wikihow!.com/Stop-Cutting-Your!.!.!.
http://www!.healthyplace!.com/Communities/!.!.!.
http://www!.geocities!.com/maggieand_steve!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Cutting is often a symptom of depression and also of a personality disorder!. In all likelihood, you aren't going to fix this on your own!. You need professional help!. If people think you are "Little Miss Sunshine," you are possibly angry that you feel you have to hide your true feelings!.!.!.!.and the cutting is a way of expressing that anger without exposing yourself to these people!. What you're doing is dangerous - - and letting this go is not the answer!. Find some adult you trust and speak up!. Please take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok!.!.!. why the hell are you cutting in the first place!? do you wanna kill yrself!? if you don't then why the fxck are you doin' this in the first place and don't give me none of that "it gives me a rush/i don't feel it at first" crap!. the only thing that'll make you stop if you go over the edge!. true story!. go to an mental behavioral therapist!. yr parents will give you crap nd councelors will give you shitty advise because they never got their masters in psychology!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First talk to someone!. Like your parents, and or see a psychiatrist, plus look to get in touch with a teenage hotline to talk out your problems with other people your age!. Then take up a hobby get into a sport like fencing, golf, basketball, baseball or whatever!. Plus P!.S!. I hope you can stop cutting yourself before it is too late, and you hurt those who care about you!. Good luck in healing, and have a good life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How: you need to cope with stress better!. If you don't feel comfortable talking to someone face to face about these problems, I am open to talk over the computer when ever!. Just message me!. Also, you need to get involved in sports and such to learn to get the aggressiveness out!. Why do you cut!? Try to solve that reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

By any chance do you go to KLS!? Just askin!.!.!.!.anyway!. You need to stop!. I have a friend who used to cut!.!.!.!.the best way is to gain controll!. Instead of cutting, do something else!. As soon as you get the urge, do something like jumping jax or go outside and get a tan or paint ur nails!. Be in CONTROLL!!! Dont let the scissors be the boss!. Throw away anything that could cut you!. Please!. Listen to this advice and REALLY try hard!. How old are you!? Next time you wanna cut immediatly do something else!.!.!.!.!.IMMIDIETLY!!! Remember!.!.!.!.!. Cutting is a HURTFUL answer to a TEMPORARY problem :D!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

since your friend knows, i'd suggest talking to her!. maybe she knows someone you talk to!. or you could find a teen help hotline!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im gonna look up this question, I have the same problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i no this is gonna sound dumb, but next time u wana cut get a piece of like, scrap cloth or somethin and rip it!. and throw away anything u could cut with!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You have to get help, go to your doctors, tell a teacher in school it doesnt have to be your guidance counsellor!. Tell a friends parent - anything will help!. You have to stop this because when you get older and wiser you will realise what you were doing was not worth it, you wil be left with horrible scars and will never be able to show your body off and show people what you are truly worth!. The fact you say your pretty you must like yourself in some way, you won't be pretty anymore if you keep cutting!. Not only that you can get a list of infections/diseases from cutting, you really need to get help before its too late and your life will be ruined by doing this!. Things may seem tough just now but wait until your out in the real world when your older and your covered in scars and have a blood borne virus plus a list of mental health problems!!!
When really you can change now for the better,and as you grow up you will become successful, confident, have kids and have fun because you have had the power to combat this horrible disorder :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Self harm is a way of controlling what you are feeling!. Perhaps there are issues in your life that are painful for you, and being so young you have little or no control over them, so you cut, in doing so, the physical pain reduces the emotional pain!. This is simplifying it alot but you get the picture!. Yes, you do need to stop, you also need to find another way of coping with painful issues!. You need help with this and therapy would be a positive way of doing this!. Can you perhaps see your doctor!? Even if you hate him, you could try aproaching the guidance counsellor, he will probably have had experience of this sort of thing, and I am sorry to say, but unless you get control of this now, it will get worse, it has already escalated beyond pinching yourself!.

You could try writing your feelings down, what things hurt you and make you feel bad, what you would like to do to change things!. What things in your life have been painful for you and how you would like to have made them different, al lthis can help to be another way of coping with painful issues, but I would urge you to seek counselling as in order to self harm, you are probably dealing with quite a lot emotionally, and a trained therapist would be able to give you the opportunity to deal with these issues in a safe environment!. Other than that, I do not know what to suggest, but you need to get help with this, sooner rather than later, before it becomes a real problem and gets more complicated and a whole lot worse!. Please, see your doctor or find any adult that you feel you can talk to!. Even a preacher at a church, just someone who can get you some help!. Good luck and God bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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