I hate myself alot?!
Question: I hate myself alot!?
I hate myself!. I'm stupid & ugly!. I can never do anything right!. I let my dad down all the time!. I cut myself and I lie to everyone about it!. I hate how everyone around me is fake!. I think about killing myself all the time!. I can't talk to my mom about cutting!. She thinks "those" people are crazy!. My dad would be so pissed and start yelling at me!. I know he would try to act like he cares about me!. The only thing he does is yell at me for no reason!. I hate my sister she acts like she loves me!. God I just want out right now!. I know this is NOT normal!.The only reason why I have not killed myself is I know that when you hit rock bottom you can only go up!. What should I do!? I CAN'T talk to my parents about this!. My friends would freak out out& not talk to me!. It's summer so I'm out of school!. I'm 17!. What should I do!? My boyfriend's going to leave me if I don't stop cutting!. I'm addicted to cutting!. I have been doing this for 3 years!. My parents don't know about it!. I can't tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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sweetie!! these things do not make u abnormal!!! but yes!.!.!.this is wrong for urself!.!.!.it can have very harmful effects!. last time i was reading about this sort of thing!. if you cut urself, it makes u feel a whole lot better about urself, and im very sure it does!.!.!.but it may have very very bad side effects on your brain in the long term!. what i think about the cutting thing- is that its just a distraction from the real truth!.!.some people think that physical abuse is much worse than verbal abuse, i believe the contrary!. people like you,all over the world, try to forget about the verbal abuse, low self esteem ("I'm stupid & ugly"), etc
my advice to you is to believe in yourself!.!.!.ive been depressed a lot in the past but there has been one person that pulled me through!.!.!.and i think you can find a person to help you through too!.!.!.this person is yourself!.!.!.dont do anything for anyone else!.!.do this for you!
tell yourself that even if the whole world hated you and wanted you to die!.!.!.you're not going out of this without a battle!. You're gonna make sure you are happy!. I do suggest you leave these type of conversations out when talking to your parents and friends!.!.if they dont understand and already have ideas about "these" type of people!.
But!.!.!.there are people that can help you!.!.!.counselors will have seen several cases like yours and will know how to help you!. there are also helplines!.!.!.listen to their advice!.!.they created these services for people like you, people like me, people like everyone else!.!.!.who have just been having a few problems in their life!.!.!.
you're normal!.!.!.i can guarantee that!.!.!.but come on! for ur own sake!.!.!.u seem to be very convincing to ur friends, family and boyfriend that you are not going through any of these problems!.!.!.!.and this must need a lot of determination!.!.!.focus ur determination on the cutting!.!.!.make it stop!.!.!.look after urself!.!.!.
i mean !.!.!.why shouldnt you live happily!?!?!? you deserve to!. trust me!.!.!.thse bad experiences will help you further on in life!. you will be much much stronger and will be able to face certain problems more easily then the "other" people who have had a fairly "easy" life!.!.!.but this beneficial life all starts here!.!.!.you can make it happen!.!.!.and if others can get through this!.!.why cant you!?
you're not alone
all the best!.!.!.and never give upWww@Answer-Health@Com
my advice to you is to believe in yourself!.!.!.ive been depressed a lot in the past but there has been one person that pulled me through!.!.!.and i think you can find a person to help you through too!.!.!.this person is yourself!.!.!.dont do anything for anyone else!.!.do this for you!
tell yourself that even if the whole world hated you and wanted you to die!.!.!.you're not going out of this without a battle!. You're gonna make sure you are happy!. I do suggest you leave these type of conversations out when talking to your parents and friends!.!.if they dont understand and already have ideas about "these" type of people!.
But!.!.!.there are people that can help you!.!.!.counselors will have seen several cases like yours and will know how to help you!. there are also helplines!.!.!.listen to their advice!.!.they created these services for people like you, people like me, people like everyone else!.!.!.who have just been having a few problems in their life!.!.!.
you're normal!.!.!.i can guarantee that!.!.!.but come on! for ur own sake!.!.!.u seem to be very convincing to ur friends, family and boyfriend that you are not going through any of these problems!.!.!.!.and this must need a lot of determination!.!.!.focus ur determination on the cutting!.!.!.make it stop!.!.!.look after urself!.!.!.
i mean !.!.!.why shouldnt you live happily!?!?!? you deserve to!. trust me!.!.!.thse bad experiences will help you further on in life!. you will be much much stronger and will be able to face certain problems more easily then the "other" people who have had a fairly "easy" life!.!.!.but this beneficial life all starts here!.!.!.you can make it happen!.!.!.and if others can get through this!.!.why cant you!?
you're not alone
all the best!.!.!.and never give upWww@Answer-Health@Com
im really sorry about your condition
i know how you feel
i didnt cut for that long
just for a couple of months
idk what you shuld do
im sryy
goodluckWww@Answer-Health@Com
i know how you feel
i didnt cut for that long
just for a couple of months
idk what you shuld do
im sryy
goodluckWww@Answer-Health@Com
17 is a tough age, and you're right, things can only get better so there is a hope and a future!. Parents- especially dads, yell when they get upset and don't know what to do or how to control something out of their reach!. If he shows any emotion at all on the subject, that's how you know he cares!.
I know how you feel about wanting out and it is normal to feel it at least once in your life!. Tell a friend or even, just let them "accidently" get a look at where you've cut, trust me, the reaction won't be to completely shun you!. I had a friend who did the same thing, I took her aside and told her I loved her and that she needed to stop hurting herself because it was hurting me too!.
You can't be stupid or ugly, you've got people who care about you and you're smart enough to ask for help!.
I'm not saying you should tell your parents, they might already know but just don't want to comfront you!. Just take a deep breath and one day at a time!. It's summer now!. Take advantage of the sun!.!.!.!.!.
In Alaska during times where there's no sun for months and months it drives people out of their minds so I'm sure a little bit of sunlight could do you some good!.
If you need someone to talk to send me a message!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel about wanting out and it is normal to feel it at least once in your life!. Tell a friend or even, just let them "accidently" get a look at where you've cut, trust me, the reaction won't be to completely shun you!. I had a friend who did the same thing, I took her aside and told her I loved her and that she needed to stop hurting herself because it was hurting me too!.
You can't be stupid or ugly, you've got people who care about you and you're smart enough to ask for help!.
I'm not saying you should tell your parents, they might already know but just don't want to comfront you!. Just take a deep breath and one day at a time!. It's summer now!. Take advantage of the sun!.!.!.!.!.
In Alaska during times where there's no sun for months and months it drives people out of their minds so I'm sure a little bit of sunlight could do you some good!.
If you need someone to talk to send me a message!.Www@Answer-Health@Com