A girl died from my school today..?!


Question: A girl died from my school today!.!.!?
Is it normal to feel like your going to die when this stuff happens too!? I feel so horrible for this girl, the whole school is in a depression!.!.and barely anyone is going to school tomarrow!. Is it normal to feel this way at first!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Hi~
I decided to add you to my contacts and read this question!.
I remember when this girl passed away at my school a few months ago!. She was diagnosed with brain tumor for years and lived on!.
After numerous times of surgery, the tumor still grew back!. She only had limited time to live!.
But still she came to school!. And one day, this girl died!. Her brother quoted, "She was such an angel!. Heaven must be envious!."
Yes, the whole school was under shock!. For a few days, they were basically muted zombies!. They could not think straight, and kept jumping into conclusions about their own death!.
I, too, felt this way!. It's extremely hard!. I heard by heart racing every time they mentioned her name!.
I think it is quite normal to feel this way!. Of course, I believe everyone would react the same as we all did!.

And thank you for making me feel better!.
Peace&LoveWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, it is normal to feel what you are feeling right now!. You are projecting the possibility of you own death, and human mortality, probably for the first time!.
You school will probably provide a "grief counselor"!. I would suggest that you have a conversation with him/her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry to hear this!.
When someone dies, either close to us, or just someone our age, a schoolmate, whatever it puts us in touch with our own mortality!.!.!.meaning we realize that we too, can god forbid, pass away at any time!.
YES what you are feeling is very normal!.!.!.!.!.Guidance counselors are great to help through things like this!.
Good Luck to you!.!.and that feeling of "dread" will pass!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, what you are filling is MORNING,it is a personal sign of respect for another in your life!.
the same that you would fill for a parent or grand parent!.
try to relax,say some kind word and take some flowers to the family to show your respect for there loss!.
best of luck,Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes what you are feeling is normal, because it shows that you are empathetic, and sensitive, and that is a good thing!. Also I am sorry that she died, and I hope you can heal, and feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes if you knew jessica jacobs i was in her class all my life i was depressed for 3 weeks because she was a good friend of mine
so i would say take like a week off school to atleast recover a little bit that is what i didWww@Answer-Health@Com

one of my best friends commited suicide this year
January 14Th to be exact!. all of us were extremely depressed and felt like we were gonna die!.!.
she was 15!.!.!.
its completely normal to feel like thisWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry for your loss!. You should speak to an adult about how you feel though!. Talk to someone and it might make you feel a little better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry for your loss!. You should speak to someone about it if you are feeling down or sad !


Best of Luck!

Lollies xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Its very normal!.
Sorry for your loss!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im sorry that it happened!.!.!.!.was she your friendWww@Answer-Health@Com

really from what!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am sorry for your loss you are all experiencing!. it may be a good idea to print a number of copies of the following, for those affected most!. Go to http://www!.mind!.org!.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter!. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U!.S!.A!.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book)!. Email jo@samaritans!.org Chatrooms and forums: http://www!.chatmag!.com/topics/health/gri!.!.!. and http://talkingminds!.15!.forumer!.com/ and http://messageboards!.ivillage!.com/ Other websites: http://www!.griefnet!.org/ and http://www!.helpguide!.org/ and http://www!.mental-health-abc!.com/ and http://www!.boblivingstone!.com/!?q=node30 and http://www!.crusebereavementcare!.org!.uk/ Understand that there are often several stages of grief!.

The stages are:

Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening!."
Anger: "Why ME!? It's not fair!?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate!."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything!?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK!."
K



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