15 and just.. lost?!
Question: 15 and just!.!. lost!?
Im 15 and I am really frustrated with how i've been living!. I cant make a decision, and I have been this way (indecisive) about everything!. I cant decide whether or not to talk to this girl and tell her that I like here!.!. I cant decide whether to play football or soccer next year, I act like its the end of the world and make such a big deal out of nothing!. I worry every day about whether I will stutter, because I have a mild stuttering problem!. I wish I could just clear my mind of everything and enjoy life!. Its right on the verge of summer and Im not even having a good time, becuase i WORRY about EVERYTHING!. The football and soccer thing seems like the whole world to me, because it seems like whatever i play, i will regret not playing the other one!. Someone help please!.!. if anyone has any techniques or something to help me slow down my life and just help me relaxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Welcome to the ripe age of teenhood, I'm 26 years old and I am frustrated with what kind of career I want!.
Frustrations will always happen and you are young enough to play football and soccer but at different times in your life!.
Stuttering is a normal biological function that every person deals with!. James Earl Jones (voice of Darth Vader) had a stuttering problem when he was young and he has a great voice and gives great speeches!.
When I was 15 I had the same problem, nervous about doing too many things or not doing enough things!. I didn't know how to talk to girls and was constantly nervous about talking to any of them to find out!. But this is the summer, and you have an opportunity to practice!.
Public speaking requires confidence and that is something that you can't develop overnight!. Embarrasing situations will occur, but dealing with them early on will help you regain confidence!.
See if you can go to a social event outside of your town so you can practice on girls you don't know!. If you believe yourself that you are able to talk smooth and strike a great conversation then girls will see you that way!. If they don't kick them to curb and move on to the next one!.
This takes practice, and you will crash and burn!. But learning these skills early in your teens will make you a more outgoing person in your 20s with even better access to hook ups!.
Casanova wasn't an attractive man but he sure did now how to chat it up with a woman!. Look up some of his works for your summer reading!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Frustrations will always happen and you are young enough to play football and soccer but at different times in your life!.
Stuttering is a normal biological function that every person deals with!. James Earl Jones (voice of Darth Vader) had a stuttering problem when he was young and he has a great voice and gives great speeches!.
When I was 15 I had the same problem, nervous about doing too many things or not doing enough things!. I didn't know how to talk to girls and was constantly nervous about talking to any of them to find out!. But this is the summer, and you have an opportunity to practice!.
Public speaking requires confidence and that is something that you can't develop overnight!. Embarrasing situations will occur, but dealing with them early on will help you regain confidence!.
See if you can go to a social event outside of your town so you can practice on girls you don't know!. If you believe yourself that you are able to talk smooth and strike a great conversation then girls will see you that way!. If they don't kick them to curb and move on to the next one!.
This takes practice, and you will crash and burn!. But learning these skills early in your teens will make you a more outgoing person in your 20s with even better access to hook ups!.
Casanova wasn't an attractive man but he sure did now how to chat it up with a woman!. Look up some of his works for your summer reading!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you sound exactly like I did when I was 15!. I know it sucks and everyone say you'll get over it and you don't believe them!. But it is true!. Everything changes so quickly after highschool (for the good)!. Try to focus on the good things right now (as few as they may be or as little as they may seem)!. When you get worried about something think about that awesome goal you scored, or how good you did on some test you thought you bomb etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get more friends and pick friends who are always happy so you will think about happy things!. then i think you should play football and you will probably get popular for being nice and helpful then you can tell the girl you like herWww@Answer-Health@Com
Football and soccer are both great sports!. I recommend that you watch a soccer game on TV (Uefa Euro Championships are on now) and watch a football game!. Whichever makes you want to play that sport the most go with that sport!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
uh, thats sounds like a typical teenager, puberty sucks man, but you will get through it
edited to add: wait till you have kids and a family, you will pray for the days of only having to worry about which sport to play!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
edited to add: wait till you have kids and a family, you will pray for the days of only having to worry about which sport to play!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you sound like my boyfriend!.
He just let things happend, and just was positive about everything!. idk if that helped, but it helped him a whole lot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He just let things happend, and just was positive about everything!. idk if that helped, but it helped him a whole lot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
live in the moment!. do what your heart tells you at the very second you're faced with a decision!. you'll end up regretting things, but overall it'll be better/!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
seems like a mild general anxiety disorder to me!.talk to your school counselor or friends!.it might help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you sound like a normal teen, i am 17 and really indecisive tooWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, first of all, I'd say that most of your problems are associated with being a teen!. BUT, nothing should be effecting you in the manner in which you are explaining!. And, I can completely relate!.
My opinion is that you have a mild case of OCD which is causing you to overemphasize each situation and get caught up into each one making it so extreme!. This is so common and very easily treated!.
I would urge you to seek a psychiatric team locally and chose a doctor who can prescribe some safe and mild medication!. Additionally, I advise you to also spend time with a therapist that specializes is OCD!. There are many ways in which they can assist you in developing a plan to cope and relax/
I would also recommend that you go to the library or internet and explore techniques in breathing, relaxation, meditation and yoga!. These are a tremendous help!. Once you can look within yourself, you are more likely to have the ability to heal it!.
I speak from experience!. No teenager should have to think that hard about life in general, you should be cherishing every moment!. It's heartbreaking to know that help is so close and so easy!. Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
My opinion is that you have a mild case of OCD which is causing you to overemphasize each situation and get caught up into each one making it so extreme!. This is so common and very easily treated!.
I would urge you to seek a psychiatric team locally and chose a doctor who can prescribe some safe and mild medication!. Additionally, I advise you to also spend time with a therapist that specializes is OCD!. There are many ways in which they can assist you in developing a plan to cope and relax/
I would also recommend that you go to the library or internet and explore techniques in breathing, relaxation, meditation and yoga!. These are a tremendous help!. Once you can look within yourself, you are more likely to have the ability to heal it!.
I speak from experience!. No teenager should have to think that hard about life in general, you should be cherishing every moment!. It's heartbreaking to know that help is so close and so easy!. Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well I'm not in your age bracket in fact I'm old enough to be your mother but if you don't mind me making a contribution to your dilemma !.!.!. :)
Breathing techniques are good!.!.!. If you are wound up before bed start thinking about relaxing!.!.!. I I have a 13 year old and I'm a single mom!. I worry about him constantly and he worries about so much that sometimes I have to remind him to relax!.
Indecisiveness doesn't go away with age it's more of a personality trait!. I never know what I want to do or where I want to go!. I worry constantly about my education and since I moved across the country I worry about my family and if something happens who's going to take care of my son!. yada yada yada
Worry is a part of life but remember to breath and maybe even journaling all these things will help you to sort through the stress better!.
Also maybe if you talked to your school counselor (like I did and I'm 34!!!) she can offer you great tips on how to relax!. :) I hope something in here helps!. Even though I'm not your age I can relate to how you feel!.
Take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Breathing techniques are good!.!.!. If you are wound up before bed start thinking about relaxing!.!.!. I I have a 13 year old and I'm a single mom!. I worry about him constantly and he worries about so much that sometimes I have to remind him to relax!.
Indecisiveness doesn't go away with age it's more of a personality trait!. I never know what I want to do or where I want to go!. I worry constantly about my education and since I moved across the country I worry about my family and if something happens who's going to take care of my son!. yada yada yada
Worry is a part of life but remember to breath and maybe even journaling all these things will help you to sort through the stress better!.
Also maybe if you talked to your school counselor (like I did and I'm 34!!!) she can offer you great tips on how to relax!. :) I hope something in here helps!. Even though I'm not your age I can relate to how you feel!.
Take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com