I used to be a happy loving person?!


Question: I used to be a happy loving person!?
but on the inside now ( I try and hid it) I feel jeaulos and angry !. i want to be left alone with my 1 yr old!. I am hurt by everything it seems !.!. my husbands debt before you got married !. this is stopping us a lot !. i want a bigger home but we have a POS trailer with a broken oven My dryer just broke to and the dishwassher is junk!. this tailer is a hand me down from my sister in law along with e bed sofa !.!. iF i dont move soon I am afraid I WILL GO NUTS I want OUT I am not sure I WOUKD DO IT ALL OVE RIF i couldWww@Answer-Health@Com


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try to look at the positive side of things!. you have a husband, a child a home, your washer still works, you have internet access, etc!.

Some people don't have that!.

Maybe there's something you can do to improve your situation!? Could you maybe babysit, or find a job where you can work part time from home, so you can still be with your child!? Do you have a friend who knows a little about appliances who can come and look at your dryer and oven!?

Just try to be happy and see what happens!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok, breathe, just take a couple breaths to yourself, now, what i suggest, considering you have a child, is to take an online college course, sure its not as good as going to an academy, but in order to get a good job you need the education!. as you are taking to online course find a simple part time job that has time for your child and for you to have some alone time!. find little intervals of you busy schedual to just sit, read a book, or something, anything, just to be alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound like you feel trapped!. Feeling trapped can make you feel crazy!. Remember: You must protect your mind FIRST for the sake of your child!.!.!.!.whatever it takes!. Find happiness so that you will be able to teach that to your child!. Your happiness will be your child's happiness in the end!. Your child will automatically pick up on whether or not you are happy when it is older!. You need to be in a spot where you are free of the feeling of going nuts!. May God bless you always!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound like you need to go /wrist!. This sounds like an emo diatribe from somebody with a poor grasp of just how bad life can really be!.

Does your husband love you!? Does your child love you!? If you answered yes to either of these (or heaven forbid, both) then you need to stop your sniveling, put on your big girl pants, and grow up!. There are people that live in absolute squalor (which you, ma'am, do not) that don't even have love to cling to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur lucky u have a husband - things can still get worse - u better change direction and start heading towards a better lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com

how about make more money by getting a job !? or going to colloge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your crazyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hi Nicole H
Don't let negative thoughts trap you in an downward spiral of ever growing depression and guilt, negative thoughts start out small but grow bigger the more you focus on them!. You haven't done anything which deserves punishing yourself in such an way, you dont deserve to be tortured by an never ending spiral of negative thoughts!. Be kind and gentle to yourself, you wouldn't do this to anyone else so dont do it to yourself, love yourself as you love others!. You deserve it because you are lovable!.
Don't dwell too much on the past, you cant alter the past so try not to let it be an trap of pain and guilt!. Live in the present, try to take fun laughter and joy from each minute, even if your life isnt right now all that you would wish, there is still beauty and humour to be found!. Dream of an happier future, let your dreams fill you with warmth and joy, imagine yourself being places you want to be and feel the joy of it!. Dreams are wonderful things, and there is enough magic in the world to make them come true!.
Wish you well real soon love!. Good night xxx

Be happy for this Moment!. This Moment is your Life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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