I need help...desperatly...?!
Question: I need help!.!.!.desperatly!.!.!.!?
I'm a cutter!. A few months ago i made a promise to my boyfriend and a specific friend that I wouldn't cut anymore!. Sadly, I cut myself today!. I can't tell them!. I know they'll get disappointed in me!. I did it because I just graduated from Middle School, and I'm never going to see most of my friends ever again!. It gets me depressed just thinking about it!. I'm already in therapy!. My mother said if I ever cut myself again, and she found out, she would put me in a mental hospital!. I can't tell her or anyone in my family!. I feel bad though!. I feel like I'm lying to my boyfriend and friend by not telling them!. Should i tell them!? if so, how!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
This is a tricky situation!.
First of all, I'm sorry all this stuff is happening to you!. I know how your feeling, I graduated Middle School last year around this time!. A couple of my friends I wouldn't see for a long time, and one of them I never saw ever again!.!.so I know how you feel!. But try to remember all the memories you had with your friends!.!.do you have any of there adresses!.!.!.phone numbers!.!.!.aim sn's!?
Okay, back to the real buissness!.!.the cutting part!. I think your mom is wrong to threten you with the mental hospital thing!. A lot of teenagers cutt, and just because they do doesn't mean they should be smashed in a mental hospital!. So please, no way at all should you think your crazy!.
I'm sorry you got to the point today that you felt that you had to cutt, but you should tell them!. It may hurt, but you must face the scary truth and tell your boyfriend that you cutt once again!. They may get angry, but they will understand if you come right out and tell them!.!.!.they will respect you!.
What you should do is promise them that you will get on the right road to not cutting!.!.it's hard to stop cold turkey!.
I hope you know, that you don't diserve feeling this way!. I'm sure that your a beautifull intelligent person!.!.and that this is just a bad time in your life!. Its up to you to go to every therapy meeting and learn the root of the problem, and how to fix it!. Try to surround yourself with happy people and think of the positives!.!.because lifes too short!. Your life is too precious!.!.and you only have one so you should try to get rid of all the evils!.!.even it takes you years!. Once this stops, a huge weight will come off your shoulder!. You need help, but more importantly you need people that will support you!.
Best of Luck! I hope everything works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, I'm sorry all this stuff is happening to you!. I know how your feeling, I graduated Middle School last year around this time!. A couple of my friends I wouldn't see for a long time, and one of them I never saw ever again!.!.so I know how you feel!. But try to remember all the memories you had with your friends!.!.do you have any of there adresses!.!.!.phone numbers!.!.!.aim sn's!?
Okay, back to the real buissness!.!.the cutting part!. I think your mom is wrong to threten you with the mental hospital thing!. A lot of teenagers cutt, and just because they do doesn't mean they should be smashed in a mental hospital!. So please, no way at all should you think your crazy!.
I'm sorry you got to the point today that you felt that you had to cutt, but you should tell them!. It may hurt, but you must face the scary truth and tell your boyfriend that you cutt once again!. They may get angry, but they will understand if you come right out and tell them!.!.!.they will respect you!.
What you should do is promise them that you will get on the right road to not cutting!.!.it's hard to stop cold turkey!.
I hope you know, that you don't diserve feeling this way!. I'm sure that your a beautifull intelligent person!.!.and that this is just a bad time in your life!. Its up to you to go to every therapy meeting and learn the root of the problem, and how to fix it!. Try to surround yourself with happy people and think of the positives!.!.because lifes too short!. Your life is too precious!.!.and you only have one so you should try to get rid of all the evils!.!.even it takes you years!. Once this stops, a huge weight will come off your shoulder!. You need help, but more importantly you need people that will support you!.
Best of Luck! I hope everything works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sure your mom is really concerned about you but threatening to put you in a mental hospital doesn't seem to be very helpful!. Make sure you tell your therapist how you feel!. I think that you should convide in your boyfriend and your friend and let them know that you are still struggling with this!. Make sure that you are open and honest with your therapist so that they can know the best way to help you!. Good luck and take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry that you have gotten yourself into this terrible habbit!. Cutting yourself is very dangerous and can be life threatening, I just wonder why you take all you anger out with violence instead of talking with someone and letting everything out!. Try not to cut yourself, and try to talk to people instead, as for the real question, i can't answer, i'm sorry, and I wish you the best of luck! I hope you break the habbit!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't have to make promises like that to friends, and they shouldn't make you!. Cutting is far more complicated than just saying you won't do it anymore for them!. You need to have someone show you how to quit for yourself and no one else!. You need help with this!. You can't do it alone!. Tell your mother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call your therapist and talk to her you have to learn to really open up to your therapist or they won't be able to help you!. You should be able to reach them at any time if not whenever you are feeling depressed or anxious about cutting yourself try calling (562) 864-3722!.
It seems you have a fear of being alone bc you don't want people to leave you!. Understand that family and friends who truly love you will be around forever!. I'll be praying for you and good luck remember you are not alone in this world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It seems you have a fear of being alone bc you don't want people to leave you!. Understand that family and friends who truly love you will be around forever!. I'll be praying for you and good luck remember you are not alone in this world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to realize people leave your life, and it's always still possible to see them one day typically, if not, there's Myspace and Facebook!. You need to realize that what you lose you could create again as you are able to do so!. I don't think you should cut, you should focus your energy on helping those in need!. There are many changes this world needs at the moment!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm sorry to hear that!.you can email me if you feel like you want someone to listen to!.i know sometimes things like this is hard to control!.you feel like you need to cut yourself to get the release you want right!?then how about if you're depressed and you feel like you need to cut yourself again call your bf or your friends immedietly and talk to them!.think about them if you feel like you want to do it again!.really hope you'll be free from this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Cutting is a harmful way of expressing emotional pain!. Physical and emotional pain are very important part of being alive!. They are unavoidable!. You want to keep your word to your boyfriend and friend and that is a sign of caring!. You will be able to do that when you care just as much for yourself!.
When you encounter a painful situation in the future try to write about it ins ted of cutting!. Or try sculpting in clay or try molding clay to start!. If you tell them or not makes no difference because you know you did it and is bothering you!.!.!.!. You have to forgive yourself, heal yourself and love yourself!.!.!.!.
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When you encounter a painful situation in the future try to write about it ins ted of cutting!. Or try sculpting in clay or try molding clay to start!. If you tell them or not makes no difference because you know you did it and is bothering you!.!.!.!. You have to forgive yourself, heal yourself and love yourself!.!.!.!.
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Yes, tell someone but only tell the person that you are closest to or someone that you know can understand and help you!. I am sincerely sorry that you do this but you must help yourself but know that helping yourself means asking someone to help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to tell someone, that is a serious issue, it needs to be discussed with your psychiatrist or your school councler anyone who can really help you with this!. I would tell my friend and my boyfriend especially if I really cared about them
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Yes, yes, yes!. You have to tell them!. Just tell them that the therapy insn't working and you need more help!. I'm so sorry you're going through this!. There's help for you!. Maybe you're not getting the right kind to find the root of the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you need some help from your friends!. you should like hearing music to calmed your heart!. Memory card,digital picture frame, MP4,MP3,Car MP3 FM transmitter,USB disk ,Bluetooth Headset,digital camera, Game accessoriesWww@Answer-Health@Com
hmm well i dont think you should tell them, your mom could find out and put u in the mental hopsital
cutting yourself never helps you could die if u cut too deep and hit a major artery, try your best to stop talk to ur therapist be carefulWww@Answer-Health@Com
cutting yourself never helps you could die if u cut too deep and hit a major artery, try your best to stop talk to ur therapist be carefulWww@Answer-Health@Com
See if you can make a reminder to yourself, like a ribbon on your wrist, or a wrsitband!. If that doesn't work, I think you and your parents should have a discussion, a real heart-felt one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
come on bullet wound kid,
realizing mistake=punishment and forgiving!.
so forget, no need to tell anyone, just behave now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
realizing mistake=punishment and forgiving!.
so forget, no need to tell anyone, just behave now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to tell someone!.!.!.you need help NOW!. I have been through this, it is not easy, but you need to communicate with a professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dear you need to tell someone its not easy growing up and moving on let me tell you i was ther one day life isnt easy but we all gotta go threw it make the best of it and you will be fine find love in yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
id just like 2 say that im sorry you feel this way!.!.!.yes i think u should tell them when they are in a good mood!.!.!.i hope all goes well and just remember that u r not alone!.
smile once in a while =]
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
smile once in a while =]
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
listen to usic to get away from your grief
email me if you want such types if music
cos ive been in your situation beoforeWww@Answer-Health@Com
email me if you want such types if music
cos ive been in your situation beoforeWww@Answer-Health@Com
yes tell them go get some helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
tell them, absolutely, but why do u cut!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It would really be better for them to know, I think!. If you hide it from them now, it will only make them angrier and more disappointed in the future that you did so!. Tell someone you can trust, anyone at all, and see if they can do anything to help!. Maybe you could talk to your therapist and see what he/she says to do, I don't think they can breach confidentiality, but I'm not sure!. Not to try to sound like I know what you're going through, but if you really cannot stop doing this, maybe it is best that you stay somewhere for a while that would help you!. You may think it sounds ridiculous for your mom to want to put you in any sort of facility, but truthfully I think that anything like that which would help you to stop would be so much better than trying on your own and lying about it!. I really do hope you get through this, good luck!.
Maybe if you tried to tell them, it would help for you yourself to suggest that you get help!. They would be so much more eager to forget the past if you would seem ready to overcome whatever it is that drives you to do this and embrace the future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe if you tried to tell them, it would help for you yourself to suggest that you get help!. They would be so much more eager to forget the past if you would seem ready to overcome whatever it is that drives you to do this and embrace the future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop worrying about lying to them and worry about yourself!.
Think:
You are young!. Youve just graduated from middle school and youre depressed, ok!. But try to look at this from a different angle!. Youre getting closer to getting out into the real world!. You have so much ahead of you, arent you excited about seeing it!? Think about all the places you could travel to, the hobbies you could take up, doing something that you really love doing all day every day (instead of being shunted in and out of classrooms!)!. The world is huge and much bigger than the little space youre in now!.!.!. you can go wherever you want and be whoever you want!. Interesting people are everywhere and there
Think:
You are young!. Youve just graduated from middle school and youre depressed, ok!. But try to look at this from a different angle!. Youre getting closer to getting out into the real world!. You have so much ahead of you, arent you excited about seeing it!? Think about all the places you could travel to, the hobbies you could take up, doing something that you really love doing all day every day (instead of being shunted in and out of classrooms!)!. The world is huge and much bigger than the little space youre in now!.!.!. you can go wherever you want and be whoever you want!. Interesting people are everywhere and there
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