I feel like such a stalker.... please help???!
Question: I feel like such a stalker!.!.!.!. please help!?!?!?
okay!.!. my ex'es myspace blocks her comments so i tried to read their conv!.!.!. so i used m!.mypace!.com to unblock html comments so i can read their conversations!.!. my friend told her and now she is disgusted with me!.!.!. and i feel disgusted at myself for being such a stalker!.!.!.!.!. wat should i do to get over this depression or make things betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Well she feels that her privacy was violated, wouldn't you feel that way if someone did that to you!? That's totally disrespectful!. You can try to apologize to her (I would advise not to do that via e-mail or myspace considering the circumstances) however, I don't know how rocky things are between the two of you!. But you need to move on!. You made a mistake, you know what you did wrong, and you've learned !. !. I would hope!. !. !.not to EVER do that again to anyone!. My ex (was my boyfriend at the time) found my journal while I was taking a shower and read about how three months prior to our relationship, I had sex with my ex!. He made it into an issue and turned it around on me, saying he was now worried that I would go back to my ex!. Had he not been going through my drawers while I was in the shower !. !. !. what gave him the right to do that, I don't know !. !. he would've never found my journal, never read that, hence, never had to worry because I never saw that ex again!. That sex I had with my ex was closure to me!. So sometimes what you read can just screw up things more if you are reading stuff you aren't meant to see!. I never trusted that drawer-looking ex-boyfriend again!. !. !. it was like I always felt naked around him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ask yourself honestly!. You are just not being fair to your Ex are you!. Would you like it if it was the other way round!.
Next time you are tempted; find something else to take your mind off it!.
Keep away from the computer for one thing!. Then go out, or for a walk or telephone some of your pals!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Next time you are tempted; find something else to take your mind off it!.
Keep away from the computer for one thing!. Then go out, or for a walk or telephone some of your pals!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try saying you are sorry, then forgive yourself!.
Give it some time and it will blow over!.
She is an ex, so you need to remember that!.
After some rest, you should move on with something else to concentrate on in your life besides obsessing over her!.
Hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Give it some time and it will blow over!.
She is an ex, so you need to remember that!.
After some rest, you should move on with something else to concentrate on in your life besides obsessing over her!.
Hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
you need to redirect your attention to something else!. Try some new activities and seeing other girls!. Lighten up, have a good time and let the past go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
apologise to her and try and distant yourself from your ex!. its not healthy and you're only winding yourself up looking at her page!. delete/ block her and try and stay away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Find somebody else to bother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com