How can I get a personality?!


Question: How can I get a personality!?
I have no personality!.!.!.!.what can I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You have one: but you just need to develop it!. View the information and weblinks for social anxiety/shyness, and popularity, in sections 9, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris Examine the Wikihow articles, exhaustively!. Memorise some jokes: practice in front of a mirror, then family!. Read newspapers, and Your Yahoo: Reuters: Oddly Enough, etc!., and ask: "what do you reckon about the cat that gets on buses, and gets off at the next stop!?" Keep more on scraps of paper: read in the lavatory!. Here is an exercise that can help you!. It is called "Act as If!." When you are in a social situation, act as if you are outgoing!. Talk more, smile at everyone, ask questions, speak in a normal or excited tone, not a meek tone!. Watch some of your outgoing peers, and imitate the style of their social behavior!.

Research shows that when you "act as if" continually, your image of yourself begins to conform to your new behavior!. In this case, you will gain self-esteem and self-confidence, and begin to see yourself as socially normal!. You will become more socially successful, and this will motivate you to continue your new social behavior until it becomes a habit!.

Try this for a month, in every situation you can!. I am confident that you will become much more comfortable and outgoing!. Rewind your mistakes!. Let's say you want to change an annoying laugh that you have, when you hear something funny, your old laugh will come out!. You have to immediately think of what you wanted to happen, (i!.e!. your new, practiced laugh) and then do it immediately!. It will be a little bit late, but slowly you will start to pair the two together, and eventually your brain will become conditioned to switch the first for the second!. It usually takes 30 - 40 repetitions, to instill a new habit, with most people, so I estimate a similar amount, in the reprogramming process!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you have a personality by not having one! :)
Personality is just a word that's an idea!.!.!. i wouldn't worry about it!. imagine the word nver existed then you won;t have to worry and then you can be yourself - even though it doesn't fit into some gash personality criteria that you come across on magazines!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey i know what your on about!. i dont have any desires for anything or passions about anything or points of view!. in conversation i dont have anything to say cause i dont have an opinion about anything!. colourless and bland!. proberly why i just like to retreat into my own world and not engage so much with other people!. i know i should make the effort and i do interact etc cause that is what i am ment to do but it all feels so false and that i am just an actor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree partially with the first answer, but they could have been more specific!.!.!.

find out what you like and express it!. maybe you like sports, art, horseback riding, or even school!. do little things that tell people what you're interested in!. if you like drawing, take a little drawing pad wherever you go and draw in your free time!. people will ask questions and you should answer them confidentally!. don't be ashamed of what you do, even if others think its "weird"!. just because your hobby isn't common doesnt mean you shouldnt do it!.

whoever wrote that 2nd answer should be shot^!. suicide is a leading killer in teens because people are insecure!. and for you to suggest suicide - which they may have already considered - is completely irresponsible and inappropriate!. you may very well have just become a murderer and i hope you go to hell for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Everyone has a personality! My suggestion: take this online personality test: http://www!.humanmetrics!.com/cgi-win/JTyp!.!.!.

It will tell you which of the Myers-Brigg personality types you have!. The MBTI is a valid and recognized personality inventory used by professionals and employers all over the world!.

Also, joining a club or starting a new hobby will help you learn to define yourself better!. But, I promise you absolutely have a personality! Don't worry so much about it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Everyone has a personality!. Maybe what you should really be asking is "how can I make myself more interesting to other people!?" Getting off the computer is a good first step!. After that try developing some hobbies and interests, then you'll have something to talk about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Adopt a laid back approach to life, don't freak out at anything!. Remain calm and make jokes!. Everyone loves a jolly person, but don't be insensitive!. You have know when it's not appropriate to be frivolous!. Take up hobbies and sports!.!. read books and emulate characters!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey! I have no personality too it seems like!. well, think about ur hobbies!. join a group that u like, and meet people that u like!. be urself!. r u funny or sportsy or a hothead or a nerd or what!?! jis do things u enjoy and maybe even find a sweetie!. that could help!. maybe!. hope i'm helpful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't get how somebody doesn't have a personality, but ok!.!.!. find a hobbie!. That's the first thing!. Be nice to other people then other people will start to think you have a nice personality!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

We all have a personality just some people have better ones than others!. So don't worry, you have got one its just not a great one!. Work on it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have a personality
You just haven't figured it out yetWww@Answer-Health@Com

Everybody has a personality, is either good or badWww@Answer-Health@Com

if you are a person!.!.!. than you have a personality!. Just be yourself!.!. You're fine just the way you are!Www@Answer-Health@Com

get off yahoo answersWww@Answer-Health@Com





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