Do my thoughts seem wrong??!
Question: Do my thoughts seem wrong!?!?
Ever since i was a toddler my mum has been very sick!. always in and out of hospital!. My dad and bro were no help, just always angry and withdrawn!. I was abused by my next door neighbour (just kissed and hugged and stuff) but i was 12 and he was 57!. Now i am 19 and i have frequent violent thoughts and i like older men!. Does this seem wrong because i feel really disgusted with myself!. hating more everyday!.
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Answers:
Hello!.
People like you and I have an easier time accepting the absolute truth that all men are evil and that we are in complete need of mercy from a good God!. I have violent thoughts, too!. Being disgusted with yourself is completely normal because of the things that have happened to you and because of the mean thoughts that you have!. But it is also very critical that you understand ONE thing!. You are baeutiful and loved by God!. He understands!. Let him heal your wounds and self hatred!. Let him forgive you and teach you to love yourself and others!.!. !.!.He is helping me, too!.
Much love and understanding
SaraWww@Answer-Health@Com
People like you and I have an easier time accepting the absolute truth that all men are evil and that we are in complete need of mercy from a good God!. I have violent thoughts, too!. Being disgusted with yourself is completely normal because of the things that have happened to you and because of the mean thoughts that you have!. But it is also very critical that you understand ONE thing!. You are baeutiful and loved by God!. He understands!. Let him heal your wounds and self hatred!. Let him forgive you and teach you to love yourself and others!.!. !.!.He is helping me, too!.
Much love and understanding
SaraWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey,
there isnt anything wrong with you everyone feels angry sometimes!. I think you should talk to a counselor and get all your feelings out so that someone can help you see whats rational and irrational anger!. You may like older men because you have had a lot to deal with having a sick mom and you probably had to learn how to take care of your mom when she was in the hospital!. So i would say you like older guys because your on a more mature level than probably any guy!. So the older look more appealing because they have experienced things too and can kinda understand the things you have went through!. Dont be too hard on yourself :) Talk to someone it sounds silly but it helps more than you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
there isnt anything wrong with you everyone feels angry sometimes!. I think you should talk to a counselor and get all your feelings out so that someone can help you see whats rational and irrational anger!. You may like older men because you have had a lot to deal with having a sick mom and you probably had to learn how to take care of your mom when she was in the hospital!. So i would say you like older guys because your on a more mature level than probably any guy!. So the older look more appealing because they have experienced things too and can kinda understand the things you have went through!. Dont be too hard on yourself :) Talk to someone it sounds silly but it helps more than you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Councilor would help a lot!. You need to talk out these thoughts and feelings!. A trained professional could point you in the right direction!.
Don't be disgusted with yourself!. You did nothing wrong!. I was high strung with a hot temper at 19 also!.!.
Do you have any close friends you can talk to that can just listen!? Ask them to listen with out being judgmental!. People are so judgmental these days!.
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Don't be disgusted with yourself!. You did nothing wrong!. I was high strung with a hot temper at 19 also!.!.
Do you have any close friends you can talk to that can just listen!? Ask them to listen with out being judgmental!. People are so judgmental these days!.
Hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
hi
the violent thoughts must come from your past!.!.!.there are things you need to talk about to someone!.!.please talk to someone!.!.this is the best option for the progress of these thoughts to disappear!.!.!.
older men appear to me more mature, steady and you can depend on them!. i doubt its cos of your neighbour!.!.i think your neighbour is the cause of the violent thoughts!. i think you like older men because you never found any one who you could depend on and feel that these older men could be supportive for you!.
please dont hate yourself!. its not your fault!. its your pasts fault!.!.!.
but please talk to someone about this!.!.!.a counselor, a friend, anyone!.!.!.
speaking out will make you feel better
take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
the violent thoughts must come from your past!.!.!.there are things you need to talk about to someone!.!.please talk to someone!.!.this is the best option for the progress of these thoughts to disappear!.!.!.
older men appear to me more mature, steady and you can depend on them!. i doubt its cos of your neighbour!.!.i think your neighbour is the cause of the violent thoughts!. i think you like older men because you never found any one who you could depend on and feel that these older men could be supportive for you!.
please dont hate yourself!. its not your fault!. its your pasts fault!.!.!.
but please talk to someone about this!.!.!.a counselor, a friend, anyone!.!.!.
speaking out will make you feel better
take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
it's called being psychotic!.!.!. nothing to be ashamed of!.!.!. on the contrary, being 'abnormal' these days is actually the norm!. 'happy people' scare me!.!.!. the world sucks no matter how you sugar coat it!.!.!. so why are you so happy!?! o!.0Www@Answer-Health@Com
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