Why does this happen to me?????!


Question: Why does this happen to me!?!?!?!?!?
Everytime im around a guy i like that tries to hug me or be close i get a very very weird feeling!. it feels my body doesnt wanna b close, but i reely want to!? i mean i tense up and feel this feeling in my stomach!. its freakin me out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I'm the same way!. I get really uneasy when I get alot of physical attention at once!. By nature I'm one of the least affectionate people on earth and I'm very nit picky about my personal space; in fact that's why I broke up with my boyfriend, he was too touchy and it just felt wierd; I couldn't stand holding his hand for even 30 seconds; lol!. So, in your situation, you probably just have one of those personalities that doesn't like alot of attention!. It also has alot to do with the guy; that is; deep down inside, you may not necessarily have romantic feelings for him, even when you think otherwise!. So, to put it, your body and gut feeling knows best!. It could also have something to do with fear of committment (that's the problem I have); and a lack of self confidence, insecurities on your part!. With time and maturing, you'll open up to the right guy!. Best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

are you shy about something in yourself , or shy from someone watching you!.

YOUR SOLUTION is a lot of hugs, as yet you're not comfortable in feeling close to others!. so ti get used to it find your most friendly person & hug him long & keep hugging people back that hugs you!. this will go off by time I'm sure of it - but you have to make your part & when somebody hugs you!.!. try to hug him back although having this feeling & not stay back & make them feel uncomfortable having to come nearer them selves to hug you!.

Cheers Ian - MaltaWww@Answer-Health@Com

Has anything happened 2 make you feel this way!? If not maybe try talking 2 someone you trust!. Start with baby steps try hugging a guy you know really well & trust!. Maybe that might help or even a good girl friend so you get use 2 it!.Then once you can do that without freakin out try hugging someone you know but not as well as a really close friend, but still someone close!. But i don



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