I feel so trapped. Feel like helping me out some???!
Question: I feel so trapped!. Feel like helping me out some!?!?!?
I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder last November!. I come from a broken home/family!. I've lost alotta friends this year!. There's nothing I haven't done or seen!. The 3 most important people in my life is my girlfriend, her sister and my big brother who is more like a father to me!. They know all about my depression and what not!. My girl and I have been together for a year and I know we're in love!. But its another relationship and caused more stress then ended up with me being depressed for it!. I really do LOVE HER! But its like I've been through too much in every area to keep a years relationship going!. But I love her, but her and other things I've no control over are making me go crazy!. Its like I don't to be w/her cuz shes/everything's adding on to this depression but at the same time I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HER!!!
Its like if I never had her, then I wouldn't be so scared of losing her!. The innocence my life held was suffocated!.Someone please help stop my mind from screaming!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its like if I never had her, then I wouldn't be so scared of losing her!. The innocence my life held was suffocated!.Someone please help stop my mind from screaming!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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if you are diagnosed with depression, i'm hoping you go to a counselor!? do you think your girlfriend would like to go to a couple of sessions with you!? i think after your other losses it's common to feel so attached!. i'm sure you are in love with her, but your relationship will last longer if you are able to also be an independent person, and if you are more confident and have less fears of being abandoned or losing someone again!. you may understand your feelings better and she will understand you better too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you really love her, then why do you regard her as one of the THINGS that makes you go crazy!? And if she really loves you then she should comfort you instead of keeping you worried all the time!. Both of you have to give up something in order to make this relationship work!. I believe you can do this!.
GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try going to somewhere where there is nature!. I heard that helps a lot!.
And with ur girl, never leave those u love,
good luck man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And with ur girl, never leave those u love,
good luck man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I will try my best to give my advice to you!. I have a friend who is bi-polar and maniac!. She would always tell me her mind wouldnt stop thinking!. She had trouble sleeping and was always depressed!. She did not find enjoyment in anything she was doing until she changed her medication!. I can't say with certainty that this could be your problem, but it could be!. Another thing about dealing with life in general!.!.!. Life is unfair!. Nobody is guaranteed anything, you are wasting alot of time worrying over things that may never happened, don't get "trapped in the moment of thought"!.!.!.we spend lots of time with, what of, could of, should of, or what might happen!. Try mediating and reading self help books to try to give you perspective on what is happening!. GOod luckWww@Answer-Health@Com