I get uncomfortable when someone says that I'm beautiful; is this wierd?!
Question: I get uncomfortable when someone says that I'm beautiful; is this wierd!?
I'm a woman in my 20's and I'm not exactly sure why but lately when someone says that I'm beautiful and look nice, I freak out and kinda get p*s'd off at them!. I call them a liar and justify that they are wrong and that in reality I'm ugly and fat!. So, when someone throws that compliment at me, I think it's an insult cause I think it's not true!. I don't think I'm good looking at all!. Depending on my mood, when someone says I'm good looking, I accuse them of being on dope!. In fact one of the reasons why I dumped my boyfriend was because he kept reminding me about how attractive and beautiful I was; I even smacked him one time cause it was getting on my nerves so much!. I also absolutely avoid getting my picture taken at all costs and don't like seeing myself in pictures, and I sometimes get grossed out from seeing myself in the mirror!. I must be wierd for thinking like this!?!? What do you all think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It sounds to me that you have a distored view of yourself!. Sometimes with poor self-esteem it's hard to see what others say!.!.!.but I think you are overreacting to waht people say!. Try saying thank you and walking away and then getting mad!. That way you don't hurt people feelings!.!.!.IMO!.
I dont' think's weird!.!.!.it's pretty normalWww@Answer-Health@Com
I dont' think's weird!.!.!.it's pretty normalWww@Answer-Health@Com
I hope you don't mind honesty but you may not be attractive and people sense that you know it and they try to say it to you to make you feel better, I know cause I say that to some very unnatractive people I know and you have eyes and if you see yourself as gross then it is more than likely true,and if you were beautiful you would not feel like this,good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Not weird at all, your self image is aligned with an ugly girl,
that is who you think you are, so if you started thinking you were ok looking, then that wouldn't be you, that would be the death of you,
that would be someone else, that's why you feel so terrible when you are told you look ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
that is who you think you are, so if you started thinking you were ok looking, then that wouldn't be you, that would be the death of you,
that would be someone else, that's why you feel so terrible when you are told you look ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur NOT weird for thinking this!. i know i do the same thing!. like of someone says i look nice i wont say anthing ill think whatever!. but this is what u do, try to accept the comments and maybe even tell someone that they look nice as well!. if u seriously think that ur that bad looking then u might want to turn to a friend or family memer and talk to them about this!.
i hope i helped u! =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
i hope i helped u! =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you have low self esteem, or do not like the attention!. Lifes short, so enjoy the compliments and be glad people aren't insulting you as it seems you're the only person doing that!.
Try learn to accept compliments, they make your day so much better :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try learn to accept compliments, they make your day so much better :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
they're threatening your deeply held beliefs!. it's quite normal!. you'd react the same if you thought you were beautiful and someone said you were ugly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like some internal issues!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you sure they aren't been sarcasticWww@Answer-Health@Com