Self-harm and crying!!?!


Question: Self-harm and crying!!!?
Okay, so I want to really badly talk to this teacher about my self-harm, cuz he asked me 5 times, what wah wrong, but I said nothing, so now, he doesn't ask me anymore =(

I want to cry infront of him so that he asks me what is wrong, then I can tell him!. HOW DO I CRY!?!? CUZ I RAN OUT OF ALL MY TEARS!. AND PLZ DON'T SAY" THINK OF SOMTHING SAD" CUZ I TRIED THAT AND IT DIDN'T WORK!

ALL I NEED IS:

HOW DO I CRY!?!!?!!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
It is likely you have trouble crying for the same reason you self harm!. It is often related to a trauma history and perhaps you were not taught that relating to others openly and honestly is how to heal!.

Do not expect people to read your mind or rescue you from your pain!.!.!. otherwise you will be setting yourself up for a long series of disappointments and further pain!.

Try going to your teacher and saying something like, "Remember when you asked me if something was wrong and I said nothing!. The truth is there is alot wrong and I could use some help trying to sort it out"!.

Best wishes on your journey!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay!.!.!.!.!.!.at this point, you don't need to cry!. That is just an excuse on your part because you fear going to him and you want him to come to you!. He already came to you 5 times and you turned him away!.

It's time for you to man-up, go to him and tell him you were not ready to talk to him before but you are now!.

Tell him you want to talk to him in private!.

You new help and it seems like he wants to help!.

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i don't know how to make yourself cried!.tears come naturally went you're sad!.but why do you need to cry in front of him so that you can tell him your problem!.he asked you before right!?that means he care about you and you didn't want to talk to him so he thinks that maybe it's the best to leave you alone!.if you feel like you can share your problem with him now just talk to him about it!.he'll understand!.you can talk to your school or private counselor as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well usually it is sadness that causes crying!.!.!.so if sad thoughts don't make you cry then im not sure!.!.!.just go talk to him, say i no i said nothing was up before, when you asked, but i could do with talking to someone!.!.!.and maybe listening to a sad song just before you go up to him might make you feel a bit tearful!! xWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well, you dont have to cry to tell him your story, just tell him that youve decided to tell him about it!.

Maybe crying will come naturally when talking about this topics, id does to me most of the times and you dont need the effect of crying to tell this to anyone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't cry in front of him!. You'll look weak/emo!. Instead, stay as rational and calm as you can manage to be, explain your problem, and say you want help!. That way he'll know you want to stop and you're not just trying to get his attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't try to figure out how to cry, just after class go up to him when no one is around and talk to him!. If he has asked you 5 times what's wrong he obviously cares so I would just go and talk to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

think of a dead dog, go to internet and type dead people and check the picture, i don't know but please help us go to http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.

there a man that want to kill himself go and help him pleaseWww@Answer-Health@Com

by what u said it sounds like your just doing this to get the attention of your teacher!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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