How long does it usually take you guys to cope over loss of someone? and how do !


Question: How long does it usually take you guys to cope over loss of someone!? and how do you cope with it!.!.!?
I am 19!. My supervisor is bout 27, worked with him for about a year!. Its been about 3 months since he was gone but I feel like every moment I spent with him all happened yesterday!. He was like a long-lost brother and a parent I never had!. He's always on my mind first thing in the morning, and at night before I go to bed!. The thing is, I never knew what its like to have someone truly looking after me, I had a bad childhood and my parents were never there for me!. Since he came, I felt what its like for a such a short moment in my life and I was happy!. I never even knew that it is even possible to grieve over someone for that long, about 3 months now!? it'll go more than that for sure,knowing that it is actually possible for such a feeling to exist and I've got to experience it made me really happy but at the same time, knowing that he is gone forever, there is a huge hole within me and I've been so sad!.!.!.there is nothing to look forward to when I wake up first thing in the morning!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
The loss of someone you are close to is never easy and it will take time before the pain lessens to a bearable point!. BUT IT WILL GET BETTER!.

You do have something to live for, you can carry on his legacy of kindness and caring for others!. I am sure that there are other youth in the same position as you that need someone to look up to and you could be that person for them!.

Check with your local volunteer center, homeless shelter or other organization that deals with youth and get involved!. You can pass on the love and caring he had for you!. He will always be with you and you have many special memories of him to hold on to!.

Good luck and take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it is hard to get over losing a loved one or any friend you were attached too, but look at it this way , when our mission is over in this world we have to go and that will happen with you too!. we all will die one day!. what we have to hope for is that God had saved that person and his soul is with God in heaven waiting for it's brand new resurrected body on the Lord's Day and being with God in heaven is supposed to be our real home!. The best place to be!. That is why God needs us to pray with our heart for ourselves and for those that still remain alive so one day we maybe be saved and our soul in heaven when we die and our body is buried!. Pray always with your heart and always with praises and thanksgiving!. Pray from anywhere at anytime, you need not to go anywhere special to pray or have any formal prayer!. It is only between you and God!. Also read the bible even though you don't understand!. God is saving today through His Word!. "Faith commeth by hearing and hearing by the Word of God!. Ask God to please open up your spiritual eyes and spiritual ears if it is His will and if it is His will it will be done at the appropriate time!. He says in Daniel: 12:9 "And he says, go thy why Daniel the words are closed up and sealed until the time of the end!. "

Ask God, Jesus Christ our Lord for mercy and with your heart, then wait upon Him!. And we "are" living the end of time in these days!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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