I am hurting very deep and?!


Question: I am hurting very deep and!?
I've been lied to by at least two people in a very personal way I feel awlful and angry I don't feel as I should trust anyone anymore I am so tried of this and just want to sleep!. OR ESCAPE somehow I am hurting so bad I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO !.please don't be cruel I can't take that right now pleaseWww@Answer-Health@Com


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aw sweetie!.
We've all been there!. It happens because there are idiots out there who dont respect other peoples feelings! and u seem the realli sensitive type like me!.
My ex best mate done the same thing, she was two faced and now shes rid i dont care, because she wasnt worth my time or place!.
Just tell yourself that if they were worth your time they would be nice and wouldnt have hurt you!. Tell yourself that you will probably be happier without them if there sum1 to get away from!.

To let your feelins out you can go for a long brisk walk!. It sooths ur emotions and makes you feel better!. When you get back home, have a hot chocolate and put on a nice movie for urself and FORGET ABOUT THEM!. they arent even worth thinkin about if there a bunch of liars!.

Hope you feel better soon xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ah sweetie, I wish I had a wand that could make you feel better as I waved it the computer, but all I can offer you is the same advice as the others!. Talk to someone you can trust and who'll just listen, maybe a telephone counselling service if you can't get hold of a loved one!.

If you can't get hold of anyone to talk, try writing a letter to the people who have upset you- even if you actually don't send it, probably better if you didn't -about how they have hurt you and made you feel!.

I find crying into a pillow for a little while and listening to sad music helps me feel better!. If you can't get it out, distracting yourself can be a good way of dealing, such as watching a sad but uplifting DVD (or reading a soppy book helps me to calm down)!. If you can focus enough, mediation and concentrating on your breathing can help too!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There will be a handful of people in your life that you can actually trust!. It's sad, but true and just the way it is!. You have a right to be angry and upset, but you just need to deal with those feelings, realize that you have learned a life's lesson, and go on with things!.
Unfortunately, there are going to be people that let you down (sometimes people that you would have never expected)!.
You just be the best person that you can be and try not to let these things interfere with your life!.

Best Wishes To YouWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all realise that you are a person in your own right!. You have the right not to be lied to!. You also have the right to feel angry at being lied to!. If it helps tell another friend or one of your parents (assuming they haven't lied to you) when you tell another the problem will get better for the sharing!. Then move on If they hurt you deeply then try to forgive them or otherwise do not bother with them again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think i know how you feel, as i've just gone thru an enlightening situation with someone i cared deeply for only to find out that they are not the person they made me believe they were, this hits your emotions & trust very hard & makes it hard to trust & believe others, but as a part of lifes learning curves we must find away to overcome, learn & move on from the heartbreak & disappointments caused by others!.!.!. but hurting yourself & not wanting to be here is not the way you should be thinking!.!.!.
try & keep a positive attitude within yourself & reflect back to the things you know in your heart to be honest, real & true, as sometimes we overlook & remove the thing in our life that we really need the most & don't realize it till its to late & gone forever!.!.!.
hope this message can put a little sunshine in your day & give you some hope for tommorrow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's understandable that you have little faith in people after being let down, however you need to remember that not everyone is out to get you and not everyone is going to hurt you!. When you find a friend who you can be close to, let them in!. Forgive and forget, if you spend a lot of time wallowing over the bad, all the good will pass you by!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i know exactly how you feel, girl!. i have been betrayed by my very best friend (obviously i was the only one who felt caring towards her!. it wasnt mutual) and a guy who used to be my boyfriend and then i thought was a caring friend who understood me!. the way they both were so good at pretending they cared about me, how they would tell me they loved me and would hug me and kiss me and always spend time with me!.!.!. i never wanted to trust anyone else again coz i never know when they are telling the truth!.

but i can assure you, its worth it to try and make new friends, even if you can never be 100% that they are being honest!. i dont think anyone would want to risk never making a good friend!. trying out the bad ones means you are so much closer to a good one!. hahaha!. i can explain this further if you like!.

if you wanna talk about it you can contact me at my email!. i also have msn and yahoo messenger if you would like to chat!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Time and socializing!. There are different group of people everywhere!. Stay away from them for a while if your pain is so deep!. Search for similar q!. from Y! answer!. You will find a lot of heartache's q!. and their answers!. This might help!. Hope I could be helpful, but all I can do from here is to share your pain!.!.!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to be able to talk to somebody!.!. vent this all out or its just going to keep eating at you from the inside out! Its hard to be hurt by someone close and it does cause much pain!.!. but its how you deal with it that counts!.
I'm sorry your hurting!.!.!. I wish you well :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell someone really close to u
pour out ur heart
cry!!
it'll make you feel much much better!!!
dont trust anyone u dont know directly
give them time
give urself time
an try to forget the past
coz no1 is worth ur tears
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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