Am i doing anything wrong, or is god playing games with me?!


Question: Am i doing anything wrong, or is god playing games with me!?
I always feel so lonely!.my roommie who's kinda best friend i once told her that i'm real insecure about my friends and feel bad when they become closer to other people!.she said that its not a problem rather a good thing and she'll always take care of that!.but no she's been more of a *****!.she becomes more close to other people knowing that i'm getting hurt!.and they all think that she's a sweet angel while all she does is pretend!.like she did with me!.sorry if i'm not making any sense!.but she makes me feel lonely!.i feel like an idiot having told her my weakness!.as god would want i'd like to be in peace with everyone in the world!.but how can that be if i'm not at peace with myself!.man i don't want to fight with her but i want her to feel bad for hurting me!.i'm such an idiot i've stopped eating because of this!.and i'm already skinny about to disappear!.how can i know everything and still can't do anything!.help me!.only thing i see as a solution is to die but that's not easy either!.i love my mom i don't wanna hurt her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Child, do you honestly want to be happy!? Because I honestly don't think that's what you're looking for!.

God is not a bored kid, moving pawns aimlessly across a chess board!. No, he/she is not playing games with you!. And he/she is actually not asking anything of you!.

You need to move out, live by yourself for a while, maybe!. Move to a place where you feel most yourself!. Surround yourself by nature, and pick up on a healthy outlet, like writing!. Do something like yoga, or anything that requires you to do some independant searching!.

That someone holds so much control over you, so as to give and take away your happiness should alarm you!.

However, if you're looking for a companion, you can always email me, (:Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like a painful situation, roomie relationships can be, tending to be close and you dont have space away from ther person!. You can't control the person though, just have to control how you feel about it!. Its good that you can be honest with your feelings, too bad people seem to jab at soft spots!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Are you that dependent on one person!? You're crazy, a person has a right to go be closer to others and make more friends!. Go out more and make some friends, instead of classifying you're room mate as your best friend!.!.!.wow talk about jealousy and being insecure!. You should seek professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry open your self!. Don't tie your self to an entity!. Can you be stopped by some one if you wish to do something!. Go ahead and make your self like unbeatable and stop getting merciful to your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what the hell you people think!.will you depend on others forever in your life!.if you want to make yourself secure do it by yourself!.dont depend on others!.show her that you can do anything without her and enjoying!.she will give you more attention!.why do u care of such people who doesnt respect you and your feeling!.and never ever think of dying!.you r nobody to do anything with your life!.hello girl it is a gift from god!.dont go in to deppression!.you know depression is a disease first it will attack on your personality then it will soon take your loved ones,slowly it grabs your hobbies and by the end you come to know this you lost everything!.stand in front of amirror and say that i dont give a damn wat others did to me !.go to your mom hug her and do wat your heart say!.doesnt mean that if your heart says lets just die so you will die!.i will pra to god to fulfill all your wishes and everything you want dont worry be happy!.give tension to others dont take tension of othersWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, you'll always have to see her whilst you are sharing a room - but that doesn't mean you have to be best friends!. You do need to be able to get along though, so I would advise you to make sure you do not fall out with her!.
It's like sharing a room with a sister at home - you have to get along but you both have your own sets of friends!.
So go out and meet other people who share the same interests as you and enjoy doing the same things!. And when you meet up with your roomie, be friendly, be interested in how her studies are going, etc spent time with her if you both want to !. But don't feel you have to have a close relationship with her because you room share - it doesn't always work out that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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