How would you deal with physical bullying?!


Question: How would you deal with physical bullying!?
i need some advice if you where gettin physically bullied i!.e getting into fights how would you deal with it!? fight back or seak advise from an adult !?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Defend your self and seek help from an adult!.

Bruises and bones heal but if you stand up to them even if you get your butt whipped, you will feel better about yourself and most of those idiots will eventually leave you alone when they see you don't cower down to them!.

And if it comes to it, I don't fight clean, I fight to win!. If the a**hole can't breath he can't fight!. Grab him by the throat and hang on, he will drop sooner or later!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hello William,

I used to be bullied when I was in high school!. I remember my hardest time was when a group of my own friends turned on me and hounded me every day!. They all lived in the same street as me, so even leaving my house to go to the shop became a problem!. How I dealt with it was simple!. Ignore it!. Fighting back only works if you can really put them down, if you're gonna fight back and you know you're going to lose, it makes matters worse, they'll just pick a fight with you because they like fighting and know they can take you down!.

I would always suggest talking to someone about it also, I spoke to my school, demanded to see the head teacher!. That at least stopped it before, during and after school!. I suggest this as the first step!.

Bullying is very rough on someone and I know how hard it can be, parents and teachers are your friends in this case!. I was lucky enough to later befriend the toughest kid in school ;) but by that point, the bullying had stopped anyway!.

P!.S

What gavmel said about walking away is very true :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

The hardest thing to do is ignore it because it may not just go away!. This is one issue that makes people think they can give you good advice, but they may be doing more harm than good!. Some people like to say, "Fight back", but if you don't know how to fight, it might make things worse!. Others like to tell you to just, "Ignore it", that might not work either!. The only thing I can tell you is to confront the situation well prepared!. If you feel like you need to learn how to fight, you cannot tell your abuser to wait because you are taking lessons on how to fight!. When I suggest to be prepared I mean, if you decide that you can't take it anymore and want to "throw down", be prepared for what could go wrong, what the aftereffects may be!. The ideal scenario is that you beat the crap out of the person and are lifted on the spectators shoulders and carried down Main Street, but that might not happen either!. I'm sorry to say that bullying is just a part of life and there isn't much you can do about it!. One thing I did that worked though is, I called the person and asked why it was so important for people to see this person bullying me!. I talked with reason without showing fear and withut a crowd!. The next thing I know, the person just left me alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Think long term!. Get to the gym and work out, jog, weight train etc!. You will feel more confident and stronger about yourself!. This confidence is felt by other people and bullies rarely go after stong confident people!. And the added bonus if they pick a fight with you and you cannot walk away; you might win!. Get to the gym and make it your project to get fit and strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

bullies are a lot more insecure and not very bright as a hole!.!.they all show off when around there so called mates and you will find that if you were to get the bully on his or her own and stand your ground then they will back down from you!.!.don't show fear from these fools as that's exactly what they want and they will keep coming back for more!.!.violence is never the answer to sorting out bullies,,out thinking and out smarting them will get you where you want to go in life trust me!.!.

good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

take up jogging,probably best to fight back,youll earn a bit of respect even if you do get beat up,if you involve an adult youll be seen as a grass and might get bullied even more,thats my opinion and ive been brought up on the roughest estate in my part of the countryWww@Answer-Health@Com

This goes against everything that people say, fight back, if you get help from someone, they'll think your a pansy and pick on you more, if you show em that you're pissed off and you fight back, they might think, "Better not piss with this dude!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'll tell my parents!.but it's useless anyway!.but one day when i really can't stand anymore i exploded!.i scream until the whole class know what happen!.since that day they didn't bullied me anymore!.but they still said something bad about me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hate bullies!! The best thing to do is ignore them!. They are doing it to get a reaction out of you, if you don't react, they will become bored!. I would speak to an adult aswell, probably a teacher or parent!. :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You would be more of a man to walk away from a fight, thatn to get involved in one!.

I would seek advice from an adult, and also make sure something is done about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

best thing is not to get into a fight!. if someone attacks you, then I suggest martial arts lessons!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont let anyone bully u!.fight back!.!.!.!.if u dont it makes u look like a coward!.and then everyone knows they can pick on you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i would talk to an adult; or your parents!. if they don't listen then take action!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Id do bothWww@Answer-Health@Com





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