Why does everything always go wrong? why does nothing good ever last?!


Question: Why does everything always go wrong!? why does nothing good ever last!?
i have depression, and was supposed to be having a really great day tomorrow, but now it's not going to happen!. it was going to be the highlight of my week!. i was in an ok mood today, for once, but now i'm feeling depressed again because tomorrow is goin to suck!.
why does this always happen!? why do good things never go right!? even last weekend when i went out with friends, i was really happy at first, then my mood just got really low and there was nothing i could do about it, and it stopped me enjoying everything!.
why can nothing ever go right!?

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I don't know if this is of any help to you, but I believe bad things happen so we appreciate and value the good times more!. Sounds like you're going through a tough time at the moment and different things work for different people!. For some friends help, for others playing music, some shop, others eat!. Ultimately these are usually only short term fixes!. Someone once told me that they wrote down a list of everything they wanted to achieve in a day!. They kept it realistic and it became a "to do list" for improving each day one day at time!. When they achieved each task they ticked it off!. The first thing on the to do list each day was "Write out to do list", this was shortly ticked off and set the tone for a positive approach to the day!.
Keep the list basic, and build up some confidence as a result!. Then look back and see series of ticks and you'll realise that things maybe aren't as bad as they seem!.
Also don't be too reliant on others for your happiness, try to find the inner you!. It'll take time, but I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There are three qualities in a person- According to the eastern Philosophy books!. " Rajo", "Tamo" and "Satwa"!. Rajo Guna ( Energetic Quality) person is aggressive, extroverts, authoritative, Strong and powerful, TamoGuna ( dormant Quality ) people are type of sleeping or introverts, lethargic, depressed etc!. and the Fatwa guna ( Balanced minded) people are capable of managing themselves!. All these three qualities are there in everyman and in some one quality come predominant and others subside!. You have to bring up the diminishing qualities to maintain a balance!.
If you have a positive thinking quality, everything will be good for you!. But you have negative thinking habit and so everything goes wrong!. Try to develop the " Positive thinking" habit and you will see everything goes right for you!. It is a magic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just think positive & i hope everything will change 4 the best, yeah u're right that bad things do last longer than good but hun it ain't true good things always last longer then bad things but we just believe that they don't , i think that it depends on 1 person how they look at life if u look at life in a good way everything will turn out to be good but if u don't then everything would seem bad!. So just keep holding on & i hope everything will change 4 u =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Murphy's law which is everything that can go wrong does go wrong, and its the way you think, if you think that nothing ever good will last then it wont!. If you think love can last forever than it can!. Is all in your head and how you think and put things together logically and make sense of them!. It's your reality you make what you want of it!. Good Luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you need some medication and therapy on how to deal with things going on around you!. Try talking to your doctor about it and if you don't have one, then call the crisis help line usually found in the front of the phone book or you can look on line for one in your area!. You need help because you don't need to live like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

first thing u want to do is go google and get cbt for dummies, very easy to understand, an if u can afford it get the workbook as well!. In depression everything ur mind filters is loss, negitivity as well as hoplessness!. and when out with friends one of the reasons ur mood changes is that ur focusing inwards, try and focus outwords and on the envionment, people, buildings and use all ur senses, smell taste sound etc focus on the present and try not to fortune tell whats going to happen tomorrow because none of us have a crystal ball!. head upWww@Answer-Health@Com

use the secret!.!.!.!.tap in your google/search bar The secret!.!.there you will learn that your thoughts are energy and what thoughts you think attracts the same sort of energy!.!.negative thinking brings negative things/situations in your life,so it shows you how to start using positive thought to bring positive energy into your life,
so writing what you have will only confirm what you believe,it makes the negative energy stronger!.
it changed my life!.
ps if you have a myspace go to their page on there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel i suffered from depression for a while and you just feel like no matter how hard you try nothing ever goes right!. You just have to keep on going because there's nothing else to do and if things are that bad then they can only get better!.
Sorry things arn't going so well good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The problem isn't what is happening around you!. The problem is how your interpreting everything!. Depression does make a person look for the worst in every situation!.

You need to get help for your depression!. Yuo don't need to live this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think you need to get your therapist to put you on meds, this isn't working without them so i think you should try with meds and i think you will feel better

I'm replying to your email nowWww@Answer-Health@Com

EVERYTHING does not ALWAYS go wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How do u know 2morrows going to suck!? Its not here yet u never know what can happen!. Try to stay positive and keep ur head up!. If ur thinking negative, negetive things r bound to happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You ask why does nothing good ever last!.!.!.bad things don't last either!. Try to think positive!. When you see something bad, find the good in it!. It really does work!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Things will get better for you keep smiling honey!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Drugs are not the answer, I have been on them in the past and all they do is numb you!. I think that if you get up everyday look in the mirror and tell yourself TODAY IS GOING TO BE A WONDERFUL DAY then it will be, and you will start believing in it!. Remember the things that you believe are the things that are!. Whatever you believe is true!. So if you keep telling yourself that life sucks then life is going to suck!.
I was in and out of mental hospitals for many years before I understood, I am in control of my life!. of my feelings!. It works!. Start off with the happiness that it is a wonderful day only because you are alive and breathing and you can make a difference in the way you feel!. Try to do something that makes you happy!. Even the little stuff make a difference!. Like, taking a swim, or something as simple as taking a hot bath, or reading a good book!., some personal development books, Like The slight Edge, by Jeff Olson, The secret is also a very good book and movie (it works) If you need someone to talk to just email me!. I would like to know how you are doing!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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