Putting my life back together? can anyone help me?!
Question: Putting my life back together!? can anyone help me!?
i feel like i'm stuck in a black hole!.!.!.and i'm so exhausted from trying to crawl out of it that i don't know what to do anymore!.!.!.
right after i graduated high school i moved 2000 miles from home to attend culinary school!.!.!.i met some of the greatest people i've ever known while there, but i also had some really bad times!.!.!.the school i was attending turned out to be a terrible choice!.!.!.to put it mildly, yet a bit vulgar, dealing with the school was like paying nearly 50 grand to be repeatedly anally raped!.!.!.they screwed me royally, and like countless others, they harassed me into giving up my dreams!.!.!.after they rendered me homeless in new england in late fall, early winter, i still tried to stick it out as long as i could!.!.!.but by february i had to move back home!.!.!.i've lost pretty much everything!.!.!.my family is in so much debt now because of my terrible choice!.!.!.and i'm afraid to even try to go to another college because i'm afraid that they will think it was all my fault!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
right after i graduated high school i moved 2000 miles from home to attend culinary school!.!.!.i met some of the greatest people i've ever known while there, but i also had some really bad times!.!.!.the school i was attending turned out to be a terrible choice!.!.!.to put it mildly, yet a bit vulgar, dealing with the school was like paying nearly 50 grand to be repeatedly anally raped!.!.!.they screwed me royally, and like countless others, they harassed me into giving up my dreams!.!.!.after they rendered me homeless in new england in late fall, early winter, i still tried to stick it out as long as i could!.!.!.but by february i had to move back home!.!.!.i've lost pretty much everything!.!.!.my family is in so much debt now because of my terrible choice!.!.!.and i'm afraid to even try to go to another college because i'm afraid that they will think it was all my fault!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
first off nice wording!. =) lol
secondly - who gives a fu*k if your family thinks it was your fault ot not!. a family is supposed to fully and completely support and believe in you no matter what!
thirdly shiit happens!. so brush off your asss and pick yourself back up and get back out there!.
your in love and that is amazing so tell him all of this that you are feeling!. work through it together!.
I would look for a better job if you can barely make rent!.
You should start off small this time!. a small school!.!.!.never give up on your dreams!
While you are not at school or work on some down time take a jog which will help and is very simple to accomplish!.
I am sorry for you and those that say it is depression but i do not believe in depression!. i even had a parent go through that and i told my momma (i am oldest of 5) you need to quit being selfish and get out there!. you have kids to raise and you alone can make your life and yourself happy!.!.!.if you really want it!. So i am telling you!.!.!.!.forget those who don't believe or trust in you!.!.!.do it for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
secondly - who gives a fu*k if your family thinks it was your fault ot not!. a family is supposed to fully and completely support and believe in you no matter what!
thirdly shiit happens!. so brush off your asss and pick yourself back up and get back out there!.
your in love and that is amazing so tell him all of this that you are feeling!. work through it together!.
I would look for a better job if you can barely make rent!.
You should start off small this time!. a small school!.!.!.never give up on your dreams!
While you are not at school or work on some down time take a jog which will help and is very simple to accomplish!.
I am sorry for you and those that say it is depression but i do not believe in depression!. i even had a parent go through that and i told my momma (i am oldest of 5) you need to quit being selfish and get out there!. you have kids to raise and you alone can make your life and yourself happy!.!.!.if you really want it!. So i am telling you!.!.!.!.forget those who don't believe or trust in you!.!.!.do it for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Wow, it sure looks like you are pretty good at identifying where other folks have messed up your life!. Look at the control you have given other people over you!.!.!. "they harassed me into giving up my dreams!.!.!."
Stop dreaming and start planning!. Simplify your life to some basics and get your feet back on the ground!. YOUR feet, YOUR ground!. Get yourself stabilized, and then plan on how you will take the classes you want, etc!. while still being able to be the one controlling your life!.
We can't always do it all, or do it all at once!. You are young, you have time, cut yourself some slack and just get used to living independently, successfully, no black hole, just living in the moment and being in control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop dreaming and start planning!. Simplify your life to some basics and get your feet back on the ground!. YOUR feet, YOUR ground!. Get yourself stabilized, and then plan on how you will take the classes you want, etc!. while still being able to be the one controlling your life!.
We can't always do it all, or do it all at once!. You are young, you have time, cut yourself some slack and just get used to living independently, successfully, no black hole, just living in the moment and being in control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't completely understand what happened but that's not really what's important!.
You sound like you're suffering from depression/anxiety, maybe you're also psychologically traumatised (I'm not sure)!. The important thing is to find a way to move forward!.
Firstly, realise and acknowledge that something unpleasant and unfair has happened to you!.
Secondly, know that you are not the only person that these things happen to!. It doesn't mean it is unimportant or you don't have a right to be upset!. But you do have a choice!. You can let it beat you or you can be one of those people that others admire by picking yourself up and moving on!.
That can be the difficult part, finding a way forward!. I would suggest you get some professional help such as Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, perhaps counselling too!. Speak to your GP, they may suggest medication if you are deeply depressed or other treatments that can help you move forward!.
You will have good days and bad days, try to just accept that and push on!. Sometimes we all have to pretend we are OK and eventually you will find that you really are!
Don't put too much pressure on yourself and start small with your goals!. If you're scared about college, get a job for now as you can always go back to college when you are older (a job will also help pay the bills!)!.
Find a hobby or activity you can enjoy everyday (exercise and diet is really important if you are depressed) that you can look forward to!.!.!.it helps you get through the other parts of the day and helps you get out of bed!
Recognise the things that you CAN change and find a way to change them!. Recognise the things you CAN'T change, learn to accept them and move on from it!.
All the best =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound like you're suffering from depression/anxiety, maybe you're also psychologically traumatised (I'm not sure)!. The important thing is to find a way to move forward!.
Firstly, realise and acknowledge that something unpleasant and unfair has happened to you!.
Secondly, know that you are not the only person that these things happen to!. It doesn't mean it is unimportant or you don't have a right to be upset!. But you do have a choice!. You can let it beat you or you can be one of those people that others admire by picking yourself up and moving on!.
That can be the difficult part, finding a way forward!. I would suggest you get some professional help such as Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, perhaps counselling too!. Speak to your GP, they may suggest medication if you are deeply depressed or other treatments that can help you move forward!.
You will have good days and bad days, try to just accept that and push on!. Sometimes we all have to pretend we are OK and eventually you will find that you really are!
Don't put too much pressure on yourself and start small with your goals!. If you're scared about college, get a job for now as you can always go back to college when you are older (a job will also help pay the bills!)!.
Find a hobby or activity you can enjoy everyday (exercise and diet is really important if you are depressed) that you can look forward to!.!.!.it helps you get through the other parts of the day and helps you get out of bed!
Recognise the things that you CAN change and find a way to change them!. Recognise the things you CAN'T change, learn to accept them and move on from it!.
All the best =)Www@Answer-Health@Com