Lonely and depressed, i feel like i'm going insane...?!


Question: Lonely and depressed, i feel like i'm going insane!.!.!.!?
the people i care about don't even look me in the eye, and there's no one i can really trust!. what do you do when you look back and see an empty space!? what do you do when you don't even know what your purpose in life is!? what do you do when you don't even like yourself anymore!? what do you do when you are LOST!? have you ever been there before!? if so, how did you make it through!?


and please don't tell me to turn to god!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
hun, pull up a chair!.!.!.!.
first i can't seem to find someone who really cares, outside of my kids!.!.!.!.yes, i'm tryin
i've looked back so much i've gone in a full circle so now i look at the small positives from the past and improve on them now
my purpose is to live my life as well as i can!.!.!.!.!.try not to make repeated mistakes!.!.!.be willing to learn
some days i can't stand myself!.!.!.!.!.talk to myself a lot on those days!.!.!.!.
depressed and lonely!.!.!.!.!.add heartsick and stressed out too
lost can be a nice place to visit, just take an overnight bag!.!.!.!.no long stays
trust is a strange word in my life!.!.!.!.very hard to do!.!.!.but not impossible anymore!.!.i try everyday to better my outward take on things and keep the dull-drums inside!.!.!.don't do the anti-depressants any more, found that depressed me more!.!.lol
praying helped me when counseling didn't

a quote i hang on to (as a reminder) is from E!.A!. Poe:
"i became insane with long intervals of horrible sanity"
!.!.!.!.!.this makes sense when given enough thought!.!.!.!.

you make the choice what to do, no one else!.!.!.!.
one step, small is fine just move forward!.!.!.little positives become bigger and a set back is just a setback, keep going!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, I've been there before!. All you can really do is to look at all the good things in your life!. There must be something positive that makes you smile!. Don't dwell on the negative things in your life!. Replace the negative thoughts with positive ones!. When you wake up in the morning, look yourself in the mirror, smile and say "Good morning, beautiful!" It sounds silly but it's a good way to start your day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stop stressing over it!. Go take a class, meet new people, get a new interest so you don't dwell on your worries!. Take a clay class and learn to throw pottery, or take a photography class, or maybe belly dancing!. It will add interest and excitement to your life and you will meet new people!. Join a bicycle club and go on a bike trek with them!. The exercise will do you good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am going through the exact same thing you are right now!. Sometimes I feel lonely and depressed, because I feel no one cares!. You need to find something you enjoy doing and put your energy into whatever it is!. Just focus on YOU!. I'm sure that lots of people care about you and you just can't see that right now!. Maybe you should try talking to someone close to you or someone that can relate!. When I am down like this, I listen to music, because it soothes me!. You need to find what helps you!. This feeling that you have will pass I'm sure!. Things will get better don't give up!. You ARE important no matter what anyone says!. Sometimes, you just have to make people see that!. Good Luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

what do you do when you look back and see an empty space!?
- You realize that there was always an empty space!. You were just distracted by illusions when it didn't seem to be there!.

what do you do when you don't even know what your purpose in life is!?
- Is there a grand purpose!? We'll all one day be worm food!. The only purpose I can think of is contentment!.

what do you do when you don't even like yourself anymore!?
- You understand that "yourself" is mostly a socially constructed image!. You are much more (and much less) than it seems!.

what do you do when you are LOST!?
- Realize that there is no lost and found!. You're right here, right now!. That's all you can be!.

have you ever been there before!? if so, how did you make it through!?
- I've been there before!. I made it through by feeling the feelings (not pushing them back), and understanding that depending on anyone but myself for happiness or comfort will eventually backfire!. I realized that the problem was me, not the world!. I gained a different perspective, and kept gaining new ones!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i always feel like this!.!.!.!.well i just can't give you a answer to this because i honestly don' t know!. like, i'm not gonna tell you to go hang out and meet new people because it's probably hard for you as it is for me!. but usually i just read a interesting book!. IM or email me if you need to talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

get some therapy and quick hun!. you may have a chemical embalance as well!. miracles happen everyday, but sometimes you have to intiate them!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just take that next step!. Keep looking!. One of these days someone may look back!. Keep doing your best!. Just keep plugging along!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go hang out with some friends or something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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