Self-esteem issue?.. :[?!


Question: Self-esteem issue!?!.!. :[!?
ok so basically i have very low self-esteem!. when i was little i was teased a lot which doesnt help much and im really sensitive too so i take things hard sometimes!. my friends always get mad at me when i tell them im ugly then they try to convince me im not but it never works even though i get compliments often!. when i see people laughing i always think theyre laughing at me which makes me wanna roll up in a ball and disappear!. idk whats wrong with me!?! help me please and thank you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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There is nothing wrong with you, a lot of people feel the way you do!. When you are told something for a long time (kids teasing you, telling you that you're ugly) you can't help but believe it!. You just have to remember that you are not the same person now that you were then!. You are NOT that ugly little kid who everyone picked on!. Every year you are growing and changing!. Your friends obviously think you're pretty even if you don't!. It's going to take some time before you start to believe it!. Just try to ignore other people's comments about you, and make your own opinion!.
When you hear people laughing, look around and see all the other silly looking people around you!. There are lots of us out here! And in the end, just remember that the only opinion that matters is your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was alot like this when i was younger!. The older you get the more your self esteem seems to get better!. You'll eventually get tired of the way people treat you and you'll start to defend yourself!. One thing that seems to help me is smile alot and act interested in what's going on around you!.
Another thing that helps me is I use someone I admire, a "role model" of mine, and do what they would do!. That helps me cope with the situation!. The one thing you don't want to do is not say anything to the people around you!.!.!., they'll think you're being stuck up!.
Try going out for walks in your neighborhood or go downtown or to a park!. Sometimes being outdoors and actually doing something out of the ordinary seems to boost your self esteem and brightens your mood!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is nothing wrong with you!. And believe it or not, there are millions of people who have the same problem as you do!. In saying that, it isn't very healthy way to live your life!.

One suggestion I have is, if you are at school, go and speak to a teacher!. Or speak to an aunty/uncle, an older person you trust!.

Or get some books!. Go to your local library and borrow out some self esteem books!. Ask the Librarian to point you in the right direction, if you are too shy to ask about self esteem books, tell her/him that you are doing a project at school on it!.

Books are a great way to learn how to cope with things like this :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

get over the teasing part
the past is the past!.
and if you get compliments why do you think your ugly
and i know how you feel about the laughing part
i think that too sometimes
but just face it if their laughing at you let them
they either love you so much they spend their time talking about you or just ignore itWww@Answer-Health@Com

you do have low self esteem;, but sounds like you are paranoid too!. your paranoia could be caused from people picking on you when you were a child-- and could also be that you need some meds for this disorder!. i suggest you see a therapist about this issue noe--before it progresses any further!. you are probably a very nice looking youg lady!. you just cant accept that people are telling you the truth!. good luck god bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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