I miss my Mom?!
Question: I miss my Mom!?
I miss my mother dearly!. I will be 17 in september!. I lost her on Feb!. 5th, 2006!. I thought i was getting better!. But it makes me so very upset knowing she will never be here!. Is their anything that i can do to help a little bit with my emotions!? Therapists do not help, neither do psychiatrists!. Group therapy for kids my age who have lost parents was good so i may do that again in the fall!. For those of you who have lost a parent how do you cope with it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm right here with you, dear!. I lost my Mother on May 8, 2006, the Monday after the weekend I was supposed to be walking across stage and getting my Masters degree!. I'm 28 and I still need my Mother!. She was my confidence, my best friend, of course my Mother, my strength, my everything!. I can't trust anyone and I would have done anything, even given my life to have her alive today!. Try to do group therapy again because it is good for you to find others that are going through the same thing!. I try taking one day at a time but honestly, it's tough!. I hate when people say, "it will get better" because it doesn't!. I deal with it every day, every hour, every minute!. I do my best to honor her by making her proud of my life and taking moments to remember the good times!. But don't misunderstand me!. !. !.I still break down, I have bad days, I question my religious beliefs, and I wonder why and how I go on with such a big hole in my heart!. I hope something I've said helps or makes sense!. Take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I lost my dad when I was 18 (I am now 33)!.
What made it worse is that I tried to perform CPR on him!.!.!.I blamed myself for years thinking that if I had done something better, he may have lived!. But that is not true!. He was sick and it was his time to go!.
Daddy used to tell me stories and antedotes over and over and over again!. I used to get bored listening to them, but now they are such a comfort to me!. I see him in my children and I know one day we will see each other again!.
Time will be your biggest healer!. If you and your mom had a good relationship, think of every good story every good event that you two shared!. And I can hear daddy's voices and stories in my head, so it is like he is here with me!.
Who is to say your momma is not with or watching you!?
I am not telling you to completely rule out therapy, but I have discovered that you (with the right advice and strategies) can build yourself better!. You know how you feel!.!.!.
I wish you the absolute bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
What made it worse is that I tried to perform CPR on him!.!.!.I blamed myself for years thinking that if I had done something better, he may have lived!. But that is not true!. He was sick and it was his time to go!.
Daddy used to tell me stories and antedotes over and over and over again!. I used to get bored listening to them, but now they are such a comfort to me!. I see him in my children and I know one day we will see each other again!.
Time will be your biggest healer!. If you and your mom had a good relationship, think of every good story every good event that you two shared!. And I can hear daddy's voices and stories in my head, so it is like he is here with me!.
Who is to say your momma is not with or watching you!?
I am not telling you to completely rule out therapy, but I have discovered that you (with the right advice and strategies) can build yourself better!. You know how you feel!.!.!.
I wish you the absolute bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm so sorry for your loss!. !. !.I was a few years older than you when I lost my Dad suddenly!. I really wish I could tell you the secret to ease or lessen your pain!. !. !.
My coping mechanisms: I have been going to group therapy for the past 3 years, and I keep a "my heart journal" - for more than 7 years now, that I've dedicated to my Dad - daily poems, prayers and random thoughts - then I write my Dad's responses to times I had a similar problem - it helps me feel his presence and it comforts me!. Also, I've been blessed to have a family friend (he is older than my Dad was) who has been my surrogate Dad!. !. !.wishing you much comfort and blessings!Www@Answer-Health@Com
My coping mechanisms: I have been going to group therapy for the past 3 years, and I keep a "my heart journal" - for more than 7 years now, that I've dedicated to my Dad - daily poems, prayers and random thoughts - then I write my Dad's responses to times I had a similar problem - it helps me feel his presence and it comforts me!. Also, I've been blessed to have a family friend (he is older than my Dad was) who has been my surrogate Dad!. !. !.wishing you much comfort and blessings!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i lost my mom to cancer and i thought i would never get over it and i know what you mean therapists dont help!. i know what you are going through but as hard as it is you just have to know that even though shes gone shes still with you in your memories and heart!. never forget about her!. im very sorry to hear about your loss!. i cope with it by writing about my memories with ehr and also making those memories inyo the story!. i also write poetry!. coping skills are different with everyone you just have to find soemthing that helps!. im very sorry
best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
im sorry to hear that,i havent lost a parents but i lost a grandfather who i loved dearly last year !. try to think of her in a good way,remember the good times with her and know for sure that shes looking down at u and being proud of u no matter who u r !.shes watching u :) !. also before u go to sleep talk to her , and imagine her answering u back , ill garantee u that she will come to ur dreams to make u feel better !.
i sometimes get really depressed over losing my grandfather,and in the same night i dream of him telling me that hes ok and he wants me to be ok too, its crazy i know but it happens alot with me !.
its normal to feel the way u do !. just dont think of her as a person who passed away, believe that shes still with u cuz she really is !.
hope u feel better,its rough but hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
i sometimes get really depressed over losing my grandfather,and in the same night i dream of him telling me that hes ok and he wants me to be ok too, its crazy i know but it happens alot with me !.
its normal to feel the way u do !. just dont think of her as a person who passed away, believe that shes still with u cuz she really is !.
hope u feel better,its rough but hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
I lost my father December 13, 2007!. You never stop missing them, but you have to realize they would want you to move on and live your life!. I think about him every day, but I also realize that I still don't want to disappoint him, so I do my best every day to be a decent person and live my life to the fullest!. I know that somewhere, somehow, he sees what I am doing and I still don't want to let him down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We all have to miss our parents one day (or, them us) and its quite normal and OK to miss them when they are gone!. I understand that you sometimes think of all the things you could have shared with her and help and love and guidance she could have been to you!.
Firstly, you ought to come to terms with the fact that you lost her - this is hard, but I want you to be strong here!. Then its not that hard! Secondly, you need to determine to make it up for yourself (and her) by making the right choices in life and being happy!. Now, she would not want you to be sad, did she!? So be nice, high spirited girl and live up to her expectations!.
social wise, make lots of friends and play an active role in the peer group / club!. this will take your mind off brooding over losses!. I ought to know, as I did just that!. Remember, time is the best healer, and with time, you WILL get over it!. so have faith, be happy, be nice and live up to her dreams and in few years time you'd be such a proud girl!.!.!.!.!.!.!. not bad is it!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Firstly, you ought to come to terms with the fact that you lost her - this is hard, but I want you to be strong here!. Then its not that hard! Secondly, you need to determine to make it up for yourself (and her) by making the right choices in life and being happy!. Now, she would not want you to be sad, did she!? So be nice, high spirited girl and live up to her expectations!.
social wise, make lots of friends and play an active role in the peer group / club!. this will take your mind off brooding over losses!. I ought to know, as I did just that!. Remember, time is the best healer, and with time, you WILL get over it!. so have faith, be happy, be nice and live up to her dreams and in few years time you'd be such a proud girl!.!.!.!.!.!.!. not bad is it!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
They say writing a letter to a lost loved one helps!. It seems to give closure!. You can say the things you would have said to them!.Keep it and read it from time to time!. Eventually, you will find that the pain from thinking of her will go away, but not the good memories!. In the meantime, keep yourself extremely busy!. An idle mind is the Devil's playground!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
aww my mom lost her dad when shes 11 ,just cry it out and it iwll make it bettertalk to people about it wheen you cried alot you will be like why am i crying!?
i know i am no help!
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i know i am no help!
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its noramal to miss ur family
talk to people about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
talk to people about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
leave the past and just know she is always in ur heartWww@Answer-Health@Com